Ladies - could you love a person that could not have sex was physically unattractive but was a nice person and would give anything just to be with you.
Would you be able to spend your entire life with such a person?
2007-03-27 11:28:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am married. If something happened to my husband that he couldn't have sex with me anymore or something happened to his appearance, I would still love him. He would still be the same person I married and love. I would also remain faithful.
2007-03-27 11:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many different kinds of love in the world, and different people have different needs when it comes to love. I'm sure there is some woman out there who doesn't need sex or physical attraction, but just wants a stable and loving man.
But personally, I don't know any woman that could live without physical intimacy or physical expression of her love. It's not the most important part, but it is a part of who we are as human beings - we need to kiss and cuddle and hug and touch, and going your whole life devoid of that would be a denial of who you are. So I don't know any woman who would settle for being less than what she is, or settle for less than a full loving relationship with her partner.
So you could have such a person as a dear friend, but not as a real husband/love.
2007-03-27 18:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might sound bad, but honestly no. The relationship will fail. Most people have sexual needs that they can dismiss for a little while but will catch up. The unattractive part i can see that, some time the attractiveness inside will blind one from the outside. But the sex theirs no way i could be faithfully thought the relationship. You never know thou their could be a female who does not want sex, or have the desire.
2007-03-27 18:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by babyyapi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. So what if you can't have sex? There's other ways of pleasure. How you look shouldn't be a factor either because (I know it's cliche) it's what's on the inside that counts...anyone who says otherwise is kind of shallow. You just need to be able to show commitment and your good qualities to your love interest...that's all.
2007-03-27 18:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is pretty important to most folks but I really like the idea of
of growing old with someone who loves the real me. Besides looks and sex drive fade with age anyway. Can he still kiss I love kissing!?
Good luck & God Bless
2007-03-27 18:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by ☆♥•´`•.¸ ;-) •´`•.¸ ♥☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um... maybe... I am not that superfcicial, but this person better be really nice! and sweet, and funny, oh and play a sport, and have charsima, and compasion... if they had that WAIT ONE MORE THING! they have to luv buddy holly and the beatles ( especially John Lennon!) then they would be perfect! but i have a while to i get married!
2007-03-27 18:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by buddyholly4eva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I could because love isn't based on looks or sex, it's based on commonalities, respect and trust.
2007-03-27 18:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this person made you happy and they liked you for who you were.. everything isnt about sex and physical looks.. and if you were truly happy you would be able to spend your life with them
2007-03-27 18:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by xojess017ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Sex and attraction are parts of loving someone.
2007-03-27 18:30:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most definately. Being sensual doesn't involve anything but your mind. You daydream don'y you????Basically it's the same process.
2007-03-27 18:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by cora m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋