Are men turned off by a career oriented woman? I mean, I'm not a "climb the corporate ladder" kind of girl but I am serious about my job. I just recently became a teacher and work with elementary/special ed students. I am really passionate about teaching and take my responsibilites very seriously. Do guys see this as a turn off?
2007-03-27 15:35:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no this is not a problem in fact a real man would respect the fact that you have a career and ambition. Good luck with your job and be patient you will find a guy who respects what you do and accepts you for that
2007-03-27 15:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by james s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see it as a turn off at all, but I think you will both need to be on the same page about future children. But a woman who is out there working and making a difference, I think it is great!
2007-03-27 15:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys who aren't looking for serious involvement, or say marriage, would be turned off by that.
depends on whether you are dating, or actually want to settle down. the guys looking to settle would like that sort of thing.
As one of the guys who isn't looking to settle, and actually works in a school (as a mentor, not a teacher), I'd say the females who work in the school as teachers just seem to have a general desire to settle about them.
When confronted about this, they deny it, yet everything they say they want in a guy, or the guys they pick, tend to be the kinds of "older" guys, or not really the adventurous or not settling man, meh.
However, I'd say, me and the guys I work with (we're in our mid 20's) all agree that even the teachers who try to seem "scandalous" just seem old to us, even though they are like a year older, if that. There's just something about teacher that says "old." There are guys who will say there's some sort of "wanting to be dominated by a teacher" fetish that all guys have, but those guys are strange.
Depends who you're looking for.
2007-03-27 15:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by thesuitmencometh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nahhhh thats not a turn off teachers are a fine job for your girl to have. other jobs may turn a guy off. but only if there lloking for marrage and kids if you have a full time job what guy wants to be turnned into mr mom. teacher works good with having kids and are kinda sexy =]
2007-03-27 15:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they do they are morons.... what is more sexy than a successful women on your arm even if she is more successful than the man.. Second you have a very important and unappreciated job a teacher.. you are fighting the good fight at a sacrifice to your income.. i wish i could send my 2year old to you or find someone when she goes to school as passionate you.. do your thing.. a confident man will find you if not already....
2007-03-28 10:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by AKAPAC69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man that can't handle a woman in a position, such as yours, is immature and lacking self-confidence. A confident, successful woman is always a turn on!!!!
2007-03-27 15:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some do. it just depends on the guy. You have to put relationships first, then the job will fall in place. If you have a good relationship you will be better at your pprofession. it all goes hand in hand
2007-03-27 15:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by rizinoutlaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good to me. Do you have time for a man in your life. If not don't lead him on. He will need your full attention for at least a few hours every week.
2007-03-27 15:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as that it not the only thing you care about and have other interests, I wouldn't say so. You should enjoy the job you have and if you can be pationate about it, kudos!
2007-03-27 15:39:28 · answer #9 · answered by mikeztheman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
I can deal with it as long as it doesnt take away too much from the relationship
2007-03-27 15:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by Jimmy Dean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋