Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

men go west of the mississippi and women go east of he missippi.

2007-03-21 05:43:56 · 8 answers · asked by You lying bastard! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've known this guy for 8 years and he asked me out today. I really like him and everything but I'm scraed that it would change our friendship if we break up. He's a senior now and everything and he just broke up with his girlfriend like 1 week ago. he's also in the fire house too and thats where I'm at most of the time cuz of my dad. what should i do?

2007-03-21 05:43:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK, so we all know women's issues with men (not helping around the house, video gaming, etc), because women are more vocal whereas men tend to internalize.

So MEN- what are your gripes about the women in your lives? Anything from small annoyances to major issues. Please be honest, and please list your age and years in your relationship.

2007-03-21 05:43:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It has been less than a year since our separation and divorce and I have custody of our son who is starting to have trouble in school. I am doing my best to help him through this. I support his relationship with his Dad, never bad mouth my ex or the other woman he now lives with. I let my ex have extra visitation whenever he asks. My ex asked me what he can do to help but what can he do? He sees him every other weekend. I feel so frustrated at times. My ex has reminded me that it was me he walked away from not our son. I hope he now realizes that this is the reality of divorce. I am basically a single parent and my ex is like a favorite uncle who takes him every other weekend. How can we parent this child given these circumstances? I do not feel comfortable calling him - I get labled an interfering ex. How do you do what is best for your kids in this situation?

2007-03-21 05:43:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

becouse my boyfreind wants one lol ,
but i dont know what it is

2007-03-21 05:42:55 · 7 answers · asked by huda 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 05:42:47 · 4 answers · asked by The Prep 4 in Singles & Dating

Been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, but he has become moody, there isnt much sex anymore, and he seems to find things to moan to me about.

I was sorting out the washing and he piped up I asked you to move that (that being a very small pile of letters on the coffee table) and then abruptly said, 'why don't you just pack your bags'

what the hell has gone wrong!??!?!?

2007-03-21 05:41:05 · 33 answers · asked by leffers55 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

to be honest my age which is 13 is to young to have a girlfriend.... but yeah i really love this girl(Im a boy) but has anybody like grown up and are still like together from the age of about 13......?

2007-03-21 05:40:59 · 14 answers · asked by apples and pears 4 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if a guy likes you or not, and if he is not just kidding or messing around

2007-03-21 05:39:59 · 12 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

okay my mom is mad at my younger sister who is 17 yrs old because she is planning to move out after her high school graduation... ya that is a mistake but you know how teenager are and how they want to move out after school... well my mom is really mad about that... and she grounded my sister till whem my mom thinks she doesnt need to be grounded anymore... she took her vell phone away but than gave it back... and she isnt talk in to her.. plus my mom said she is dead to her its really krazy and im in the middle of it and i dont know what to do... i mean my mom always puts me in it even when i tell her not to do it... now my mom has this baby monaitor... and is listening to her talk in her room... now she is sayin she can get our cell phone conversations recorded and get all the conversations we had this past year??? is that true? can u really get outr conversations from t-mobile??? someone please answer and give me advice on what to do??? PLEASE HELP I HAVE HAD ALOT OF HEADACHS

2007-03-21 05:39:59 · 12 answers · asked by Chitownshottie 1 in Family

What is this? A guy that I had known since I was a kid had sex with me several times after I was 18yrs old and then he went back to college. He told me he would be back and he was the next Spring. However, he did not leave a phone number when he called and I was kind of hurt and did not feel that I should have to chase him down. Five years later, he called my house and asked me out when I was married - my husband got mad and I told him not to call. Well, we divorced and I later remarried. I did not call the guy because I felt I had been used. I have recently ran into him and he told me that he always loved me and he had gotten busy at school and that is why he did not call. He said that he did have some girls at school he had sex with but they did not mean anything. He has a common law wife and wants to talk to me everyday. He apologized for not just coming and getting me years ago. I don't understand this guy. I want to believe but something says I should not.

2007-03-21 05:39:48 · 1 answers · asked by formy p 1 in Singles & Dating

7 in one year
3 in one month
1 in a week
never had one

2007-03-21 05:39:44 · 4 answers · asked by hotties model ever 1 in Friends

I want some input I am not the best person in the world. My wife and I finally had the big fight and now we are seperating. she just wants to seperate to see if we might get back togeather. I just want this to end and every time I say that she freaks out like she is going to hurt herself or become very depressed. I dont hate her in fact I still love her but I just dont want to be with her anymore. we have way too many differences, and different goals in life. she forced me to marry or leave at the age of 19 and I have never let that go. we started dating when we were 16 years old. please someone give me advice anything. oh I am 23 now.

2007-03-21 05:39:32 · 17 answers · asked by timothy v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-21 05:39:17 · 17 answers · asked by Roxxi Lynne 1 in Singles & Dating

he keeps fainting. he is seventeen, and very fit and healthy (he plays lots of sport etc, has a 6 pack and stuff, so he's not unhealthy). his friends mock him and call him a GIRL and a SISSY. he isn't, is he? he cant help it?
he goes really cold and shaky and shivery, and is unconscious for about 3 minutes a time. it's happened about 5 times this week already.
i am worried. he wont go to a doctor. he says he can 'handle it.'
help!

2007-03-21 05:38:43 · 10 answers · asked by carl barat 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and this boy were going to ther but we stop talking because he wont my best friend and thin we got back together and i fall in love with him thin we stop talking agein because me and his sister had a fight and i dont no if that came between me and him or not but have not talk to nim bceause some one told me that he called me a ***** but when he see me he looks like he still wont to be with me so what should i do should i talk to him or should i live it be

2007-03-21 05:38:34 · 1 answers · asked by laniece j 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married now, but I never was married to my childs father. He is trying to file a motion to lower the amount that he pays to me because he says that since I am married my standard of living is better. My husband is not rich could they count in his income with mine and lower the amount of child support I recieve?

2007-03-21 05:38:19 · 11 answers · asked by Newlywed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently in college, and I am dating the person I dated in high school and have been for 3 years, so I was just curious how many people actually marry their high school love<3.

2007-03-21 05:38:15 · 18 answers · asked by girlygirl83 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so hows your life going?-me

Good but lonely you?-him

the same..... being single sucks huh?-me

Yeah it does.-him

its wierd cause the guys i like dont like me and the guys that like me i dont like. so nothing really goes my way. lol. what about u?-me

Girls just don't like me.-him

thats impossible-me

No i'm serious. i havent hooked up with a girl in a long time.-him

well i know how u feel but that dosent mean that girls dont like u. i mean come on! your nice, your very goodlooking, and funny and if those girls cant see that screw them! am i right??? i think i am!-me



Yeah but I still don't have a girlfriend.-him

what should i say now. i really like him but im not gonna tell him cause last time i did he told me he liked someone else. what should i say??

2007-03-21 05:37:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He hasn't had to take one in three years, now I can't believe that he may lose his livlihood over smoking w**d. What should I do? I know he's going to fail?

2007-03-21 05:37:32 · 11 answers · asked by Special K 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am using The Moment by Kenny G for the lighting of the candles. Here and Now by Luther Vandross for the processional. I am walking down the aisle to Destiny by Jim Brickman and Jordan Hill (thats if i dont change it). What songs did use or planning to use?

2007-03-21 05:37:32 · 9 answers · asked by Lady L 2 in Weddings

You are seriously attached with a guy but not married and there is also another guy who is also interested in you. Will you give him a chance to express his love for you?

2007-03-21 05:37:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

bend her over the pedestal?

2007-03-21 05:37:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one night stand sex

2007-03-21 05:37:08 · 6 answers · asked by katie 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother in law pretends to be a simple loving women but in reality she is two faced and trying to cause problems in my already shakey marriage. How do I get her the hell out of our lives and how do I get my husband to realize what she is doing? For example: She talks about her son to me but then talks about me to her son.

2007-03-21 05:36:57 · 21 answers · asked by L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a guy. He works through our office but only comes in when he needs to pick up mail or see a client. He and I have gone out as friends and have been developing a closer relationship. One day, he came in and we made plans to go to dinner and do something else together after that. I couldn't do it that night - but told him that I really wanted to another time. Later that day he came in and spent an hour in my office talking with me. All was good. I knew my boss was having a fit over him being in my office so long, but I talked to my boss and worked an hour off the clock to make up the time. Now my friend rarely comes in while I am here and doesn't stop to visit. He will come in after hours. My boss will tell people I am on the phone - even when I am not - just to keep me at the grindstone. If my boss told my friend that I was very busy and asked that he not "bother" me - he would respect that. I can't call him to ask him right now - should I ask my boss if he said anything?

2007-03-21 05:36:11 · 5 answers · asked by Rabbit 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my girlfriend for the past 3 years. We met on a Dating site as friends and it has blossomed to be a great relationship. However we've been having issues for the past year and is now going through a rough patch. Doing some heavy digging one day i realized that she still has her Dating page and has been conversing with one particualr gentlemen back and forth.I have been monitoring her conversations and she s behaving as if she s single and is showing great interest in this guy. Since I have been snooping into her personal E-mail, How do I confront her about her behavior without saying I have been watching her emails.

I am extremely hurt as I'm doing my best to sustain the relationship. I see it as emotional Cheating. My number one issues has been trusting women, How do i move on, How can i Trust her moving forward?

2007-03-21 05:36:10 · 8 answers · asked by MR G 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so me an hubby have a good sex life considering we both are in pain most of the time cause of our herniated discs . average once a week, which is ok but not great. i come out of bath last night , dryed off, i was standin there nude,one foot on the toilet lid puttin lotion on my legs. is that not a provocative pose? all hubby was doin was fussin at me about a damn late fee on something an act like i wasnt even nude. im not bieng egotistical but i am attractive in form.(i also do modeling) im 5'6' 108lbs and slender so i know i look pretty good. so whats up with hubby? was he just distracted? or in pain? cause he doesnt see me put lotion on in quite that manner usually. im usually not that provocative about it but wanted some so was wonderin why he didnt notice and take the hint? male and female welcome to share your opinion on this.

2007-03-21 05:35:58 · 2 answers · asked by war 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend told me off. She called me selfish because of a misunderstanding. Although her feelings were hurt unintentionally by my actions, she retaliated intentionally with unkind words toward me. She wants me to apologize, but I think she should apologize for her retaliation. I don’t think ME apologizing to HER is necessary because she already made herself feel better by putting me down. Am I the one that deserves an apology? Or does she?

2007-03-21 05:35:48 · 9 answers · asked by rodanrodney 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend stole this precious family crewel embrodiery picture that my deceased mother made. He has never admitted it. He was the only one who had access to the house. I still have tried to forgive him but still have very strong resentment towards him. I have been a friend to his elderly mother and himself. but I feel it is getting too difficult to keep pretending that I am over it when I will never be until he admits the theft or returns the picture.. Should I sever all ties??

2007-03-21 05:35:48 · 1 answers · asked by accept 1 in Friends