I have a friend named Rizal .he likes me and another friend name Amar also likes me too.So,i don know which one should i choose.please anyone help me because they always ask me which one i choose until i cannot study.help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-22 15:22:29 · 24 answers · asked by hasdiatul shima 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if they are forcing you to chose..are they really worth it. besides yahoo ppl cant decide for you because we dont know either of the guys or you. but the name amar is the better name out of the two =) good luck
2007-03-22 15:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem as you. What you need to do is imagine which guy you couldn't live your life without. Who treats you better? Who treats other people besides you better? Ask yourself these questions. Also, think who would be hurt more if you didn't pick them. And who have you known longer. Sometimes if you have been friends with a guy, it should stay that way. In other situations, it is better if you choose your closest friend. Hope I could help. Good luck!
2007-03-22 22:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by shefannigan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh. I wish I had problems like that.
Just go with the flow. What's your hurry? Just enjoy both their company and when the time comes, you'll know which one does that something special more for you.
In the meantime, it sounds everything is going fine. So take a deep breath and get back to your homework. Crushes will most likely come and go, but an education is for life.
2007-03-22 22:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is pretty hard to answer but I think they both should not make you choose. I think if either one likes you they should be patient with your decision. Do not let people influence or distract you from your goals. If they are both on your case, in my humble opinion, I would choose neither individual. You are the one they want, hence, you have absolute power over their decisions, not the other way around.
2007-03-22 22:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by AzuleNY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are still pursuing your education, you should be concentrating on your study and not involve in BGR yet. If you can't even know who to choose, this shows that you can't even tell who loves you and what love really is. Then my advice for you is choose your education and tell both of them to leave you alone cause your 1st love now should be the books.
Don't break your parents heart! They love you even before you are born!
2007-03-22 22:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Coco2say 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can have as many friends as we want - no need to choose; unless you mean much more than just a friend. If so, you need to ask yourself which one you like best? Who would you miss? Search your heart - only you know the answer.
2007-03-22 22:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, get to know them really well first .... pick the one whos interests are most like yours and has the best quaities (if theyre about the same, go on looks lol). sooooo yeah we cant really tell you who to like...
1. who makes you laugh more?
2. who teases you more?
3. who can make you smile even if youre having a crap day?
4. who do you hang out with most?
5. who have you known longer?
6. who is cuter?
7. who do you know better?
8. who shares more of you interests?
2007-03-22 22:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by bulletprooflonliness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this prob all the time, Wat u need 2 do is think about the past: which one has helped you out more. View over pros and cons. And if your a softie like me you can always pick a completely different person. Neither of them may like it but it will settle the dust.
2007-03-22 22:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by Jean E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what you mean by a friend likes me...is it a relationship or friendship...if its frienship then why cant all 3 hang out...if its a relationship then maybe the same answer will do...lol...whatever floats the boat i guess...just kidding
2007-03-22 22:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by spidercents123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart and follow it. if u really don't want to hurt your friend's feelings, maybe you shouldn't date either one of them. After a while, things could calm down a bit and it might be easier to choose if you still want to go out with them. i hope this helped!
2007-03-22 22:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by irish1994 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋