Family & Relationships - 23 March 2007

OK I AM WRITING THIS IN BOLD BECAUSE OBVIOUSLY NO ONE IS READING EVERYTHING i AM WRITING. SO READ EVERYTHING OR DON'T ANSWER AT ALL.

ok here it goes. I want my ex to think I am dead. I don't want any stupid answers like your crazy, you need help. maybe I do, but I really really want to do this. The reasons simply don't matter. Don't ask me why. Cuz I won't answer to it. I am wondering what would be the EASIEST way to do it without getting in legal trouble. I thought about having someone I know tell him I killed myself or that my car went off a bridge. I would let my parents know obviously cuz if I don't they might tell him him I am not dead, because they won't have a clue what I did. So would it be better to have him think I killed myself, or that I ran off a cliff. I was thinking along the lines of the cliff. there are reasons I want him to suffer and they are very legitate. I don't think this is illegal if only he knows. I know he won't think that whoever told him would be lieing.

2007-03-23 08:06:33 · 12 answers · asked by debra o 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife is a beautiful woman, Everytime my wife steps out the door, our new neightbor either raises his window or goes out side and checks out my wife. He told her once that he wishes she was not married. He is married but he has whistled at her, I am not usally the jealous type, but I am getting a little pi-- about this. My wife can turn head when she is wearing sweet pants and one of my t-shirts and no make-up, but this man is really getting on my last nerve. My wife has actually told this guy to f--- off and he still does this should I step in and say something to this guy?

2007-03-23 08:05:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

does any one have any suggestions on how to get over someone more quickly that are not odvious or common ea exercise.counseling.admiting ,your part,time. etc,it has been over two years since my ex left me,at first i took extreme measures not to run accross her but,then after two plus years i have acheived 9 months of sobriety.i have been sober since august 8 in november i came to the 4 step and although she had fault in the failure of our marriage i had reached a point where i was willing and needing to make ammends and take all the responsability and fault if neccessary in hpes that she could have some measure of peace and closure.but i also hoped to acheive the same for myself.i looked her up on the computer and left a voicemail that was.then nothing,she closed her account i began to look 4 her other places and she continuedto move plus her boyfreind and the group of people that are their peers,freinds are taunting me mocking me and im a jackass but i cant seem to beleive or accept

2007-03-23 08:05:32 · 6 answers · asked by lostagoddessneedafreind 1 in Marriage & Divorce

First of all, everyone wants exciting and satisfying sex do they not? I'm currently in the position where I no longer have confidence in my sexual ability, not that it's ever been very high. I split up with my first girlfriend 8 months ago- basically due to the fact that I no longer excited her. She still loved me as I did her, but the physical side of the relationship was lacking. Sex for her was boring and repetitive- we discussed this but I couldn't change. I find it very hard to be flirty as I've been brought up to be respectful. There has never been sexual tension between me and any girls.

I'm very scared of sex- I haven't had sex since we broke up- if I was offered it right now, I would turn it down for fear of not pleasing. This is a sad state of affairs as my desire has faded away- a vicious circle.

Right now I need some time for myself, but in the future I really don't know how I'm going to become sexually active again. I feel broken. Btw i'm 21. Suggestions? :-(

2007-03-23 08:04:28 · 26 answers · asked by pink_ego_box62 1 in Singles & Dating

it really annoys me when adults treat us teens like we cant be in love. most teens i know just think they are in love but some of us (like me) are actually in love
ive been with my bf for 14 months now and we are very close. however my friend and her bf of 2months think that they are in love which annoys me because teens like them make adults steriotype teens in love xx

2007-03-23 08:04:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have ran into the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in the supermarket twice in the last month. I am recently divorced and way out of practice in meeting new people. I feel very weird approaching a woman in a supermarket. So, ladies, let me know. Is this acceptable or just creepy?

2007-03-23 08:02:14 · 14 answers · asked by GTO 1 in Singles & Dating

I was dating this girl. it has been 6 months now. We can not be together. But ever time I try to out to a place I cry. I am a good man. I just want to be a good man to one women. So why can't I move on I want to , please help

2007-03-23 08:02:06 · 9 answers · asked by Manolo L 1 in Singles & Dating

During the day i smile this put on smile pretend that
nothing hurts me and everywhere i go guys
smile back and look at me and whistle and all i feel
is so empty inside.. that they dont know that behind the smile the makeup the blonde hair..sometimes even my friends wouldn't understand.. that behind all the image is a real person..
who has real feelings and that is hurt by this one guy so much that it feels like my soul is dying inside every passing day because.. whats left now is the empty feeling that you don't have almost anybody to turn to and trust?
I believe in God so I pray sometimes at night when
im feeling hurt or upset or alone the most.
I pray that he will make it all better.. that somehow that person will return to me and love me and be with me once again. Or that in time i will find true love again that this love will leave me and the pain will fade away.. But it seems that nothings changed. i do believe that your hopes can come true if you want it soo much.. do you?

2007-03-23 08:02:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you wish write a love phrase to your love, how it will be?

2007-03-23 08:01:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it possible to fall in love with someone you've only e-mailed? He won't be coming home from Iraq for a few months but when he does we'll finally get to meet.

2007-03-23 08:01:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey Guys what in a woman turns you on. I need personality wise and non-personality wise. I need three or more of each Thanks

2007-03-23 07:59:38 · 9 answers · asked by The Irish Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm serious, do you?

2007-03-23 07:58:34 · 2 answers · asked by Frankie 1 in Singles & Dating

My wedding is September 29th

2007-03-23 07:58:31 · 30 answers · asked by jess_elaine 2 in Weddings

plz help

2007-03-23 07:58:30 · 5 answers · asked by doggypaws32 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy that i like likes my friend when i see him flirt with her i get mad wat should i do?

2007-03-23 07:58:15 · 3 answers · asked by Jenna s 2 in Singles & Dating

i am dating this guy who is a marine and he lives in NC and i live in AR. we talk all the time on the phone and i think i am in love with him he means the world to me he got me a plain ticket to come see him then things happen and i could not see him he got me a neackless and roses and lots of things for my birthday and it was really sweet he goes out of his way to make me happy and i want to get married to him i have never found someone like him. do u think that we will last or that i should give up on it i dont want to?

2007-03-23 07:57:54 · 5 answers · asked by Amber M 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband fell out of love with me and had an affair. ?Will he ever be able to fall back in love with me after this? The affairee works with him, and I know he cares for her, they have much more in common and she is beautiful

2007-03-23 07:57:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do they mean to you and how do you get them??

2007-03-23 07:57:04 · 16 answers · asked by rozzywozzy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What should i do to spice up my relationship.Note that we mostly talk on the phone and i am 18 years of age and he is 27 years old.I need advice quick. Help please!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-23 07:57:00 · 4 answers · asked by CUTIE 2 in Singles & Dating

do you like little pooch bellies on girls? i can't seem to get rid of mine and am starting to get self-concious about what the guys are thinking...

2007-03-23 07:56:52 · 24 answers · asked by HappyToHelp:] 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 07:56:51 · 12 answers · asked by lonely-girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 07:56:27 · 8 answers · asked by Tabitha C 2 in Weddings

Are you responsible for your Parents, Grand Parents, or Anyone else that you Love Dearly?

2007-03-23 07:56:25 · 5 answers · asked by kayboff 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

After doing some research and digging when I knew something was wrong for over a year with our relationship. My husband not very willingly told me about a girl at work he went running with by themselves on lunch break and he says she was nice to him and baked cookies and things like that. He told her bad things about our marriage and listened to her talk about her divorce. I have a hard time believe this is all that went on but if it did then why? My husband and I had twins that were only a year old at the time and we were sooo busy. I can't believe that instead of putting the effort into our marriage and family this is what he was doing. I knew something was wrong when he was so interested in taking up running and dressing nice for work than he usually did.

2007-03-23 07:56:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i met this girl about 7 months ago, she is canadian but her company sent her to work here in france for a year, anyway when i met her she told me that she has a boyfriend back in canada and they've been together for almost 5 years.

i didn't show her any interest and we started running into each other because we are in the same circle of friends and then we became very close and there was chemistry and so we agreed to become "Friends with benefits" but then we became even closer! and there was so much passion, and then she says she wants to be exclusive and we started dating for a while
at this point she tells me that she wanted to break up with her boyfriend even before we met.

so now she went back to canada to break up with her 5 years boyfriend and she'll be back in a couple of weeks
here's my dilemma:
did she hook up with me just to make it easier for her to break up with her 5 years or was she really interested???? and when she comes back should i give her some space or date her!

2007-03-23 07:56:05 · 10 answers · asked by Slash 1 in Singles & Dating

im looking for penpals or people 2 email.anyone ?

2007-03-23 07:55:53 · 1 answers · asked by sarah louise m 2 in Singles & Dating

I have finally decided what I'm going to do for my ex to show her how I really feel. I'm gonna express how much I love her by showing her. Heres what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna give her a rose at work. While shes working I'm gonna goto her house and place roses all in her room. With a note that says, "I love you this much so accept these as my love for you and watch how it blossoms". Is that a good idea or is it too much?

2007-03-23 07:55:15 · 14 answers · asked by Dusher 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-23 07:54:40 · 12 answers · asked by ROSITA M 2 in Friends

After awhile they don't bother but with short hugs, and little pecks on tight lips. It makes me feel like he's gotten what he wanted, and now he not interested any more. Why do they do this? I don't feel like I turn him on anymore although he says that I do.

2007-03-23 07:54:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked out a girl just recently through aim since I can't really see her in school due to classes. I'm a sophomore in highschool. She just said Idk. So what should I do?

2007-03-23 07:54:28 · 2 answers · asked by Heart 3 in Singles & Dating