me and my x have been on and off for 3 years and are last relationship lasted a year and she says she doesnt love me anymore but idk if i should try to get over her or just wait and see if shell come back to me i really do love her... so should i wait for her or not please anwser i need ur help
2007-03-27 15:38:42 · 13 answers · asked by mike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go out and get laid, meet other people, if she gives you a booty call then hit it if you want or nto. you will meet someone else.
2007-03-27 19:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has asked you to move on..... but can u really do that? after reading these posts, i am sure you feel a little relieved but when it comes to making a desicion, can you do it? it's tough! yes, you love her but this love is making you a fool...someone says, what love has got to do with it?
you need to get over the pain you r going thru first of all...ask yourself is it really worth the pain waiting on for so long not knowing if she is gonna be yours one day.
Love is not a bad thing but to love someone wrong is so painful, you will be hurt at the end of the day.
Take one step at a time and think this thru....
i would suggest that you talk to her seriously.... let her tell you what her plans for you guys are in the future....based on that, make your decision....it's better that way than to dump her not really knowing what is it she wants in this relationship eventhough she says she doesn't love you.....cuz you know what you want....
once the decision is made, don't look back cuz you will only repeat the episodes.
2007-03-27 23:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't love you. I would just move on. It's no point on waiting. Usually when your on and off that means your unsure of yourself. Could be wrong no offense. But there are plenty of other girls out there to take her place. Go for it, what do you have to lose. She said she doesn't love you so there shouldn't be any problems unless she is lying. Plus she had three years to decide. I feel that is more then enough time to decide.
2007-03-27 22:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by Successor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like u should move on.
If you wait...how long u plan on waiting? and if she said she doesnt love u anymore, why would u want to be with some 1 that has told you that. u love her and she doesnt love u... does that sound like its going to work out?
move on dude
2007-03-27 22:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sorry to hear you have split from your girlfriend , but im affraid you will have to get over her you cant make someone love you , once you move on you will find someone that will love you back and you both will be happy together you will always have your memories of your ex but as time goes by it will get easier good luck
2007-03-27 22:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for her, move on, meet new people, you will realise that love shouldn't take this much work, if you guys are on and off again, maybe you shouldn't be together anymore...
2007-03-27 22:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jasmina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get over her, it sounds to me like she is just playing with your heart and knows how much you want her and knows that if something else dosent work out then you will be their willing an ready to take her back. Your relationship with her has run iits course and its tim to move on and find someone new
2007-03-27 22:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say try to get over her, you don't want to keep going through this kind of mess for another 3 years do you?
2007-03-27 22:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why even bother she said she doesnt love you,Im sure she moved on so you need to move on.I am positive someone better who will love you will come your way.
2007-03-27 22:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Candy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not sound like a very good relationship. Move on you might find yourself happier w/ someone eles.
2007-03-27 22:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel your pain hun... it never is easy getting over someone that you truley loved like that. im sure you two will work it out. well, if you guys have been on an off for two years, then im sure it will work out smoothly. good luck!
2007-03-27 22:43:52 · answer #11 · answered by miranda r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋