Okay, I have been friends with this boy for as long as I can remember and always used to like him. However, I was too scared to do anything about it, and when we got to high school my feelings completely changed. I have a boyfriend now, and I love him a lot, but the other night the other guy told me he was still in love with me and would do anything for me. I don't feel the same way back, but what should i do since we hang out with the same people?
2007-03-27 15:32:44 · 7 answers · asked by Mody1704 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Another question... should I tell my boyfriend about it?
2007-03-27 16:14:20 · update #1
I can understand your situation, and due to the fact that you're an empathetic person, I think you're feeling a little (for lack of a better word) bad for not feeling the same way. If you do not feel the same way, then don't put yourself in a situation where you think you have to choose between what YOU want and what HE wants. Real friends wouldn't put you in that kind of position, but from the sounds of it, it doesn't really seem like it. I think it's fair that he had let his feelings known to you and I hope you can appreciate his honesty. Bottom line, if he really loved you, then he'll understand that love sometimes means letting go so that the other person is happy (which in this case is you). Do not ignore your friends or him because of the bit of awkwardness. If I were you, I'd still hang around just to let him know that I'm still his friend and that I care. Let him decide whether or not to get over you and keep you as a friend or move on. I wish you the best with this.
2007-03-27 15:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by Natalia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd sell off him asap. If he likes a different woman and he or she him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? Real love does not play video games or have wandering eyes, it is dedicated and rough paintings. You MUST see this as a crimson flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your younger, i am guessing, you should not also be for the reason that a SERIOUS courting that's going to reason you lack of confidence. Have amusing, do not end up overly invested on this, WHAT? you can not flirt? Move on, the writing is at the wall and it spells hindrance. Do your self a prefer and reduce the man free, whether it is destined to be, it'll run it is path and he will be again. But why you could take him again most effective you'll be able to reply.
2016-09-05 18:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by hern 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Tell him that you currently love your boyfriend and don't have those particular feelings for him anymore, but you do still want to be friends with him. If he does care for you, he'll respect your wishes. Just reassure him that there is someone out there for him. Even though there are no romantic sparks from your side, just continue to be a good friend to him. He'll be more than appreciative for it.
Hope this helps.
2007-03-27 15:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by Shandra S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First wear a loose shirt that allows him to get a peek at your ubangies when you bend over.
next play with his kickstand
share your nose snacks with him and help him dig his out.
2007-03-27 15:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by Darriruss O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you value his friendship, be completely honest with him. If he's a good guy, he'll understand. If he doesn't and goes psyco, then you probably shouldn't be his friend anyways ;)
2007-03-27 15:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by jennifer j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a cheeseburger
2007-03-27 15:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by WangDangSweetPoontang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um just stop talking to him...are u sure u really dont like him nomore...dont be to sure
2007-03-27 15:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋