Family & Relationships - 22 March 2007

I`ll try cut the long story short to spare you all anyway,my ex of 6 years walked out on me and our son for the 2nd time just after new year,we`d been back together for only 5 months.

Our son is 4 and has learning difficulties and last time his daddy left he was really upset and hated being at home.So this time i told my ex he`d have to wait a while to i get my son settled down again before contacting.

My son still obviously remebers his dad but cant speak to ask questions about where he is so i have to tell him that he lives in a new house etc when he points to my ex`s chair and stuff.I told his dad that he could maybe come see him and he asked if next friday was ok.I said i`d get back to him,my family don`t think it`s the right thing to do and think i should get him settled at school first.My ex`s family haven`t been in touch since he didn`t get any contact,i just don`t know what is for the best,i want to protect my son and not cause him undue stress.

2007-03-22 15:18:35 · 16 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a crush on this senior.(im a soph by the way) He is nice...way too nice. i dont want a boyfriend in highschool.. but i can't stop talking to him. I think he likes me.... i hope. wat should i do?

2007-03-22 15:18:30 · 8 answers · asked by zhuchenxinnickyzhu 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend and i like this guy but he likes her and he's going to ask her out and i dont knoe what to do.

2007-03-22 15:18:10 · 11 answers · asked by chocolate_girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I called an old friend today and I had to tell her my maiden name for her to understand who I was. I started thinking about my old name and who I was. That person, (myself with my maiden name) seems to be more of a really close friend that I grew up with but not myself. I can't even imagine being that person or that name anymore. Has anyone else thought or felt this way too?

2007-03-22 15:17:58 · 23 answers · asked by Peggy Pirate 6 in Marriage & Divorce

That when someone asks you out and you don't like them and you say no ...then later you end up liking them(when they don't like you any more) ????

2007-03-22 15:17:46 · 10 answers · asked by sports_chick 2 in Singles & Dating

I seriously doubt extremely old wrinkly people have sex? or do they? and does it get hard to perform sex at an older age due to various reasons?

2007-03-22 15:17:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wat is your story?? do u regret not asking someone out or not telling someone that you loved them or even not marrying someone and you regreted it later??

winner gets best answer of course so spill

2007-03-22 15:16:50 · 19 answers · asked by karen 5 in Singles & Dating

ok iam 12 years old and i like this guy called luc and he knows that i like him too. so that day in contruction class luc was sitting close to my best friends and he started touching both of my friends pencil case and also talking to them and not talking to me . my friends pissed me of so bad so did he. and then he went to go to the washroom and he asks my best friends to take care of his stuff. i got even angrier and i even know that he doesn't like any of friends because iam prettier than them / that's what my friends say to me.why is he doing this to me? do you know any ideas so i can get him to be mine?

2007-03-22 15:16:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said to my friend that he's way to shy to talk to me and stuff. A few weeks later, we were actually talking, but not for long. Everyday, I go to his locker, "pretend" to be seeing my neighbor, and I've been saying bye to him for a long time. Well, todat at school, I went upstairs and it felt like my books were about to fall.. So he came up to me and asked if i needed help and stuff. And since I'm going to his friend's house tomorrow (he's going to be there), he asked if I was comming. I said yeah, 100%. And he smiled and said "I'm glad." I mean, I trust my friend very much, but are these signs that he likes me? I've also discorvered that he's scared to talk to me around his friends for whatever reason..

Additional notes: He's been looking at me, smiling at me and always tried to make me laugh.

2007-03-22 15:15:49 · 27 answers · asked by Mayu 1 in Singles & Dating

My finace will let me pick any ring I want, no matter the cost, but I was thinking of a Claddagh ring because the symbolism is so romantic.

I am not sure if I want a classic ring that is only gold, or one where the the heart is a diamond. I like the idea of a diamond only because 1) it seems more like a wedding ring, and 2) a diamond is the strongest natural mineral, which is also very symbolic.

However, the plain gold bands are more traditional and a little more classic and basic (I like simple). So...gold, diamond, or maybe something else entirely like a huge rock from Tiffanys?

2007-03-22 15:14:36 · 16 answers · asked by Chelsea 3 in Weddings

i go to parties and places were there are alot of single women, but never know what to say or how to approach them. needless to say, i always end up going home alone. i've been to a few clubs and have girls check me out and stare for a few seconds several times and make eye contact. BUT I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO SAY! please help

2007-03-22 15:14:34 · 5 answers · asked by moviescarsfun 1 in Singles & Dating

i seriously like my bestfriends boyfriend. he says he likes me too. i've known him for a year and i've known her for 5 years! i dont know what to do! he always tries to hold my hand and he tried to kiss me! UGH! help?

2007-03-22 15:14:14 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do you honestly believe that two people who have not physically met but have talked on line and on telephone exstensively and also know what the others appearance is can fall in love, honestly?

2007-03-22 15:13:59 · 10 answers · asked by gone fishing! 5 in Singles & Dating

Who is the person you would like that go to the bed with you right now?

2007-03-22 15:13:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 41/2 months pregnant and my bf is working in another country. i looked at his myspace and he was messaging some girl (who lives where he is working) i asked him and he denied it. almost 2 weeks later i see that he messaged her telling her to ignore any messages from me. not to answer my questions about how they know eachother. and she messages back with her number. he said a guy he works with called her and they all went out. he claims he left early. well i told him i was done. that we were over and he lost it. he claims he didnt do anything with her and he lied so i wouldnt get mad but that he was just chatting. he is now on an oil rig and called me from a phone that is in front of everyone. he was crying and begging me to take him back. i know he loves me. but i dont know what to do? a lil help please!!!

2007-03-22 15:13:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Scenario: You meet this person and you just click but that person tells you that they've had 2 heartattacks. Would you even further the friendship? Go to the next level? Or just avoid the person knowing that u get attached so easily to someone and care about them more than you like. Need honest Opinion... Thanks!

2007-03-22 15:13:01 · 12 answers · asked by sk97us 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 15 years old and you can say i have a lot of experience with the boys but im in a pickle. I really like this guy whos kind of shy. We have been on like 4 dates and he still hasn't made a move. I want him to make the first move but i also really want to kiss him. I know he likes me and i have way more experience then him but i just want him to kiss me right now. Should i make the first move and if so how?

2007-03-22 15:12:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i was talking to my boyfriend and he ment to say something nice about me but called me his ex's name does that mean anything? when i asked him he said that she was annoying him and they broke up in february??? so whats that mean

2007-03-22 15:12:47 · 6 answers · asked by girliepinkness 2 in Singles & Dating

I am meeting my officiant next week, 2 days before wedding. Should I warn him I have a tattoo or just let him see it at the ceremony? It is an arm band. The church we attend has a great pastor but always looks at my tattoo in a way that I feel judged. I don't want to feel this way on my day. Am I thinking about this too much, or should I say something?

2007-03-22 15:11:42 · 20 answers · asked by pchiz 3 in Weddings

2007-03-22 15:11:23 · 30 answers · asked by Luli the Latin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-22 15:11:00 · 9 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Singles & Dating

I’ve been with my boy friend for 3 years. We have just recently broke up but for only about a week. We broke up about 3-4 times but not for any longer than 3 weeks. When we break up I cry all the time I feel so abandoned and heart broken it kills me inside because I love this man to death, I would do anything for him. When he breaks up with me he says such hurtful things like I don't want to be with you any more I’m fed up, with all the arguing, one time he told me he didn't feel the same for me anymore. He acts like I’m just some girl in the street.He won't call me he acts like he is happier without me. Then when I decide it's really over and try to move on he calls me crying that he misses me and he can't be without me and he wants things to change, he wants to go to counseling. He says he doesn't want anyone else, he wants me to be his wife and all this stuff but then why did he break up with me. I mean I know we argue a lot but why hurt me. I never want to feel like that again.

2007-03-22 15:10:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi all...I am 26yrs old, a house wife-got married when I was 24. I have a Bachelor's degree-I have always had these dreams and goals to be a big shot corporate person, to get up in the morning, go to work, come home to my husband and kids (we have one right now). Anyway I used to work before we got married, after we got married, we had to move- well, I had to move- here...to Atlanta. I dont know anybody here BUT my husband. I love and honor him but sometimes I need some air, I wish I could see someone else ( as in friends, not men to cheat) but just be able to talk to someone else but him, you know...
I have got a few job leads online but I cant even make it to the interviews bse my husband has to go work- Qn is...how do I keep my cool and not feel frustrated or feel like I am losing my life...I want to make something out of myself, I want to feel like a young woman- I dont want to hate being married, but how do I achieve my dream without being too ambitious?

2007-03-22 15:10:46 · 15 answers · asked by Venus 2 in Marriage & Divorce

mmkay im 15 and my boyfriend broke up with me today. he told me that he just cant ever make anything last. then i saw some girl had commented him on myspace and was talkin about him being single and what not. i think he's tryin to get with her. so i need some suggestions on how to make him jealous!! (i know this is really stupid and i shouldnt worry about it but guess what I DO! =])

2007-03-22 15:08:59 · 20 answers · asked by deborah s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-22 15:08:39 · 8 answers · asked by lirtravia g 1 in Singles & Dating

in in high school im 15 years old. 5 foot 3 inches, 105 pounds, long brown wavy hair, wears really cute cothes, wears makeup, mini skirts ect. Im always giving ppl hugs inbetween classes alot guys like me but they never ask me out. I HAVE NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND! honestly..please belive me, im not cocky or nothing but theirs at least 2 guys in each class that like me n flirt n stuff. my friends tell me im drop dead gorgeous n yea, why dont guys ask me out????

2007-03-22 15:08:33 · 11 answers · asked by CaLiFoRnIA GirL 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm moving out of the state in which my daughter was born and the father lives... how would I file and how would we have a court date?

2007-03-22 15:08:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me about it,
he asked if i wanted to show off my nice tan whe i came in to work with a tear on my sweater by my neck
in the middle of a converation he asked if i was weraing lipstick(but i wearing lipgloss) and mentioned something about me biting of his thing
he called me stupid and i told him to shut up because i'm positive he's doen some dumb things before but he told me "i've done some dumb girls before" and i laughed and he got mad
i'm 19, he's 25 and engaged

2007-03-22 15:08:05 · 8 answers · asked by precious 1 in Singles & Dating

a budhist ran off with my wife!!!

2007-03-22 15:07:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bestie is going out with a guy she know i like and she kissed right in front of me >;p

2007-03-22 15:07:42 · 6 answers · asked by Apple bomb 1 in Singles & Dating