2007-03-22 15:20:03 · 14 answers · asked by dazhot4u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Well the wife and I have been married all most 16 yrs and we do not see eye to eye on everything and we have different views on a few things in life but we look past that because we love each other that much...If a couple truly loves each other they can get past anything..
2007-03-22 15:25:35 · answer #1 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. As an above poster said, my husband and I rarely se things eye to eye the first time, we usually need to discuss and come to a happy medium, although we've been married for a long time now and its becoming less that we differ on opinions, I think we are begining to share the same brain!
However, if I found out he had some serious differences of opinions that I about MAJOR things, like children, some political views, each others roles as husband and wife, etc, I would most definitley rethink the relationship and not marry him if I couldnt get past somethings. My personal beliefs arent worth years of fighting and misery just for the sake of getting married.
2007-03-23 01:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do these views cause a lot of problems? Values, morals, life plans are what is important. Views, those are based on opionions and how boring the world would be if we just married people that had the same opinions we did.
Think carefully if it is worth just that it is views. Agreeing to disagree can be a peaceful place and can actually help you learn from someone else.
2007-03-22 15:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the views are. My husband's family is Christian and mine is Catholic, and it seems that the way to not stir up the religion issue for us has been to choose not to have children. It works for us, we're going to travel, live a good life, and avoid the biggest fight we'd ever have. It was worth sacrificing the maternal instinct for me to marry the man that I love.
If you can't compromise and make sacrifices like that, then maybe you shouldn't get married.
2007-03-22 18:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by calliope320 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How different? And what type of views? If you truely love eachother then you can work through those differences and come to a compromise. That's a big part of marriage..compromise.. You have to give and take. If you really love him, I would try to work through it.
2007-03-22 15:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by NoTurningBackNow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry him unless you are both able to talk about each other's views. If either of you won't budge, feel uncomfortable or compromised - let it go. There has to be honesty or it'll never be a true marriage.
Be true to yourself.
2007-03-22 16:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by kittyfreek 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, see if there is a way that you can compromise. You dont want to go thru life wondering if u made a mistake and let something go that should have been
2007-03-22 17:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out who's right and go with it. If they love you back it'll work out, don't give up without a fight though, that's for sure. If it's not meant to be it won't work out, but at least you won't have to look back and wonder what might have been.
2007-03-22 15:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by Bimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just the way it is sometimes. Just chalk it up to a good experience, and realize that other things are more important to give them up.
2007-03-23 01:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is Love... and if its real then it shouldn't matter about "different views"!
2007-03-23 14:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋