Everyone who supports their other half . Am i being selfish ?My boy friend josh plays floor hockey every wednesday , And I like watching him play and ever since he began playing I have been the only girl friend that has been to every game supporting my man , And I recently found out that the games are starting any where from 7-11 and they are only an hour game but I work the graveyard shift and i need to get a nap in before I get to work or Im no good for my crew , any ways Im not going to make it to some of the games with the change in times and that crushes me because I love watching and supporting my man , my boy friend josh says its ok he understand that i need my sleep and that work should come first but i feel bad when I miss the games , He says even though im not there he knows I care and thats what matters so my ? is Am I being selfish because i want to support my boy friend and watch his games ?
2007-03-25 08:37:33 · 9 answers · asked by Constance C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He knows you care and love to watch him play because you have been to all of those games. He's trying to show you that he feels the same about you by supporting the fact that you have to work and are unable to watch him all the time. You are not selfish at all, and you should not feel guilty about it. You have to work like the rest of us, and your boyfriend understands that.
2007-03-25 08:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by blondini22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not. I understand. Of course, work does come first and you DO need sleep. But again, maybe sometime to make your boyfriend more comfortable you could surprise him and tell him you can't go then show up! He will be happy trust me. If you don't feel comfortable to even tell a little white lie then maybe instead buy him something he's really been wanting and leave it at his house or something.
2007-03-25 08:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by gymnast.girl520 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the 'Games ' are starting to get longer, and you are the only female there, maybe you have a bigger problem. If you have your own car, park where you cant be seen, and watch what happens. Maybe something, Hoping Nothing, but it don't sound Kosher to me. Sincerely pray that it's nothing. Good Luck and God Bless !!
2007-04-01 13:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by fuzzypetshop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! This time for sleep is really important for you...It's important not to forget about your needs when thinking about his. He sounds like he really understands, so it's all good. Just make sure you can go once in a while.
2007-03-25 08:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by :) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty unselfish to me. He is right though you should get your sleep. At least you will make some of the games.
2007-03-31 17:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by someadvice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are being selfish. You have a job where people rely on you. You can see your boyfriend another time. You need to get your priorities in check.
2007-03-25 13:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no your not being selfish, but i agree with your boyfriend you need to get sleep, and worry about your job more than his "game"
2007-03-25 08:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by sweetsal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not and the graveyard shift sounds scary
2007-04-01 15:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by DJ Vinny The Ginny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwwwww thats really deep hun, deep damnit no you go girl!
2007-03-25 08:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋