have u ever loved someone and they had no idea?

Question

wat is your story?? do u regret not asking someone out or not telling someone that you loved them or even not marrying someone and you regreted it later??

winner gets best answer of course so spill

Answer 1

There was a boy that was my brothers BEST FRIEND. He grew up with us since I was little. He always looked at me like a lil sis and vise versa. He protected me and stuck up for me and I always told everyone I had two brothers. He ended up living with us during every summer, so til this day people think/thought we were blood brothers and sisters. Anyway, as I grew up we would talk about our relationships and he started to complI'ment me on transitioning from a girl to a nice young lady, and he started to grow on me. I started to love him so much, and I started to like him in a different way. It was no longer a brother/sister love. I could see us really happy together. He understood me more then any man I've ever been with. I loved him so much, as a brother and as my future man....but I never got to tell him how I really felt. I was always in a relationship and he was too. He passed away at a young age (22)...He was a good man, and I still love him to death. He was my brother and my best guy friend. And no one ever knew. This is actually the first time Ive ever talked about this.
(thanks to your question...im crying now) But thanks...i got it off my chest...

Answer 2

Hi Karen,
Yes, I've loved someone who had no idea that I did. In fact,
she didn't even know I existed. I lived about 900 miles away,
and her work came past me every day (except weekends).
At first, I thought it was infatuation or maybe a crush, then I
went to a psychiatrist for an evaluation. I spilled my guts to
him and asked his opinion. After a lengthy silence, he sat up
in his chair and told me that my condition is a rare form of
unreturned love! It's TRUE love, but it isn't two-way like normal love would be. [..and there's nothing I can do about it..]
Shortly thereafter, more of her work came past and she was
announcing her engagement! I TOTALLY LOST IT !!
That night, I tried to commit suicide--spent two weeks in the
psych ward of the hospital. Not proud of it, but it happened.
I had no way to contact her to tell her how I felt, and now all my
hopes and reasons for living were gone!

Answer 3

Well I know this sounds cliche, but when I met this guy I swear it was love at first sight...I know...pathetic!! I really wanted to tell him how I felt, but there was one problem...my best friend had feelings for him too. To make a long story short, it came to a point where I couldn't hide it anymore. I was hanging out with him and I leaned over and kissed him. We are now engaged. It was worth every second of fear!!! If you love someone, I mean really love someone, tell them. If they don't feel the same way, you will heal and move on eventually...it will just take time. But if they do love you in return, it may just provide for a lifetime of happiness and love. Give it a shot, don't let fear take that chance away from you. I really hope this helps, and I wish you the best of luck!!!!!!

Answer 4

I fell in love with this guy before we even officially met. I saw him in the hall a few times and I just knew he was it. We dated on and off for like 3 years. He went one way and I went the other. He'd call me from time to time, but didn't understand that I was dying without him. It was so hard trying to get over him. He never left my thoughts and never left my heart. As much as I swore up and down he was out of my system, I knew he wasn't. I've dated guys after him, but it wasn't the same. I always found myself like "comparing" them to him.
He found me like 10 years later and confessed that he's loved me ever since we first met. He said that he would've married me when we were in school. I didn't have a clue about that because I never knew he felt like that. We never really talked about our feelings back then. We were too busy with school and our friends, but always managed to see each other on a regular basis.
We've been talking and seeing each other and trying to work things out between our busy schedules. We both agreed we should have talked about this years ago and we both agreed that we would have been married to each other long before this. He says I'm "The One" for him and I know he's "The One" for me.

Answer 5

My love , love is so ugly , you will never understand the meaning of it , I dont care how old you get , , now life is and it work on a way that you will make wrong desitions , love thouse you love and take the pain later , but please love first , you have to learnd , dont worry life is only one ok , do as you feel , dont ask leasing to your heart , I had fail so many times but , is nothing that in this life no one will tell me about love and failure , we are humans not animals , love all you want ok , only one life

Answer 6

he's my bestfriend and i got feeeling for him like a long time aho but everytime i "casually" bring up the subject GFs or who he likes he always ends just saying he doesnt want a gf or he doesnt like anyone and i love him so much and wish i could tell him how i feel but we have such a goodfriendship and i couldnt bare to hear him say no, but if we did go out all i would ever do is worry about how he feels, we hang out so much we're tughter than an emo boys pants but if we go will he start thinking of me as a pesky gf so much i'm just confused

Answer 7

usually that happens when you are very young.
for example falling in love with a movie star.
or loving someone you don't really know well.
i don't regret anything because now i realize those
relationships weren't real relationships they were
only fantasies projected onto that person.
you need to spend some time with the person to
really love them, have a real relationship.
so get busy and ask them out unless they are already married.
then just go find someone else.

Answer 8

Ok..so when i was 10 (i know YOUNG) i liked this guy and it was so obvoius we liked each other. But both of us were scared to talk to each other (this is after school friends can't help :-(..) then one day he stopped coming to the class and i found out he moved...I still regret not telling him how I feel bc/ i thought i loved him...ever since then i tell people stuff before they move

Answer 9

A lot yes. I think my family came in and wrecked the possibilities. I respect and love my mother and father, but they definitely can be a little overcontrolling with ideals about who my future partner can be. I tend to consider there idea, but I like to trust my gut instinct and just try and see if the relationship can work out.

Answer 10

Sadly yes...

We worked at Toys "R" Us together. I had the biggest crush on him!!! Well, the semester started again (college). We'd see each other on campus and whenever he'd see me he'd say my name and my insides would melt.

I went to the mall one day and say him working in a high-end dept. store. He was dressed in a suit (men's dept) and I never saw him sexier/ cuter!!!!

Some time after that I went back to that store to confess my love for him.... but sadly he was gone.

We had a mutual friend, but I haven't seen her (like him) in at least 10 years and have no idea how to contact either of them.


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