Scenario: You meet this person and you just click but that person tells you that they've had 2 heartattacks. Would you even further the friendship? Go to the next level? Or just avoid the person knowing that u get attached so easily to someone and care about them more than you like. Need honest Opinion... Thanks!
2007-03-22 15:13:01 · 12 answers · asked by sk97us 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do agree with the person who said that two heart attacks does not equal terminal but I think that the person deserves to be happy before they die and if I can bring them happiness then I don't see why not. It may be very hard on me to fall in love and get attached to someone that will have to leave me so soon, but it could be worth it. You do not know how many beautiful memories you will have of your times with that person. You do not know how they will influence or change your life. I think I would still date the person knowing this because you never know who is going to make your life.
2007-03-22 15:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by prettyenoughforyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know them better, but i wouldnt get into a relationship, because: 1. do u want the responsibility of him/her? 2. if they die, will you feel that you were the cause? 3. That is probably alot of extra do's and don'ts
If you think that you are up the the changes and consequences, then i would say go ahead, but im pretty sure that that is alot of work
2007-03-22 15:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by aggiegrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably still talk to him but I wouldn't like fall in love with him because I know for a fact that I would get hurt if anything bad were to happen to him.
I would rather not be so attached to that person. ;)
2007-03-22 15:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by watnowgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you and this person really clicked i would give it a try. you will learn something from them, but most importantly make them happy. you cant predict heartattacks, so its a 50/50 situation...
2007-03-22 15:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to say go for it, because you dont know what the future holds,
if anything it will halp to strengthen you as a person(not saying that you are a bad person just saying it as general thought)
the harder the relationship the more you know what you can take in life.
and as the future anything can happen at any time to either of you you is to say health is going to be that cause
best of luck to you
2007-03-22 15:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by scarlett13854 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter what we would do. In theory, I would say that no I wouldn't become too involved. It just doesn't make logical sense.
In that situation I may follow my heart. Only you can decide.
2007-03-22 15:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by Interested 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as whatever he has isnt contagious then I think it could be fine.. it also depends on you.. if he is very likely to die, then it isnt worth getting feelings for him b/c think about how sad it'll be when he dies.
2007-03-22 15:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by WORLD FAMOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone, if they are ill it shouldnt matter. Go for it
2007-03-22 15:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would date someone like that if my heart was in .follow your heart.
2007-03-22 15:18:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty shallow of you if you avoid this preson just because they have health issues. It means you are selfish.
2007-03-22 15:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by Buckwheat 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋