Here is some background information. My husband used to smoke weed and drink beer everyday. He quit smoking about 4 yrs ago and now drinks beer everyday. We have 3 children, and I'm now 8mos pregnant with our 4th. I've never been a big drinker so this question doesn't warrant an answer of I'm just mad because I'm pregnant and can't drink. Anyways, I understand that he works hard at work all day and would like to unwind. I work hard as well taking care of our 3 daughters day in and day out. Well he comes home from work, goes to Blockbuster and gets a movie, and gets a 12pack of beer. That 12 pack is usually gone by the time his movie is over or at least half of the 12. He doesn't pay me any attention, no cuddling, no hugging, no sex, and during the day he doesn't even call me to see how everything is going. I feel like I'm being pushed aside and coming second to his beer. Am I just being a bit$@, or do I have a legitimate argument with him about feeling neglected?
2007-03-27
15:37:50
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rostajparker
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Marriage & Divorce