Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

I love this girl; real love, not the typical high school "i love u" , but genuine love. We've been together for an entire year, and I want to make her feel special. I've made a list for her; Please tell me what u think.
10) The way you read me like a book
9) The way you can tell how I feel without a single word.
8) The way you walk that absolutely stuns me
7) The way your long, dark hair falls on your shoulders
6)The melting feeling I get whenever I see you.
5 The things you say that make me laugh
4) The sweet sound of your voice
3) The way your smile can brighten my whole day.
2) The way you always see the best in me even when I don't.
1) You. Just you.

Tell me what u think her reaction would be.

2007-03-27 15:32:18 · 14 answers · asked by Yep 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 15:32:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

First, I'm a girl, and she's been a close friend since middle school. It's now senior year, and some things have taken place. She came out that she's a lesbian a few years ago, and i recently admitted to liking girls, too.
My problem is that i've developed, out of the blue, feelings for her! I don't understand it, i just know that i love her. But i don't want to jeopordize our friendship. Yet, i really reallly wish something would work out between us.

How should i approach this subject?

2007-03-27 15:31:39 · 10 answers · asked by mimi3252 1 in Singles & Dating

I've had it. I told him I can't take his drinking anymore, especially when he binges. BUT I also know I can only help him so much--if he is going to change he has to make it happen, not me. Should I stay with him while he tries to stop? Or shoud I tell him he's on his own until he can show me he is sober?

2007-03-27 15:31:29 · 23 answers · asked by KathrynCK 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Neither of us has any young relatives or friends with young kids.

2007-03-27 15:31:23 · 10 answers · asked by jaxson960 1 in Weddings

Guys do you add your ex-girlfriends on your facebook account? My ex has NOT added ame, and I wanna know why? OK I know we're not dating anymore but he still says hi to me on msn sometimes and he even called me to see a movie with him 2 months ago. When I asked him why he called me he said, "he wants to see me every once in awhile". This call came ONE YEAR since HE ended. We dated for a short while, then HE ended it. We never had sex cuz he knew I'm saving myself for marriage. So if he wants to be friends now then how come he hasn't serached me on facebook to add me? I will NEVER add me cuz HE dumped me & it makes me look desperate. If he wants to then he can but I will never add him. Do guys generally NOT add their exes on their facebook? and should feel bad about it?

2007-03-27 15:31:23 · 3 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

tthe,cripps!!!!whatdoido!!

2007-03-27 15:31:20 · 9 answers · asked by IMNOTOKAY!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean, come on doll, we aren't getting any younger.

2007-03-27 15:31:16 · 11 answers · asked by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Aaaaaah!! Hellp!!!! :) Ok, I've had a lot of weird guys have crushes on me in the past, but this is bad. Ok, he's in like, the 6th grade, and I'm in 10th, so...big difference there. Now, he's always pulling my hair, kicking me, calling my name, and even made a reference to me in a bikini!! And on top of all this....his mother is trying to play matchmaker!! She's always talking to my mom all, "Oh, Kitty's so pretty," and all that, but the one that got me was when she said, "Hmm...I can see myself being Kitty's mother-in-law..." AAAAAAH!!! Help!!! The boy is an annoying perv, and his mother is trying to hook-us-up!! What can I do??? I can't be too rude to them, because EVERYONE will know, but I'm tired of this torment!! I don't know what to do! Please, please help!!!!

2007-03-27 15:30:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in September. For the Rehersal we are going to have Stake and Shrimp and Chicken Strips for the kids. There are going to be about 50 people there and we're having a hard time figuring out how many pounds of shrimp we need. We're going to boil them in a big fryer with potatos, corn, mushrooms and sausage. His Mom said that she would just get 200 lbs. But we think that is way to much. I mean we're haveing the stake and baked potatos, etc. Some of my family doesn't even eat sea food. How many pounds of shrimp do you think we need for 50 people?

2007-03-27 15:30:17 · 5 answers · asked by warriorchic84 2 in Weddings

I am considering entering a relationship that would be 'friends with benefits'

I want more than this...but i'm not sure what he wants...if he wants more...

I've never had a serious boyfriend, or any friends with benefits and a part of me knows that i'm hoping that we'd become more than just friends...

Does this every happen? Or should I make sure he wants a relationship before i start anything?

2007-03-27 15:30:11 · 14 answers · asked by shy_gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

well this guy (joe) is my ex, he recently broke up with me last week (The week before that he proposed, and says we r stil engaged even tho we rnt dating at the moment) he said he was confused and scared, he was under alot of stree lately and wanted some time to think. im his first love.
i guess i understand that. he said that when he understands more we will get back together, dont know when that is going to be. well the day after we broke up, one of his friends that liked him asked him out and he said yes just out of whim. he doesnt like her like that and she knows that. but the problem is im waiting for him and its rly hard. especially when there are other ppl that like u, he says go out with them and that when hes ready if im going out with someone, that he will wait for me.
i just cant do that, it seems like i dont know how. i love him, and its rly hard to do when all i think about is him.
ADVICE PLZ!

2007-03-27 15:29:54 · 10 answers · asked by wiccan_kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

He uses her car, lives in her house, and won't even get a job to help her pay rent. She won't even talk to me anymore. I have tried talking to her without mentioning what i thought of her boyfriend, but she just makes up excuses. I still want to be freinds. Is there anything i can do?

2007-03-27 15:29:54 · 16 answers · asked by advicegirl 1 in Friends

2007-03-27 15:29:31 · 7 answers · asked by Loreana 1 in Singles & Dating

i know this may seem dumb but i really would like to know please do this.

om so heres my myspace url and girls between 1-10 10 being good what am i please judge honestly

http://www.myspace.com/da_cdawg

2007-03-27 15:29:31 · 7 answers · asked by THEguy 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this girl that i just broke up with and somethin is tellin me that imma regret it but i don't kno how. she said that she love me and everything, brags about me, have my pictures posted in her locker and stuff like she really does. But we neva see each otha like that, her dad and aunt don't like me(idk y), her grandparents don't like her seeing boys(which really makes me mad) so we only see each otha at public places and all that really pisses me off. Now she doesn't call, always saying her phone is going dead, and choosing her friends ova me. But she still says she loves me, and still want us to be together, even when i say that we should just break up. Should have i stayed or not?

2007-03-27 15:28:35 · 1 answers · asked by dakid 1 in Singles & Dating

So, I met this guy about 8 months ago...he is absolutely wonderful! He is silly, sweet, and has a strong love for God, just as I do. The only problem is I think I'm falling for him!!! However, I haven't told him this (I have ALWAYS let the guy make the first move) and it's driving me mad - I am just used to guys saying something to me first, and since he hasn't, I'm not sure if he feels the same way (I'm incredibly afraid of rejection).
How should I tell him how I feel - I mean, what words? We have such great chemistry, but one this one I need some help, please!!!

2007-03-27 15:28:01 · 12 answers · asked by inquiring black beauty 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, well i dont really know this boy but we both like eachother. i was with my friend devyn and we were next to him and his friends. he was watching me a smiling and me and everything. i told devyn that she should go talk to one of her guy friends because they were having issues.she said," no! you talk to him!" and that was so quiet luke (boy i like) didnt hear but i said really loud ,"i have nothing to say to him!" and he heard that. he thought i ment i have nothing to say to HIM and he didnt look at me or smile at me for the rest of the damn time. is he very mad at me??? do you think hes over it? its been a couple days and now hes looking at me again. today i tried to talk to him and he talked to me. im so confused......please help

2007-03-27 15:27:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few nights ago, my BF went out at midnight and said he was playing basketball. He didn't come home til after two. Do you think he was really playing basketball

2007-03-27 15:27:48 · 5 answers · asked by wkuchick 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my bf since January 14 of 06. Things were going well till he started doing criminal activities; stealing, smoking, getting speeding tickets...ect. We broke up in June last year, got back together a week later. He went to jail for unpaid tickets before the break up. He promissed to stop doing bad. We broke up again in october, 2 weeks later -back together. He went back to jail in november for the same thing. Well then another break up after his bro died in december and he asked me back a month later. He is now in jail for 1. unpaid tickets, and 2. stolen car. He wants to go to counsoling, asked me to tell all his friends that he wants nothing to do with them after he got out. He wants 1 on 1 with me, a fresh start. He also want to put a ring on my finger. He wants another chance. Should I give him one?

2007-03-27 15:27:15 · 15 answers · asked by hope 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months,in that time,he has never given me any compliments...we never even had a long conversation. No matter how much i open up to him he never communicates back. Hes like a texting machine,he texts me more than talks in person. I was always the first one to make the first move,he never hugs,kiss,or hold hands unless i make the first move. I gave him time,but he still is too shy. I really cant take it anymore,i know he really likes me, but i dont know how to break the ice to him.

2007-03-27 15:26:50 · 11 answers · asked by srf_grl102 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend broke up with me...and she has a boyfriend now.
It's been six month and we really don't talk that much anymore. She doesn't want to talk about our relationship at all.

I asked her so it's all over between us and no going back...she replies I don't know.

she says she still loves me the way she used to but she also cares about her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is 1 year younger than her and she is 3 younger than me. She said she is so confused on what she wants when she thinks about it. She knows i am willing to work things out whatever the problem that broke us up, She said that she wants me but at the same time she doesn't. That doesn't she doesn't know how to explain it.

Yesterday, she wants to come and see me. I said why...she reply i just want to but it's not to get back... I reply sure but then she said she still have to think about it.

I've been single and stopped calling her. I was good to her. If it we meant to be together she'll come back...right?

2007-03-27 15:26:49 · 4 answers · asked by Good and Evil 2 in Singles & Dating

So I have always thought the mailman at my work was verry verry cute. We have always made eye contact but this past two months he'll look at me more, and then smile really sweetly at me and check me out. And I think he is interested he asked one of my co-workers about me. But he has never said a single word to me not even hi ( I haven't said anything either ) . Whats the deal? I try to walk by him and smile at him or what not but ... I don't believe in making the first move, if he was really really interested he'd say something right? I don't know how older men act or flirt (he looks about late 20's or early 30's) and I am twenty. Help a girl out =) Thanks..

2007-03-27 15:26:48 · 5 answers · asked by love2002 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy but he doesnt even look at me but when he does he askes me if my head hurts cause i hit it on a car door. Does he like me back or not?

and what are those point things for??

thanx

2007-03-27 15:26:34 · 7 answers · asked by shorty 2 in Singles & Dating

when a guys says that he wants to slow down and pace himself with you.i mean everything has been great for about 2 and half months.spending alot of time together, going out together, introduces you to his mother and child, and lets you stay at his house til gets home from work.all of this without it being said that yall are in a committed relationship.now all of sudden its moving too fast. what the hell?

2007-03-27 15:26:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This morning me and my friends walked past the guy(lets call him DG-wich r his intials) that I think is hot.. he almost always turns around and looks at me(thats wat my friends say).
well, when we walked past DG the second time, he was standing wih one of his friends...when I turned around to see where my friends were walking, I saw him at the end of the hall(we were half way up the hall) and I heard his friend say "why don't you just go get her?"...they bother were looking at me when he said that to DG... does that mean he could like me?
DG-junior in h/s
me-freshman in h/s

2007-03-27 15:26:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys do you add your ex-girlfriends on your facebook account? My ex has NOT added ame, and I wanna know why? OK I know we're not dating anymore but he still says hi to me on msn sometimes and he even called me to see a movie with him 2 months ago. When I asked him why he called me he said, "he wants to see me every once in awhile". This call came ONE YEAR since HE ended. We dated for a short while, then HE ended it. We never had sex cuz he knew I'm saving myself for marriage. So if he wants to be friends now then how come he hasn't serached me on facebook to add me? I will NEVER add me cuz HE dumped me & it makes me look desperate. If he wants to then he can but I will never add him. Do guys generally NOT add their exes on their facebook? and should feel bad about it?

2007-03-27 15:25:58 · 3 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

If you don't think it is, why are so many guys go to other countries to look for virgins, and there are even procedure invented that call vaginal rejuvination. My husband seemed happy when I lost it to him, even though, he said he doesn't care

2007-03-27 15:25:14 · 1 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married 22 years with a up and down marriage. the last 2 years a guy who i don't know has been taking notice of me! waving at me smiling. that has gone on for a long time, now he is coming into my work{ i am a waitress} with his friend! He flurts with me with a smile or a wink. I just found out he is also married! I think to myself is he happy? Well for the rest of the story when ever i see him coming, my whole body shakes so bad. I am 40 years old and have never experienced that. This whole thing is driving me crazy on what to do. We only live once, what if he is my soul mate? i want to write a note and give it to him, something simple but to the point. Don't you think a guy should now thats what he is doing to a girl. Or will i scare him off. Will he stop coming into my work? as it is now what do I have to lose.

2007-03-27 15:24:58 · 12 answers · asked by rosebud 1 in Singles & Dating

my best guyfriend said, he dreamed this about me:

first i took your clothes off "all of them " i licked ur nipples and they tasted quite well then i looked at your body and i cant believe i dreamt this but i eat ur female part didn't taste quite bad either the good part was next and we both enjoyed it but this was all a dream for now

2007-03-27 15:24:42 · 15 answers · asked by North Cali Girl 1 in Friends