It took her 30 years to leave her bad marriage and then we found one another and both divorced to be together. Still, after 3 yrs., she hasn't told hers sons (25 & 27) about me ....or how we met. It had driven me to the point of frustration that I unloaded on her. Now she says I'm an verbal abuser and selectively answers my phone call or emails!!! We used to travel all the time to see one another...now she doesn't want to do that...but when I did go to see her, we had a wonderful time...just like the old times..and says she still loves me. What can I do to make her move forward in a relationship. We had plans to move to Colorado, in fact, we have a hold on some property there, but since she's entered into this protective circle, I just can't get her to forgive and forget or look to the future. She still is worried about the sale of her house, losing her kid's love, her finances...everything and won't let me help. I'm frustrated. We've both see couselors seperately & together
2007-03-25
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Marriage & Divorce