I feel guilty very easily when someone treats me good or offers to help me during times of difficulties. For instance, when my friend threw me a surprised birthday party, I felt very guilty, although I was thrilled and happy.
I always feel as if I dont deserve such wonderful treatment and it is as if I'm troubling them. I wished I was like others who can just be happy and accept goodness upon them gracefully.
Why do I feel like this?
2007-03-25 09:22:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe self esteem issues? Like your not good enough for people to help you out, or do things for you. They do these things because they love you, not because they want you to feel guilty. I'm sure you would go out of your way to help your loved ones. Dont feel like your not good enough, you are.
2007-03-25 09:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone tried to make you feel guilty or ashamed as a child and you've carried it forward. Guilt sucks! Don't bother!
2007-03-25 09:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by MissWong 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have confidence in you. you could talk it out with your parents or friends.
2007-03-25 09:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What have you done wrong? or are you Jewish?
2007-03-25 09:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by mlyahwak 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋