I thought she was the one but I caught her cheating on me with the quaterback from are rival team. sucks cause I'm quaterback for my team. Plus I loved her she said it was just a one nighter but I don't belive in that. She says shes sorry what should I do?
2007-03-27 11:27:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Our team won
2007-03-28 15:28:28 · update #1
31 to 7 yea
2007-03-28 15:29:04 · update #2
Who won the game?
Sweetie, she may be sorry. She should be sorry. But she is not sorry enough to make it up to you. It is one thing to say the words, but you have to show you are sorry. She has not done that, and that is the only only thing that could save the relationship.
You may not believe in a one nighter, but it is obvious she does.
Hun, dont waste your time with her. Get her out of your head and concentrate on that football you love more.
2007-03-27 11:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by love anyway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's awful! what a ho. I would never forgive her... and if for some reason u want to, then AT LEASt wait 1 week before even speaking to her, answering her phone calls, etc. Not only will you gain more respect in her eyes by showing her you dohn't deserve to be treated like this, but you'll find out how much she truly cares about you too. if she calls a few times, then stops trying after just a few days, you know her feelings for you really were'nt that genuine. if she makes every effort to apologize and win you back, then , only after waiting at least a week, you can reevaluate the relationship and thin kabout whether you still want to be with her. But whatever u do, don't answer her calls or call her back... then she'll think your a pushover and will easily do it again!
2007-03-27 11:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by katie colmes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she did it once, she will do it again. It is best to break-up with her now, instead of prolonging your pain. Just think about it, she didn't just cheat on you, she cheated on you with the quarterback from your rival team. That is bad. She is only sorry because she got caught. Believe me you are better off without her.
2007-03-27 11:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cheated on you. What do you think you should do? You do not deserve her and she definately does not deserve a like you who really cares about her. But if you want to stay with her then stay with her, its your lose. You really really do not deserve a stuck up bitc* like her. There are many other girls out there who are longing to meet a guy like you, so explore and change things up and if you dont like that idea play the game with, get yourself another girl just to make her jelous, because she may just be trying to make you jelous, she may be testing u. Do whatever you think is right. Whatever you pick will be the right thing. Good luck and trust your instinct.
2007-03-27 11:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you cut your losses now and move on without her. If she was as into you as you are into her she wouldn't have cheated with the other quarterback. People have a tendancy to cheat more than once. If you stay with her it will send her the message that you will accept that she does this, and she will continue to do it. You need to step away and find someone who will appreciate you for the person you are.
Good Luck!
2007-03-27 11:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by Spirit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're a decent guy. You don't deserve to be treated like that. It's ultimately up to you to decide whether you want to give her a second chance. Being a woman, I know that we're incredibly sensitive about cheating. I'm not overgeneralizing. I think you should seriously consider the fact that she may not love or even care about your feelings.
2007-03-27 11:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, let it go, never look back. You don't really want to be with someone who will treat you like that, do you? I'd leave now, before you're married, with kids, and home owners. Run like the wind and be thankful there isn't more at stake. Good luck.
2007-03-27 11:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say but it would be better to get a girl that wouldnt even let the thought of a one nighter cross her mind. u can do better but if ur truly inlove with her and shes truly sorry then u could try agiain, but tell her she needs to earn ur trust back.
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2007-03-27 11:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by so_totally_awesome13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in second chances, but when it comes to cheating i believe that if they did it once than they'll do it again. If I were you I would forget her and move on. That was a really selfish thing she did and you deserve better.
2007-03-27 11:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by Tennis2127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Let her have the other quarterback.
2007-03-27 11:31:03 · answer #10 · answered by Emiline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋