Why is it easier for us men to be with the girl we are not interested in?

Question

I am dating this girl and I like her alot, she seems to like me too, we went on a few dates already and we communicate alot. I have had alot of women who liked me before but I was not too interested in, but now I have found a girl I really like and it is much more difficult. I want her to really interested in me, but I feel I try too hard...

Answer 1

It's easier with a girl you're not interested in because you're not worrying that she will lose interest. You don't have to try with someone that doesn't matter to you. The results wouldn't matter so much if you said or did the wrong thing. The pressures on when it counts for her to continue to want to spend time with you.

Answer 2

I'm an older women so I know what I'm saying. I found that, the harder we try to please at beck and call, the more will we be taken for granted after a time. At first she might like all the attention, but if you continuously hurried to please, like: (jumping to her wants, do all the work in the relationship ), doing most or all the GIVING (that's a two way deal), the women will end up loosing respect and look elsewhere. It is sad but true, it's HUMAN NATURE to take when given and NOT APPRECIATING when given to much to often.
Be nice, loving, respectful, sexy (of course) honest and a good lover. By doing all this, you should not have a problem to keep her unless she's not the right one.