Neither of us has any young relatives or friends with young kids.
2007-03-27 15:31:23 · 10 answers · asked by jaxson960 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
A ring bearer and flower girl are completely unnecessary. They can also be a lot of trouble. Young kids are known for their melt-downs. Enjoy your day without them!
2007-03-27 15:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We had a flower girl for our wedding, but no ringbearer. You can give the rings to the best man, and matron of honor. That's what we did, and it worked out fine!
2007-03-27 15:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lori C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have a ringbearer or a flowergirl for my wedding, and it turned out just fine!
2007-03-27 16:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an complete-on formal wedding ceremony, yet no flower lady or ring bearer. To me, i imagine they're issues that you purely do once you've youthful kin or acquaintances that you may opt for to comprise. exterior of that - you save your self an outstanding form of kid-drama. an outstanding form of human beings opt for to steer away from the flair pitfalls of little ones being area of the ceremony and then on the subsequent reception. (believe me - I have a three and 5 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous. at the same time as they were 2 & 4 i became sooo relieved at the same time as my brother in regulation determined no longer to have a r.b/f.g. because as a mom I knew it can be a large mistake, yet i does no longer have watned to decline both!)
2016-12-02 22:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have the rings waiting on a pillow sat atop a pillar instead of a ring bearer. And I have been to many weddings without a flower girl.
2007-03-27 15:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by Virginia C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope it happens... cause we are not having any...
well i shouldn't say that... we don't have any to ask
we have some friends far away who have kids who are cute and adorable but we were afraid it would be too much for them to travel with the kids and be in the wedding and such... so we are waiting till they RSVP if they say they are coming then we will ask,.. if not... then we wont have them....
2007-03-27 16:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by akholler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's quite common for them not to be included, it's personal choice. I'm not having them at my wedding this May, the Matron of honor and best man will have the rings.
2007-03-28 10:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by andyct0716 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think they are unnecessary, Most churches would prefer you didn't throw petals, especially real ones, that can sometimes stain. Most little boys don't like to dress up. I think they take away from the solemness of the ceremony.
2007-03-28 21:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by Pat C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very common! Think of all the people who get married outside of churches. If you get married in a town hall, in Vegas...chances are, it's just the bride, groom, and a handful of friends.
2007-03-27 15:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by KathrynCK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No all wedding have them so its not gonna be weird if u don't I was flowergirl but there was no pageboy in the wedding with me.
2007-03-27 15:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by wilo_chick 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋