Lets start with my OK(underline ok) friend was going out with this kid Victor. He broke up with her for um reasons that are unclear. Anywayzzz
We were good 'emailing friends' up until then. He told me how he asked this girl Kate out and said no and all that jazz. He then later asked me out. Being the smart kid I am I was all up in his bottom about you know being to desperate and to think about if he really likes me.
Soooo after some connections and gossip and making sure it wasn't desperate I eventually said yes.
Now her best friend is all psycho bachhhh on me, but she didn't seem to like mad about it.
She now wants me to breakup with him but I rreeaaalllyyy like him and I'm not sure what to do.
I know, I know never let a guy in between friendship. BUT in this case I don't think we are that great of friends.
I know how bad it must hurt to be her but have any suggestions on what to do?
2007-03-22 15:32:37 · 8 answers · asked by Lexii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry I'm a myspace blogger.
It's pretty easy to hae to much fun with spaces.
2007-03-22 15:39:00 · update #1
depends on y she wants u to leave him....if shes being selfish and doesnt want u to date him because she wants to b with him then stay with him if you are happy and she should understand if not then she probably wasnt much of a friend from the beginning.....however if shes telling you not to be with him because she doesnt want you to get hurt physically or emotionally then take her advice
2007-03-22 15:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy do not break up with him because you think that is what is best for your friend. I have been there a guy and i were dating and one of my friends liked him and to save or friendship we broke up....We both now regret that discussion. The guy and i are still friends but, we could have been more if we would not have let our friend get in the middle. I say Go for it, take a chance on this relationship...what have you really got to loose? Good Luck!
2007-03-22 22:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by Amber G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Son friends dont come easy , womans do , a friendship is as a secret love into a family of the ones you will meet in this life , remember in times of war ,who you will leasing too ,the one that knows or the one that will give you comfort at night , grow up , i havent , I lost my friends a long time ago ,( accident) and as old i am I have none , (friends)
2007-03-22 22:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by jrgbll 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well looking at his background, he seems like a girl hopper, but hey, that's just me. if she's not that good a friend and you "reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeally" like him, then you've already made your decision, haven't you. ignore her. and enjoy what you have with him. there's nothing you can do to make it right. even if you leave him to make it up to her, she will always hang it over your head. sooooo stop talking to her, or let her cool off and maybe she'll be ok with it some day.
2007-03-29 02:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a high school thing. If thats the case, move on. They very rarely last until something substantial from high school.
2007-03-22 22:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by Stephen M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, why break up with a guy you like becasue your friend said to? If you're going to break up with him, do it for your reasons,not hers.
2007-03-22 22:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by James H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u should go out with him because he broke ^ w/ her so that means he doesn't want to go out w/ her anymore!!!!! She should understand but if she doesn't just don;t be her friend anymore!!!!!
2007-03-30 22:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by Meka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her
clear things up wif her
ive been in that position
and stuff
buh u should talk to her
to see how she feelz
2007-03-22 22:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by HunniBunni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋