After awhile they don't bother but with short hugs, and little pecks on tight lips. It makes me feel like he's gotten what he wanted, and now he not interested any more. Why do they do this? I don't feel like I turn him on anymore although he says that I do.
2007-03-23 07:54:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has caught his chase.
2007-03-23 07:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jewel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal, the beginning of a relationship is so fun, fresh, and new. Your much more aggressive in that stage. After a while you get more comfortable with each other, things slow down - things aren't new, or as fun and exciting. That little thing you use to do with your nose when you were happy (or whatever) no longer seen as an interesting thing. It's turned to a standard.
It's not that he doesn't like you as much, things are just slowing down. Either find a way to spice up your relationship or get over it because it won't just change.
2007-03-23 15:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by B-Rad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the same thing when we get something new, we are excited and ready to grab it, play with it etc. but after a while when it's with us, we forget it, or we still treasure it but dont express as much. It's more calm in nature. Ofcourse, it can also mean your guy is losing interest and the attraction has only been mostly on a physical level, but I don't know enough to comment further. But what you are going through is a natural phase. Just let him know how you feel, so he knows about your needs..
2007-03-23 15:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because these kinds of men have been around the block and dont value what a kiss, or hug or intimacy is supposed to be about. They have lost the emotional and spiritual meaning of what a relationship is supposed to be about. Another words that is when they start referring to you as their old lady .
2007-03-24 20:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So negative ladies!
Honestly I do the same thing to my wife on a general basis but I know that she desires that intimacy so I do spend time kissing her like we were dating again. Why? I know thats what she needs to feel loved so I do it for her. I enjoy it too but its not an every night need for me.
Guys usually do not grasp this concept and if they do many are too selfish to make the effort. Tell him how you feel I am pretty sure he will make an effort for you.
BTW we guys are thick so ya GOTTA speak up.
2007-03-23 15:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because apparently you ain't doing something right you should try to rekindle the old flames with him and let him know how you feel
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2007-03-23 15:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how he makes you feel good and tell him that you don't wanna be kissed like how he can kiss his mom. Tell him that you feel abandoned.
2007-03-23 15:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but that is SOOOO true. although one of my relationships was like that the whole time, u know, love letters and stuff. but hey, that was kindergarten!!!
2007-03-23 14:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL U GOT TO UNDESTAND THAT ALL THISE LITTLE THINGS THAT MAKE U FEEL GOOD INSIDE ARE NOTHING TO HIM..THATS WHY IT CAN SLIP HIS MIND THAT HE HASN'T DONE IT!!
2007-03-23 14:59:17 · answer #9 · answered by cookiemonster31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves sex, not you. I am positive.
2007-03-23 14:59:48 · answer #10 · answered by rachel in vancouver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋