My wife is a beautiful woman, Everytime my wife steps out the door, our new neightbor either raises his window or goes out side and checks out my wife. He told her once that he wishes she was not married. He is married but he has whistled at her, I am not usally the jealous type, but I am getting a little pi-- about this. My wife can turn head when she is wearing sweet pants and one of my t-shirts and no make-up, but this man is really getting on my last nerve. My wife has actually told this guy to f--- off and he still does this should I step in and say something to this guy?
2007-03-23 08:05:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She can not even play with our kids in the yard with out him watching her or saying something
2007-03-23 08:11:38 · update #1
You better step in, and fast! If your wife said that to him, obviously its bothering her and he thinks she was just kidding around. First, when the douche bag isn't home, go over and talk to his wife and let her know what's going on. She may have no clue. If she fails to believe you, hold a demonstration for her. Tell her to keep her pie hole shut and just watch. When he gets home, have her call you for some trivial reason (signal for a meeting). Have your wife go out and do something in the yard by herself. If all is true, he will follow. This will prove to his wife that he has a chubby for your wife. Let his wife come out and confront him personnaly about the flirting. About that time, come out and join the conversation and add your two cents. If that doesn't work, threaten him. Walk up and stand nose to nose with him, and tell him where this is headed if he continues. Your lady is not in the best of prediciments and she needs someone to stand up for her – YOU! If you don't do it, he may progress to making a move on her physically. If that happens, you know what rock bottom feels like for a coward.
2007-03-23 08:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing you and your wife can do is ignore this guy. He's obviously a jerk if he's coming on to a married woman, especially in front of you. If he tries to get physical with her or she feels he's harrassing her, I'm sure you could file a complaint with the police, but if it's just an innocent attempt to flirt, just try to ignore it (it's especially important that your wife ignores it, or else she'll encourage him).
2007-03-23 08:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by crabbyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be everywhere your wife goes and beat up (I know your not) everyone that looks at her. You hit "Gold" when you married your wife and everyone around you is jealous. You know she loves you and you love her, so show it! Give your neighbor something to look at, show him who the luckiest guy on the block is. And while your kissing her and he's watching you, give him the "thumbs up". Plus I'm sure that will impress your wife, by showing her how well you are taking it. The high road is always the better road.
2007-03-23 08:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by book 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is clear your wife has no interest. Although your wife is a beautiful woman this guy is crude and rude and there is no excuse for his behavior. I would have your wife talk to his wife and advise if this continues she will have the police there are file a harassment report and press charges.
2007-03-23 08:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is definitely doing that. Stay away from her man unless you want big trouble....of course if they break up and shes still flirting with you, then should be good to go, though I wouldnt keep her as a serious girlfriend, she might just do the same to you!
2016-03-17 01:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He crossed the line when he told her he wished she was not married. I would absolutely talk to this guy and tell him he has crossed the line. You can do this politely the first time. Tell him that not only are you offended but your wife who is the woman he is trying to impress, is offended. But to answer your question, I think you should definitely say something to him. I wouldnt feel bad about it at all or nervous because he had NO regard for you when he told her that he wished she wasnt married.
2007-03-23 08:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by GTO 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if I were you i would say something this guy sounds like a jerk who obviously does not respect women or marriage. I wouldn't be mean if I were you but I would tell him that you don't appreciate it would like him to stop if he doesn't respect your wishes then I would be a little more blunt....it is awful that a neighbor could potentially drive you out of your neighborhood..
2007-03-23 08:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell ya, walk out with her and when he says something or does something put him in his place. Shes your woman, She married you.
The good ol line "what are you looking at" always seems to get the point across. If he comes back with a smart @$$ remark do not back down. Either threaten him with a verbal harrassment claim or whatever floats your boat. If you back down he will think your a pushover
2007-03-23 08:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss it with your wife first. If she doesn't have any reservations, then yes, tell the guy that his action are making your wife very uncomfortable. Ask him to stop staring and making comments to her.
2007-03-23 08:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by Dino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it eat you up.
You need confidence in your girl not to cheat on you.
If you have that, then you will take people flirting with your girl as a compliment.
2007-03-23 08:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋