Family & Relationships - 27 March 2007

In high school there were people including girls who teased me because I was nerdy. After college I am the man with the muscles, the boxing ability, and the baddest urban wear. All the ladies want me. What was so funny is that those same girls who teased me in high school even wants me now and I turned around rejected their offer hard. Some of them were upset and angry of how I rejected them. Is this great revenge

2007-03-27 16:24:28 · 15 answers · asked by Shawn G 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up a few weeks ago, and i can't get over him. to be honest, our relationship went sour a few months ago, after we both entered college and he started doubting his feelings for me. he got annoyed and frustrated, and even though hed tell me he loves me ten times a day, he broke up with me because he didn't want to have to worry about a relationship while in the army (he's enlisting in june). every time we talk i end up crying for hours, just wanting to be with him again. but he just says he wants to move on, and that he doesn't know if he really ever loved me. he thinks that having me in his life would be a huge inconvenience that he doesn't want to have to deal with while he's gone, that if he ever realizes that he does love me he might come try to find me one day. and i keep holding on to that hope. our relationship was far from perfect, but for some reason i can't let him go. im still in love with him. what do i do

2007-03-27 16:24:10 · 3 answers · asked by PBJgeorge 1 in Singles & Dating

i do stare at girls a lot, even i don't like them, should i stop doing that? or they might think i'm a creepo or something........or some of them might actually think i like them (but i'm not)

2007-03-27 16:23:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm interested in knowing this, I have a close friend who is marrying her ex spouse after a two year separation and divorce. They have gotten a lot of marriage therapy and only divorced after her spouse had developed a substance abuse problem for which he was treated and has been very successful in staying in recovery. What do you think?

2007-03-27 16:23:27 · 7 answers · asked by alliebean 2 in Marriage & Divorce

just curious to see how many people are actually in love in thier marriage and would do everything all over again and if not, why?

2007-03-27 16:23:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok we became very good friends at the begning of the school year and finally i got the nerve to ask her out awhile ago and now she says she doesnt want to ruin our relationship as best friends by going out with me. i like her and i was talking to her about it. and she said heres what happens i like a guy date him then he treats me like ****.. does she think i will do that i will not! never! i would've told her that but she jumped of the computer so fast once she said that. i recently went to mexico and she said she liked me for like a week when i was gone.. so i still like her and want to go out with her? what do i do i really like her she is soo nice and pretty and smart and trustworthy. i have no idea if she still has feelings for me i need help

2007-03-27 16:23:19 · 6 answers · asked by TG 3 in Singles & Dating

I know some guys that I want to hook up with and I want to learn some new flirting techniques, any idea's??????

2007-03-27 16:23:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it ok to buy a drink for the girl u like at lunch ?? will she think it sweet ??

2007-03-27 16:22:18 · 28 answers · asked by the one 1 in Singles & Dating

should i dump him by:
A. Myspace
B. Note
C. In Person

explain your answer

2007-03-27 16:22:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is what happened my boyfriend of 3 years and i lived with my mother and my step- father and i heard that he cheated on me so to get back at him for it i cheated on him with my step-dad and now i am not so sure that what i had said at the begining is so true my son is 2 now and he is looking more and more like the ex boyfriend i dont know how to quite handle this so if i can get your advice that would help me a lot. thanks

2007-03-27 16:21:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Have you ever been jealous when a really close friend you like gets a gf/bf when you thought they liked you, or you were planning to ask them out, and you think you are loosing them to another person and you don't feel like your special anymore, and then you relize you don't and never will own another person?

2007-03-27 16:21:22 · 9 answers · asked by MynameisIdontcare a 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend has been dating her cousin for almost 4 years. (they dont live in the same country) but she has never been happier and they really love each other. theyre not like planning to get married or any-thing (she's 14 he's 19)
but whats so wrong with it? cousins are people just like every-one else just cuz your cousins dosent mean its disgusting.

p.s. they're parents dont know, but if they found out they know that they would separate them.

what should they do????

2007-03-27 16:20:51 · 18 answers · asked by alicia p 1 in Singles & Dating

I re cently went on vacation with my friend, her bf and a few other people. The entire time he constantly called her stupid, retarted, idiot, a**hole, etc. over the smallest little things she would say or do. She would never defend herself and the whole time would only go or do what he wanted. It was like he was controlling her. I wanted to say something but I dont know how to approach the situation.

2007-03-27 16:20:08 · 10 answers · asked by Jersey Girl 25 2 in Friends

2007-03-27 16:20:06 · 11 answers · asked by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 in Marriage & Divorce

So Im pregnant by my ex boyfriend. Who at the time when I got pregnant was just a friend. But me and him have dated in the past. But anyways..I really do love him. Always have, And my feelings are even more now that I am having his child. I really want me and him to be a "family" for our baby. But he isnt on the same page as me. He doesnt want to date me, but yet he goes off and dates other random girls. And he knows how I feel about him. So its like Im not good enough to date for some reason but he can still come and have sex with me. He makes no sense to me. I know that he is still young and dumb and wants to go off and do his thing. But seriously now isnt the time..Its time to grow up and figure what you want. It just really upsets me and stresses me out to see things this way..
I keep telling myself maybe things will change in time. But who knows..I just dont want to be played for a fool.
My head says forget him but my heart says stay..
What do you all think?

2007-03-27 16:18:12 · 21 answers · asked by yummy♥mummy 4 in Singles & Dating

It seems like girls just don't take me seriously when i ask them out. how do i correct this problem. in other words, what do i have to be done to be taken seriously?

2007-03-27 16:17:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-27 16:16:55 · 30 answers · asked by sexy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a student and a stay at home mom of 2 girls and a baby on the way. my bf of 6 yrs is the only one working and so he likes to hang out with his freinds alot. he says i am a bad mom because i ask him to watch the girls(only one is biologically his)so i can run to town 15 min. away and go by myself. does that make me a bad mom? i think he is selfish and not sure if i should stay or go(with him)?? he will not eve propose to me!!! any advice?? he says i yell to much. i am stressed being with kids all the time and never getting time to my self. not even to go to the b-room!!

2007-03-27 16:16:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My 10 year old son feels he is physically weak and that is the reason why kids don't associate with him. What should I do ?

2007-03-27 16:16:50 · 10 answers · asked by kulwinder k 1 in Family

... hope thingz coo`.

2007-03-27 16:16:46 · 7 answers · asked by Crystal 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi
My little bother is getting married in the second week of May. They are having a large wedding. He is currently 23 years old and lives with my mother. He and his new wife are moving into my mother home after the wedding. I have been married myself for 4 years (my husband and I have our own aparment) and I think this is a horriable idea. The only reason why I think my mother is letting them stay because my mom is divorce and doesn't make a lot of money. She has a whole house to herself and she needs the extra income from my brother and his wife to make ends meet. I still thinks this does not give the the oppunity to understand themselves as a new couple living under someone else roof. The worst part about it I have not told my borther that I think this is a bad idea. I just don't know how to tell him with out hurting him. I just do not think that if he can not support his wife on his own he should not be getting married. Do you think I am right about this?

2007-03-27 16:16:24 · 12 answers · asked by Demaris S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-27 16:16:11 · 8 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

So I "flirted" with a girl on there and she sent me back a flirt saying, "Thanks! I like your message." So I decided to email her (I'm on 7 day free trial). She replies back but with no email, but a another free flirt saying, "Hi!"

If she wasn't interested, she wouldn't reply at all--no? So I send her a 2nd email giving her how to contact me (myspace, aim).

Do you think she was trying to hint she's interested but can't email me?

2007-03-27 16:15:22 · 3 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Singles & Dating

So I am sort of seeing this man that lives out of town...he is my best friends boyfriends brother. I only see him when I go to visit them and I saw him the weekend before last... we went out, etc.. he will txt me thruout the week and ask how I am, ask about my kids, etc.

So he txted me last night and I mentioned that I was going to be going to Oregon for 10 days.......and got no more responses... so I txt that I figured they (meaning his brother and gf) would have said something...he responded with "They didn't".. then I texted saying I would have told him but I didn't see him the Sunday that I left....I have heard nothing back....since yesterday.

So I realize this sounds totally juvenile and for that, I appologize, but I am baffled.... was he mad? Did I somehow offend him by not mentioning this to him directly? It is not uncommon when I go down that he finds out from them and comes over - I never tell him I am coming down. I am confused & wanted a 'second opinion' before I call

2007-03-27 16:14:53 · 1 answers · asked by Clarissa 4 in Singles & Dating

I feel like I've lost my sense of self because I was naive and gave absolutely everything to him, my secrets, dreams, hopes, my heart. Plus, I helped him for four years to avoid committing suicide and he's better now. He's dating another girl and says things like he loves me when I'm feeling bad but could care less when I confront him about cheating, claiming he only did it once when I've had a few girls come up to me and admit that they slept with him. Plus, he spilled our sex life to all his friends when he promised he wouldn't and now the whole school spreads rumors about me being a slut. I feel like he's ruined my life but I can't hate him because he was the first guy I ever loved, even if he is a cheating, lying jerk.

2007-03-27 16:14:11 · 1 answers · asked by Loreana 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like to find a clear acrylic square wedding cake topper that says today I married my friend. I have found the daisy shaped one all over the place, but don't really care for it. I would like to find one that is big enough to have our names and date engraved on it, but since we are having a very small wedding (50 or less) we don't want it to be too big for the cake. Any suggestions? We are getting married May 25, 2007 so I need to get it fairly soon so that I can get the engraving done. Thanks!

2007-03-27 16:14:09 · 7 answers · asked by StaceyA39 1 in Weddings

Should you email them both together and tell them what happened, or would that be awkward?

2007-03-27 16:13:47 · 4 answers · asked by XxFortuneCookiexX 2 in Friends

put how old you are and what state you live in and what you're looking for in a girl

2007-03-27 16:13:17 · 2 answers · asked by Arya 2 in Singles & Dating

Just curiuos if I should do it for my hubby, and how he would react if I did.

2007-03-27 16:12:36 · 15 answers · asked by DeAnna 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We went off to college and all of a sudden things started getting worse. At first he called everyday then the calls just stop coming. He left me 3 times for a girl he met online (but never met in real life). I gave him his space and he came back each time. But now 3 and 4 days go by and I never hear from him and the only excuse he has is that he doesnt want to sit in his room and talk to me on the dorm phone cause his cellphone is broke. And when he does call its for like 30 minutes. I give him every thing and I pay for everything including personal cash. He didnt even buy me a card for my b-day or valentines day. I hate to break up with him because everytime we get back home from college things are great or at least much better but everytime he gets back to school he doesn't call. And his friends egg it on they even tell him to hang up on me and he listens....Im just lost and confused I love him so much but all he can do is say I love you he never can show it....what should I do??Help

2007-03-27 16:12:19 · 8 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating