just curious to see how many people are actually in love in thier marriage and would do everything all over again and if not, why?
2007-03-27 16:23:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would, been married 36 years and hope for another 36.......:)
2007-03-27 17:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This has an astrological answer.
The question is...
Is your spouse the same person you married?
The answer is always no.
The new Question is....
Is your spouse still good for you?
Now we can ask....
Would you remarry your spouse all over again?
Unfortunately, I am divorced now and the person she was at that point in time was wonderful for who I was then. Had we worked on intimacy we would have survived the changes our personalities went through. We were not mature enough to endure our differences.
OK. The astrological explanation....
When we are born, we are born under that dates star sign. As time progresses we advance through the signs from the point we started. When we met I was a Capricorn and she was a Leo.I was Born Sagittarius she was Born Cancer. At this point I am Aquarius and she Libra.
Would I marry the woman I met at that point in time again? Absolutely!
She was everything I ever wanted in woman when I was 28. Who she was at 24 was completely different at 30. What I want in a woman now,she is not. What she expected in a man, I am no longer but the 10 years we had were awesome the final 3 were regrettable. Had we worked on loving each other rather than living up to expectations we would have learned to deal with disappointment and be less judgmental.
Its a lesson à can use if i ever go that far again. ;)
2007-03-28 01:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ophiuchus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a really interesting question, you know what I have had a hard life with my husband because we never really understood each other. Our first year of marriage was really hard cause' we just couldn't get used to one another, we fought all the time, I was so tired of it and wanted to divorce by the 3rd year cause' things wouldn't get better. Things r still hard sometimes economically and we frustrate eachother constantly, so getting back to your question, I would do it all over again because I have grwon with him for 4 years now and I love him more than ever. I married at 21, now I'm 25 and it's beautiful how we've grown together and bought all our things together, Now I think we r more united than ever.
2007-03-28 00:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by grissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at everyone jumping in on this one. So here's my two cents... How I love my wife and the life we have together, how could I ever live without her? With her the world is full of chocolate and gum drops and everything so good and wonderful. So would I want to do it all over again with my wife who I just adore? HELL NO!!! Marriage is the dumbest thing ever! There is no such thing as love. Love is only a commitment to care. I'm with the hippie up top I would kick my A$$ so hard I would feel today! Why didn't I listen? Why? STUPID, STUPID, STUPID!!!!
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2007-03-28 00:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sure would marry my wonderful and loving husband again and many times over. WE have a great marriage and he is the best thing that ever happened to me and my life. I would not trade him for anything or anyone. I know how good i got it with him lol! I love my husband so much and am honored to be his wife! Married for going on 8 years and together for almost nine and looking forward to spending the rest of my life with him loving him til death do us part.
2007-03-27 23:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope...I love him...but .....ugh...no...I was 19, he was 26...now he seems to be in a whole different generation than I am. I want to go out and live life and have fun, he wants to stay home and watch TV. I have figured out that when I was 19, I was insecure, and found comfort in a guy that was a little older and wiser, I let him make our decisions and that was fine ..then, When I was 19...I have since grown up..I think he wants that insecure 19 year old back again. Moral of this story....19 is too dam young to get married!
2007-03-27 23:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was a pot head, unable to keep a job, a womanizer, what more do I need to say. Problem is we've been divorced 14 years, I have only seen him 1 time since then. But he is charming, charasmtic, fun, sexy,handsome. Yes, if I could get him to divorce his trophy wife, I'd remarry him in a second.
2007-03-27 23:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by sweet sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO way would i turn back time and marry the ex over. I was tired of a abusive marriage so why would I want to go back throught it again. He would be the same over again nope.
2007-03-27 23:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by lz_adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, he's a good guy, However sometimes I feel that the romance is gone, which makes our marriage a little boring. I wouldn't mind being able to date more people to experience what else is out there.
2007-03-27 23:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by herehardly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a heartbeat!!! Still totally in love after 13 years and 5 kids.
2007-03-27 23:30:48 · answer #10 · answered by mom of 7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suffered adultly in the first year by wife and REALLY got hurt!
I would love to say yes but thinking about the question I would have to consider it REALLY HARD, because I wanted to die, the pain was that bad!
But I would say all , in all yes 16 years most have been great ones to be with her!
2007-03-28 00:25:51 · answer #11 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋