how do you approach a girl that you don't know or have never talked to before?

Question

i go to parties and places were there are alot of single women, but never know what to say or how to approach them. needless to say, i always end up going home alone. i've been to a few clubs and have girls check me out and stare for a few seconds several times and make eye contact. BUT I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO SAY! please help

Answer 1

Just be straight forward. Girls like romance but not in loud places. Just walk up to the girl you like and introduce yourself. Ask her if she wants a drink. It doesn't really matter what you say but how you say it. Don't be patronizing, just be polite. Don't start talking about your interests, ask her about hers. You really don't have to say much - be a good listener, cos if there's one thing girls like, it's talking to someone who loves to listen. So, all you really need is a big smile and good questions.

Answer 2

ask them if they are from around here
and if you need to tell them that you dont know anyone at the party or club
and dont forget to introduce yourself and ask them their names
try to make comments about the place you're at, like maybe you like the music or the weather is nice today

dont feel awkward to ask questions

Answer 3

just say hi and start a conversation confindance is KEY if u arent confindent, then just walk away, cause u look pretty pathetic if you come up to a girl then talk to the florr lol,

Answer 4

walk up say hi and bam the converstation is started

Answer 5

just say "hey, you come here often?" at a bar (sucky i know :D)

for parties say "hey whats goin on? this is some party isnt it?"