ok so me an hubby have a good sex life considering we both are in pain most of the time cause of our herniated discs . average once a week, which is ok but not great. i come out of bath last night , dryed off, i was standin there nude,one foot on the toilet lid puttin lotion on my legs. is that not a provocative pose? all hubby was doin was fussin at me about a damn late fee on something an act like i wasnt even nude. im not bieng egotistical but i am attractive in form.(i also do modeling) im 5'6' 108lbs and slender so i know i look pretty good. so whats up with hubby? was he just distracted? or in pain? cause he doesnt see me put lotion on in quite that manner usually. im usually not that provocative about it but wanted some so was wonderin why he didnt notice and take the hint? male and female welcome to share your opinion on this.
2007-03-21 05:35:58 · 2 answers · asked by war 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not on diet . i eat whatever i want and i dont think im too skinny or too fat. i think my weight is just right. see warriorswomanat@myspace.com to confirm. i dont have any wieght issues lol.
2007-03-23 05:26:44 · update #1
also no i dont think im nude around him overmuch to cause desensitivity .
2007-03-23 05:27:53 · update #2
he knows that if i get naked an stay that way for extended period of time in front of him then i want some. i took my time with the lotion for reason. i usually dont do that. im not that forceful when its comes to sex. i wont push him down and take advantage of him(even though hed probably love me to) lol im more subtle bout it. a look , a lingring touch. that sort of thing. stuff i dont do usually so i know he would tell the difference.
2007-03-23 05:34:55 · update #3
sometimes with married couples they just get comfortable with each other. They see each other naked all the time and its not a big deal. He was distracted about the late fee. You should be more up front if you want sex just ask. I personally don't understand why woman are not more direct. Men are not mind readers.
2007-03-21 21:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Rock'n'Rob♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he had other things on his mind.
Nudity doesn't have to always equal sex. Are you routinely nude in front of him, or is it just as a preliminary to sex.
You might also want to check with a doctor about your weight problem. A woman 5'6" with slender build should weigh 120 -133 pounds.
2007-03-22 03:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by USAnudist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋