want to move even tho we have to because a man is harassing me in very strange ways, ways that you can't call the police about. I threatened to break up with my fiance tonight over the lust part and the moving out will be hard on him. I really love him but sometimes I just want to walk away. He looks at women like they are heavenly creatures or something, right in front of me ! We have been together a year and a half. I have already talked to him before about the woman part. I don't really think he can help it sometimes. As for the moving out part, it will be hard on him and I am not sure if he wants to do it. That could be a dealbreaker. He loves me and I love him but its very hard. Should I just walk away ?
2007-03-27 15:36:57 · 10 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are men. They look everywhere in very dumb places.
A fun way to test his love is have a friend of yours he doesnt really know prank call him to ask him to meet.
Then if he sasy "ok" get rid of him. If he says "sorry, no"
you can trust this guy.
oh, this will especially work if he watches a specific woman for a few minutes when you are out somewhere,
and your friend should say on the phone "hi, i saw you in the _____ today. My names Lucy."
this can actually work, but MAKE SURE he does NOT fidn out if he says "no".
k, hope that helped!
2007-03-27 15:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by -:-vInTaGe PaSsIon-:- 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong with guys checking out other women? If you are that jealous that he cant even look at another woman, you are the insecure one. When I get a girlfriend, she can look at every guy for all I care, just keep her hands to herself.
2007-03-27 16:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question, if he lusts after other women, what is going to stop him if one takes him up on a offer of a hop in the bed, bail out, if he respected you he would of quit already, find someone who shows you the respect you deserve.
2007-03-27 15:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by Right 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are foolishly enough to not to do anything about it. He will learn like I did.
If a guy bothers you next time tell him to leave you alone. Worn him and call the police.
2007-03-27 15:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mattman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you dating this guy???
if he doesnt stop looking at girls as you put it, just leave him. and yes moving is hard on people, but if this other guy is harassing you and you dont like it, you can go to the police about it.
2007-03-27 15:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by climberguy12 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with looking at another woman..I mean at least he isnt trying to touch her or crawl in bed with her. I say let him look all he wants, and wait until you get him in bed and have your sex fun with him. Let him get all worked up over this woman, and take avantage of him afterwards in bed.
2007-03-27 15:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by CenTexan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy C-rap. Get a grip ya big baby. If he want to look let him look, it probably b/c you're not giving him enough attention. Actually...yes...walk away. It will be best for him.
2007-03-27 15:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by ushoveit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
report to police immediately.
what ever it is and how ever trivial it may be.
and yes sad it is though but chuk your boy friend.
you wont have a good life with him.
2007-03-27 15:43:05 · answer #8 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's relatively disrespectful of him. i be attentive to that my husband ought to locate different women folk eye-catching yet I additionally be attentive to that he'd have a knot on his head if he ever gawked at one in front of me. I did have a issue with my ex on the different hand, doing that from time to time. i found that my suitable therapy grow to be to combat hearth with hearth and lustfully lock eyes with any sturdy looking stranger that peered into mine (for his viewing income purely). He could no longer stand it, relatively begged me to provide up and defined it grow to be extraordinarily degrading to his manhood. That grow to be the tip of his undesirable habit. From then on as we walked surpassed women folk interior the mall etc., he might has properly have been wearing horse blinders reason he'd save his little eyeballs right now forward lol. yet regrettably in case you should play head video games like that to stability your relationship it particularly isn't any longer relatively very conducive to an outstanding beginning place for marriage. I at as quickly as found out that he grow to be no longer somebody i might marry and moved on. I advise it particularly is one ingredient to observe yet out of your description, appears like he's giving a great form of those women folk the "mattress room eyes invitation" and suitable in front of you... pink flag! Why do you experience as in case you "want" him? i think of you're letting your desperation for him compromise your self dignity. you're saying you "semi settle for" it yet i will promise you that it will placed on skinny. your self-worth will dwindle to no longer something in case you do no longer call for the honour you deserve. have you ever tried explaining to him that his habit is hurting you? possibly he's unaware, possibly he's not. Are you waiting to income that he's cheated on you? are you able to "semi settle for" that too? You mentioned your self, you're in an unhappy relationship, possibly all you like... is to get out of it. i in my opinion do no longer think of any suggestion you acquire right here is going to place you comfortable until you're searching for human beings to provide help to be attentive to his habit is acceptable and which you're over reacting. i'm particular some will yet if actuality learn, it relies upon on what you are able to stay with. I purely wish you are able to learn how to think of extra relatively of your self and in doing so purely enable people who reciprocate with a similar degree, into your existence. do no longer settle for much less once you are able to have extra. :) sturdy success & suitable needs!
2016-10-20 02:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him in the cajones
2007-03-27 15:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Jimmy Dean 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋