My fiancee deployed to iraq in july,all he talked about was getting married, on sept.22,06 he proposed over the phone, i waited for him,based on his promise i did a tubal reversal & started to take fertility pills by his request, he planned our wedding on april 7th, 2007. i was counting down the days. he came home in feb.8th 2007, and he was very different, he didn't fight front line,he is a high rank marine. His attitude is unpredictable, there's times he is affectionate and times he is distant, he changed the wedding again to mid may, now he says he don't know when, plus i missed my period, and he wasn't happy with the thought of me being pregnant, now he says he needs to deploy for 3 years and wants me to wait for him, that he will marry me before he deploys, and swears he is not trying to leave us, but trying to give us a better life, can't take us cause the limit is 4 dependents and if i am pregnant that will be 5 dependents and he will be disqualified in being promoted.
2007-03-22
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boriquacj
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Marriage & Divorce