During the day i smile this put on smile pretend that
nothing hurts me and everywhere i go guys
smile back and look at me and whistle and all i feel
is so empty inside.. that they dont know that behind the smile the makeup the blonde hair..sometimes even my friends wouldn't understand.. that behind all the image is a real person..
who has real feelings and that is hurt by this one guy so much that it feels like my soul is dying inside every passing day because.. whats left now is the empty feeling that you don't have almost anybody to turn to and trust?
I believe in God so I pray sometimes at night when
im feeling hurt or upset or alone the most.
I pray that he will make it all better.. that somehow that person will return to me and love me and be with me once again. Or that in time i will find true love again that this love will leave me and the pain will fade away.. But it seems that nothings changed. i do believe that your hopes can come true if you want it soo much.. do you?
2007-03-23 08:02:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe we all have the power to get whatever we want as long as we believe in it. My ex boyfriend left me a few years ago. I was heart broken, I really loved him and thought he was the one. I always wished and prayed he would come back to me. A year and a half past, I had not talk to him or seen him since the day he broke up with me, he contacted me and said he made the biggest mistake of his life.. Begged me to come back to him. I never got over him, never moved on.. and now we are together and talking marriage. I wanted this, and I believe I made it happen.
Just be careful what you wish for.. what you may think is a blessing might end up being a curse.
I sometimes regret being so depressed after we broke up because I spent a year and a half depressed and lonely. It's so hard sometime breaking up with someone, almost like a death.. some people don't understand it. Your friends are probably saying well, Time or find someone else.. but it's so hard when you really find someone special to you. Just keep your head up and know you have the power to do anything. Good luck to you!
2007-03-23 08:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know? I think there are many things to learn to help you understand your own sadness. Hope this helps you.
First, love has physical consequences. Just like when you feel happy when a man courts you or excited or even sexually motivated when he kisses you, your body has had a reaction when you discovered the relationship is over. You need to understand that your sadness has a physical component.
Next, you have made a decision and you have acted accordingly, but you are not getting the result you wanted any more. When you love, you expose your feelings, your trust, your time, your dreams, your ideals, your commitment... a lot of things. If you are feeeling hurt now, it is because you are not getting the result you want anymore and you need to recover from the impact of being disappointed. It is a goal you have to achieve, now or later.
But you are feeling down now... mm... You are feeling DESOLATION to the point of wondering if it is worth continue living... Don't let your desolation kill you, my friend (whether literally or not)! After desolation, you will recover and CONSOLATION will come to your life to help you go on. Too complicated? Your body will stop generating the chemical substances you have been generating while you have been in love and you will feel peace. You will. =)
When? Here come the good news: You decide it.
So, now? What I have told you so far is that your current sadness has a physical component, a mind component and that you will decide when that will finish or not. What you need to do now is to put yourself together, smile and continue with your life. There your homework.
You just need to decide when you are going to do your homework. Actually, God is waiting with his pop-corn to see how you overcome and start smiling again. Will you keep him waiting?
Show an smile now, try out. This has been a long answer. =)
2007-03-23 10:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by Tedel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will get better with time. I have been where you are a couple of times. It actually gets better when you start focusing on you and being happy with you. Most of the pain comes from just feeling alone and THAT is not about the guy its about how you feel about you. So, when you feel down go do something for you...a manicure, window shopping, ice cream, go to a park. Life is to short and there is a guy out there waiting just for you. :) Everything does happen for a reason. Ask God for strength and he will give it to you...
Good Luck!
2007-03-23 08:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by iamafly2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever hear the one about "men are like bus's, you miss one and another will be along it a little bit"...??? Get over him and move on. You are experiencing infatuation or puppy love. True love comes from years and years of being with a person day in and day out. Good times and bad times. Sharing life's experiences. Trust me...find another guy, you'll be okay.
2007-03-23 08:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry you are feeling this way.
But it really is good that you're turning to God for the hope and strength to carry on again.
It just seems that nothing has changed because you are trying to push for something to change RIGHT NOW and you want everything to be better RIGHT NOW. God has a plan for you. He will bring you the right one in HIS time. You just have to have faith in Him. Everything happens for a reason.
Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, stand up and keep your head up high. Be proud of who you are and be happy that your prince charming will be coming to you. God will bring him to you.
2007-03-23 08:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I used to feel that way, but not anymore. There are more important things in life to pine for.
2007-03-23 08:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who leaves you is an idiot and therefore you are better than him and deserve better.
2007-03-23 08:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes i do and i know EXACTLY how u feel!!
2007-03-23 08:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by ~* 3 Months Prego*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋