2007-03-22 15:11:23 · 30 answers · asked by Luli the Latin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yep.....if i need to be associated with a snotty nosed kid i want it to be my own!
2007-03-22 15:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not, after all you are a person not just a mum . I used to worry about this but believe me most men are fine about it. I have a 5yr old from a previous relationship and got married in December. When I was dating my then boyfriend he said it didn't bother him one bit. Being a single parent, you are probably much more independant and have a good heart so dont worry about it. If having a child scares a man off he is not worth it anyway! And believe me there are some very uninteresting men out there so you should be the picky one!!
Oh yeah and piepiepie your full of crap.
2007-03-24 08:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Only if you don't match the single man's needs of wanting a family in the future. I would like to have at least three children of my own. I will accept other children and help those children of a future spouse, but if she doesn't want to have that many, then I'm out of luck and have to make it a rule breaker. I have no choice. I'm not going to accept it any other way. My father once asked me when I was 27 if I would start accepting single females with children. I told him that I would. He said, "Because you know now that you are getting older, a lot will have at least one child. It's a hard fact of life." Now I'm 34 and still single, never married; not much dating or action in my city. We could chat sometime. My email is scottsorgent@hotmail.com Thanks for the post. I hope to hear from you soon.
2007-03-22 15:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by scottsorgent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Probably older guys or guys who have been divorced themselves may not mind but in general younger men may think that being a single mother is a turn off.
As I have never been married before (or had a kid), I would not date a woman that already has a kid. Uh, no thank you. If there's a kid around the house I'd rather it be mine.
2007-03-22 16:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Taharqa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it should make you less 'interesting' after all you may have more interests than a single woman who sits home all the time doing nothing.
but it might make you less desirable as a possiblepartner to some men since they may want a partner who can be free and childless with them before they have kids, or they may not want another mans kids, or they may not want any at all.
2007-03-22 15:18:59 · answer #5 · answered by zimba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make you less interesting, it makes you a threat. Most men are scared of getting involved with someone with a child. If things go the wrong way then their are two people that will be hurt. Get my drift?
2007-03-24 02:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by dogcatcher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not necessarily- It all boils down to who you are- If a man finds you interesting and actually loves the person you are, having a child will not be an obstacle! Its about your personality, how he feels and not about being a single parent or not...
Some men actually dont mind....
2007-03-22 15:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Venus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All depends on the man, and how good you look!
If you look very attractive and have a great baby sitting arrangement for your child, the situation would not be too difficult.
You will also have to accept that some man will not even consider dating you, because you already have a child by another man.
Dr. O
2007-03-22 15:21:30 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was a single mom and yes it was something that A LOT of men bailed on me so to answer your question it is yes...they may find u attractive, but ...they a lot of them do not want to invest time or money or future with u due to this because it is baggage/.....remember men are NOT AS MATURE as women and they can be a little more shallow so just be careful in your man hunt my dear...i had to be and after time after time of being rejected...i married one who did marry me...but he is not really that great either...so so sorry to tell u this...just being honest and telling u from what i have gone thru.
2007-03-22 15:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends. It actually makes you more interesting to some men. I would try to go for guys with equal interests and goals as you. Kids can be really important to some guys.
2007-03-22 15:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by S A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that has not been a problem with me. probably because most of the single men i've dated are also single dads. so we have something in common.
2007-03-22 16:37:35 · answer #11 · answered by mariah c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋