My gf and a few of her coworkers are going on a work related conference for 4 days. She was supposed to room with another woman, but then one day before the trip the other woman cannot make it and the room got cancelled.
Since the conference hotel was fully booked, my gf has two options:
(a) get a room at another hotel, which is 10 min walking distance,
(b) room with a male coworker,
She opted for (b) but then I voiced my objection and she changed her mind. My question is, was I overreacting?
2007-03-22 15:21:48 · 12 answers · asked by line6hack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Added detail:
My gf said there's nothing between them, and she has known him and his wife for years etc.
I don't think she's gonna cheat on me, but still it puts me in an awkward situation. So, was I overreacting to object to that.
2007-03-22 15:28:39 · update #1
about the cancelled room, actually I didn't write the whole story because it's too long, but the cancellation is not a made up. Thanks to those who replied.
2007-03-22 16:24:38 · update #2
Your objections are understandble and appropriate and quite normal. I myself would have said no way to such an arrangement. But one must consider this, though it might not be much comfort, it is still truth...not sharing a room with her co-worker is still no guarantee that nothing is going to happen with them...i'd like to say some things about trust, but the longer i live the less i trust people
2007-03-22 15:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by HRM Queen Victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wanna sleep with her coworker. She just cooked up a story about the other woman dropping out and room cancelled suff. LOL
2007-03-22 15:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Atheist Eye Candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way unacceptable dude. Yeahwhy wasnt his room cancelled....that story was made up...lol.
2007-03-22 15:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was thinking about something don't you think,you did the right thing but can you really trust her now on the trip,that would be hard to do if it was me,I mean that was out of the question to even think that.
2007-03-22 15:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BYE BYE GIRLFRIEND!! SEE THAT IS WHAT I WOULD BE SAYING TO HER IF I WAS A GUY!! BYE BYE WHATS HER FACE AND SHE CAN SAY HELLO TO THAT MAN SHE ROOMED WITH AND PUT UP WITH HIS SNORING AND FARTING AND STUPID HABITS HE HAS AND GUESS WHAT BABY...U ARE FREE YEAH FREE FROM A WEIRDO LIKE HER ...BUT U BEST NOT CHEAT ON YOUR NEW GIRL ONCE U FIND HER. OK I GOT CARRIED AWAY...BUT OH NO NO NO SHE IS JUST MAKING SOME DAMN DUMB AZZ EXCUSE TO SHARE A ROOM WITH SOME MAN SO HER COOOCHIE CAN GET SOME VIBE WHILE U R NOT WITH HER OH NO... MAYBE SHE NEEDS HER VIBRATOR ...NOPE WAIT A BIBLE YES A BIBLE TOHELP HER BE MORE MORAL AND NOT CHEAT!HOPE THIS HELPS AND NO I AM NOT CRAZY JUST BLUNT!
2007-03-22 15:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
She can room with whoever she wants, she isnt married to you.Also, she will behave the same way after you are married.If you rub 2 sticks together long enough, you WILL get a fire, and she and the co worker are rubbing sticks.
2007-03-22 15:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO! That is totally unacceptable! Your wife should know better! I think she has feelings for this guy...You did the right thing!
2007-03-22 15:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to look into further, as a matter of fact she needs to change jobs before you find out the truth..
2007-03-22 15:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO and I mean NO. I feel for you, but If you ok this, you deserve what you get out of stupidity.
2007-03-22 15:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by kaspercoffee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol OMFG! No you weren't overacting. What would be on "your" mind if "you" were the male co-worker?
2007-03-22 15:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by Buckwheat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋