So, I met this guy about 8 months ago...he is absolutely wonderful! He is silly, sweet, and has a strong love for God, just as I do. The only problem is I think I'm falling for him!!! However, I haven't told him this (I have ALWAYS let the guy make the first move) and it's driving me mad - I am just used to guys saying something to me first, and since he hasn't, I'm not sure if he feels the same way (I'm incredibly afraid of rejection).
How should I tell him how I feel - I mean, what words? We have such great chemistry, but one this one I need some help, please!!!
2007-03-27 15:28:01 · 12 answers · asked by inquiring black beauty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To ushoveit: Stop being a bitter troll...if you can't answer the question without being caught up in your own world of stupidity, don't answer it.
2007-03-27 15:46:09 · update #1
I love how you handled ushoveit! As far as your guy...TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL!!!! You've been seeing each other for 8 months, so it has to be serious and he obviously has strong feelings for you as well. He'll probably love you even more for doing so.
2007-04-03 11:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it? Just say exactly what has been on your mind, how you feel, why you feel that way. Let him know what's in your heart.
If he's such a good friend, he'll still be a good friend afterwards, if he didn't like you, and said "no." If not, was he such a good friend, or worth keeping around, since he can't handle honesty? At this point, you're friends without being completely honest friends towards each other (you haven't told him completely how you feel about him, why he's important, or things like that, etc.), and is that really a good friendship? I guess it would be, but it'd be based in a bit of dishonesty and illusion.
And if he says he likes you too, well then, you know...
2007-03-27 22:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by thesuitmencometh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Don't make the first move just be your loveable sweet self. And ask God if he is the guy for you and ask God for favor with him and remember in order to get to the Father you must go through the Son so make sure you end all your prayers in Jesus name and when you pray alone you know what two or more prays for has more power, so touch and agree with the Holy Spirit.
Kindest regards-
Vicky
2007-03-27 22:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by vpmadison3680 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should just ask him say I was thinking the other day we have known each other for a while now and you are a great person and would like to know if you want to take things to the next level like go on a date. Get to know each other more. Iam sure he will say yes have faith in yourself take the leap
2007-03-27 22:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by clover0002005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I usually write a note and dont think twice i just give it to him and run like the wind or have a friend give him hints for me it works sometimes
2007-03-27 22:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by ~MommyLovesHerGirls~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"i dont know if u feel the same way, or even if u feel the same at all. but i think i love you. you dont have to say it back but i just wanted you to know"
try saying that and make sure its true. make it sound like u, give it ur personality .
2007-03-27 22:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by wiccan_kisses 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After something fun, with soft voice: I like you so much. -then hold tight-
God I've been waiting for a girl to say that to me my hole life, but life isn't easy for us guys.
2007-03-27 22:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by boris_sv_2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your afraid of rejection. ANNND you always let the guy make the first move...so did you reciprocate every first move? probably not...so it's safe to say you have yourself rejected a few bloakes...look Princess...quit playing games and get real. be real, keep it real. Tell him how you feel...worst case..you get to know how those other guy's that ":wern't worthy" felt. btw...you make me sick.
2007-03-27 22:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by ushoveit 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to go to him and tell him how you feel. Be Bold! Good luck to you and your guy.
2007-03-27 22:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by Dani B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you wanna go out some time
2007-03-27 23:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by Rodolfo p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋