Family & Relationships - 25 March 2007

I'm thirteen. This girl started going to my church about eight months ago. She is fourteen. I knew I liked her right away. But we've only been friends until last Friday night. She has a boyfriend that does not attend our church, but I still wasn't going to do anything to her cause that would be disrespectful. But, we were playing a game of hide and go seek in the dark and she held my hand(fingers laced). I went slow. After a few hours I continued to hold her around the waist from the backside and kiss her neck. She never pushed me away and acted as if she liked it. I also did some more things not as serious. She never said stop or anything like that. But I feel uncomfortable because she hasn't talked about her boyfriend. I am a guy, so I will continue to pursue her. I don't want to become just her flirt friend on the side. She won't regret it if she dumps that other guy and get serious about me. I love her. What should I do?

2007-03-25 08:43:18 · 7 answers · asked by J Dizzle 1 in Singles & Dating

I lost the girl that ment the most to me in the world. We broke up and i know its sounds stupied but i feel like ill meet new girls no problem i already have been asked out on 2 dates. though these girls mean nothin to me no matter how hot they are. I just feel like now i will have to settle for 2nd place and end up with someone who is good but nothin compared to me ex and what he had and shared. Is this true well i every find that someone who i could feel the same for or evening that i could feel more for or am i doomed for the rest of life.

2007-03-25 08:42:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in a bad relationship (which I ended) and this guy completely torn down any self esteem I had at the time. I'm slowly started to forget what he's done and said, but I need alittle advice on how can I rebuild my self esteem? I'm really wanting to be in a relationship, but I don't think any guys notice me. I feel really unattractive. Any advice would be helpful.

2007-03-25 08:42:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 08:42:02 · 2 answers · asked by Volleygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-25 08:41:45 · 26 answers · asked by Colin S 1 in Family

I've been flirting with this guy at his work, and he gives me good discounts on things. The last time I walked in there, he glanced over to his friend and smiled to himself (not looking at me)

I'm not an expert at body language, so I'd like to know what you guys think about this.

Thanks!

2007-03-25 08:41:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I liked a girl, she led me on then said she didn't like me. We talked only for four months. After the fourth month I told a friend about how she told me about her falling in love with someone else and not me. She found out and never talked to me again. 11 months later, I've missed her and it seemed like she missed me too because she was always looking at me and sometimes she would say hi back to me. I thought maybe she'd talk to me since that was so long ago and we can be friends again. So I went to talk to her but she completely ignored me and I left her. Two days later (today) I looked at her myspace page. She changed her headline AFTER the day I tried to talk to her to simply "wondering why..." I think it may not be anything to do with me and it's not such a big deal or it could be about something else. If it has to do with me it's probably about why did I even try to talk to her. What could it mean if it does have to do with me?
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2007-03-25 08:40:16 · 3 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

My mom is graduating from Nursing School in May, and I was wondering if anybody had a good gift idea to give her. Something homemade that is personal.

2007-03-25 08:39:42 · 8 answers · asked by Hols 1 in Family

I really lik this girl and i want to hint to her that i lik her as mor than a friend to see how she would react. please giv me how u would react to signs in a way as u dont lik the guy and in ways that u do. i reallly lik this girl...

2007-03-25 08:39:31 · 15 answers · asked by pyro_maniac_darkfire 2 in Singles & Dating

Needing to get input for a family member - it's run by Denton County Friends of the Family for victims of domestic violence. -- Please give feedback (positive or negative) and any information you wouldn't mind sharing. Thank you.

2007-03-25 08:39:11 · 2 answers · asked by txdeb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have problems standing up for myself. If someone thinks I did something wrong and shouts at me, I tend to walk away to avoid the situation getting worse and unfortunately the issue never gets resolved. I wish I have the confidence to discuss things instead of "wiping out". But I fear that if I discuss the conflict, then things may get worse or if the person shouts then he may draw attention and support from those nearby. Are there any websites that give information on how to defeat such fears or how to discuss and rectify matters properly?

2007-03-25 08:39:09 · 19 answers · asked by Eric D 1 in Friends

Keep in mind, I am not that old but I am not that young either. I have been single for about a year in a half, due to my own decisions. I want to get back out there and start dating again but I am not sure how. I need help.

2007-03-25 08:38:41 · 12 answers · asked by !~!JeWeL eLiZeBetH!~! 2 in Singles & Dating

when i use my hand on my girl it doesnt seem like she likes it any tips on what to do does any onehave any good web sites for sex tips or what not dont felll like payin for a site

2007-03-25 08:38:32 · 1 answers · asked by ted s 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you women do when your husband drives like a maniac while your in the car or in front of him in the road?

2007-03-25 08:38:31 · 24 answers · asked by okey dokey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-25 08:38:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm writing an article and need statistics, I need to know which one dates outside their race more and by how much. It doesn't just mean white/black relationships but white/Asian, White/Hispanic, White/Muxed, White/Native American, relationships also. I asked before and didn't get the answers I wanted, everyone asked why it was important or just gave their opinion which is what I don't want. I just need the answer from a valid source.

2007-03-25 08:38:13 · 2 answers · asked by CC dream 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend and i are split....some advice or jokes?

Thanks!!!!!!!!

2007-03-25 08:38:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

3 months ago I thought life was great. But on New Years Eve, after going out and having a great time. My boyfriend of 14 years ( we have 2 kids) says to me," I am just not into you anymore and the family life is not for me." So he moved in with his mother( he is 41). he contacted an old girlfriend of his, the one he dumped me for 14 years ago. And she took him back, knowing he had just left his family. What's even scarier is that his mother did not even encourage him to work at staying with his family. She told him go out, have fun, go have a few drinks, move on. He said he is not into me anymore because I gained about 20 pounds. I used to be very skinny. I am not fat, but he likes very skinny woman. He now lives with his mother, pays no rent, only sees the kids everyother weekend. I do get child support. But it is scary to me that one persons decision can turn my familys life upside down. I now have a whole different life. I have to be out dating again and a single mother. Scary huh?

2007-03-25 08:38:07 · 11 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-25 08:37:56 · 11 answers · asked by denny 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm writing an article and need statistics, I need to know which one dates outside their race more and by how much. It doesn't just mean white/black relationships but white/Asian, White/Hispanic, White/Muxed, White/Native American, relationships also. I asked before and didn't get the answers I wanted, everyone asked why it was important or just gave their opinion which is what I don't want. I just need the answer from a valid source.

2007-03-25 08:37:50 · 5 answers · asked by CC dream 1 in Weddings

You can skip reading the first 2 paragraphs if you don't care about the finer details.

1)The frist time he stared showing signs of liking me, I was being totally naive about it. I was like, "why the heck does this guy keep staring at me funny?!"

2)When I realized that he was staring at me beacuse he liked me, I realized that I liked him too. Situation is that he's a grade higher than me, meaning we have no classes together. (Ok, we USED to have the same period PE, if that really counts.) We don't even walk in the same hall as each other. I don't know anything about him. I don't even know what his name is. So if he's too shy to talk to me, and if I'm really that naive with boys, then who's making the first move?

3) I want to get him to approach me beacuse I don't know if he's the type of guy who gets freaked out when girls tell him they like him. How do I get him to know that I like him and how do I get him to talk to me?

2007-03-25 08:37:35 · 11 answers · asked by Kit Untz 3 in Singles & Dating

Everyone who supports their other half . Am i being selfish ?My boy friend josh plays floor hockey every wednesday , And I like watching him play and ever since he began playing I have been the only girl friend that has been to every game supporting my man , And I recently found out that the games are starting any where from 7-11 and they are only an hour game but I work the graveyard shift and i need to get a nap in before I get to work or Im no good for my crew , any ways Im not going to make it to some of the games with the change in times and that crushes me because I love watching and supporting my man , my boy friend josh says its ok he understand that i need my sleep and that work should come first but i feel bad when I miss the games , He says even though im not there he knows I care and thats what matters so my ? is Am I being selfish because i want to support my boy friend and watch his games ?

2007-03-25 08:37:33 · 9 answers · asked by Constance C 2 in Singles & Dating

A gave a boy named Kayln Baker, a note that was mean.(I think.) Yesterday his brother came over. He wanted to talk to my mom. I told him that she was in the shower.(The truth.) If his brother talks to my mom, I'll be in big trouble.PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!

2007-03-25 08:37:20 · 8 answers · asked by Mary G 2 in Family

it might be because of my step dad but my step dad doesnt even pay much attention to him.
should i ask him about it or just ignore it??????

2007-03-25 08:37:19 · 4 answers · asked by elaina 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm writing an article and need statistics, I need to know which one dates outside their race more and by how much. It doesn't just mean white/black relationships but white/Asian, White/Hispanic, White/Muxed, White/Native American, relationships also. I asked before and didn't get the answers I wanted, everyone asked why it was important or just gave their opinion which is what I don't want. I just need the answer from a valid source.

2007-03-25 08:37:03 · 7 answers · asked by CC dream 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After i get to know this girl a little better, where do you think an appropriate place to go would be? I know she likes funny movies, but is that okay for a first date? considering the lack of attention. (Beach and amusement park our of the question) -Dont have either lol. Any ideas besides what i have?

2007-03-25 08:36:59 · 1 answers · asked by broken_paladin15 2 in Singles & Dating

I have not seen or heard from my father since I was one, and now that I am 19 and would like to find him, so that I can find out why he left and to find out his medical history.

The problem is, I don't have the money to hire someone to find him or for those websites for looking up the information myself. Does anyone know of a free website, that can help me in my search?

I would greatly appreciate it.

2007-03-25 08:36:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When I was Younger I Used To Wanna Match My Mom up W/ someone , A Program Called "Eddie's Father" was on TV. & Eddie used to do the same thing w/ His Dad

So is that cool or not & Why
I was thiking it might be cool cause you can Help pic who may end up being part of ur Life too
But; I was wondering if it was uncool cause is it medaling in ur Parents affairs
So Why Do you its cool or uncool

& If cool How would you go about it

Has anyone Done it & if so How did you do it
& How Did it Go

2007-03-25 08:36:23 · 4 answers · asked by forgivenbadboy 2 in Family

What characteristics in a woman makes you feel like there is an opportunity for you to take advantage of her or take her kindness for a weakness?

2007-03-25 08:35:44 · 4 answers · asked by MockingBird 3 in Singles & Dating

I like to answer questions in the catagory singles and dating. I always am afraid when I give my opinion b/c they might do what I say and I might have said something that wasnt right. I am always afraid I'll mess s/t up!!!!
what do I do and how do I know I'm not messing up?

2007-03-25 08:35:20 · 5 answers · asked by k ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating