Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

okay so i met this guy on my cruise, we had a thing and liked eachother a lot and after the cruise he contacted me and we talked a few times but then things died down a bit cause we live far away from eachother. about 2 months after the cruise i went to surprise visit him. he was really happy, and acted the same exact way as he did on the cruise. i was only there for about 20 minutes cause i had to go somewhere else. he contacted me after the visit and then things died down once again. 4 months after that in february, me and my friend contacted him because we happen to be going to college by where he lives in a few months and we were auditioning for dance. he said, of course, come hang out with us. we went there and hung out and once again, he acted the same exact way. he explained to me how me visiting the first time he was really happy but it was like giving him a puppy and then taking it away from him. he kept asking the question "can i keep it..is it mine?"..which was really cute. me and him talked for about an hour alone about everything. i left and he told me to text him when i got back to the hotel. he asked if i was mad at him for not talking to me all the time. i said no, and he said he can tell i was. but i wasnt, not at all. he texted me that night saying "thanks for coming cant wait to see u again." we spoke for awhile about the night and how we had fun and later on i said "goodnight have fun"..and he said "im going to sleep..all my fun left already." that night he commented me on myspace saying he had fun and he hopes to hear from me soon. two nights later he texts me again saying hey and we talked for awhile. i asked him to come to ny to see me, but he feels weird cause he doesnt know anyone and he feels as if everyone will "like him..then hate him" he said he would think about it, and i even said "we can go to the city." he told me "way rather see you then the city"..meaning it doesnt matter what we do, as long as i can see you..which was really cute. he then sent a couple of funny videos and one night his friends called me from his phone. i heard them say something about girlfriend in the background and he laughed and got on the phone and kept apologizing for calling so late..he told me he was really sorry and hed call me the next day. he was drunk when he called the last time, so he probably forgot the entire night because he didnt call the next day, and now we havent really been speaking..

why wont he talk to me now?

2007-03-20 14:02:56 · 5 answers · asked by olaa l 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 14 and have NEVER had a boyfriend before. I am kind of shy around guys. I can't really start up a conversation. I was just wondering if I will EVER get a boyfriend and eventually get a husband? If I do get a boyfriend will I feel comfortable around him like I am with my family and friends. If anybody was shy at my age please share some of your stories. Thank You!!!!

2007-03-20 14:02:52 · 26 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-20 14:02:35 · 2 answers · asked by Kailyn B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friends dad is bipolar. We are best friends and have been for a while but now his family is moving and leaving his dad behind. His dad will seek no treatment and just gets worse and worse. He has hit my friend before ive seen him do it. His mom wont press charges. I dont know what I should do. Should I approach his dad or just back off and let my friend move away?

2007-03-20 14:02:18 · 9 answers · asked by Smartest Man Alive 4 in Family

He has been telling me how dissatisfied he is with his marriage -- and is thinking about leaving his wife. He and I have spending more time together...but just as friends...Yesterday, we spent 5 hours together and today, he came over my apartment to help me set my tv up. So, am I naive to think we are just friends...or is it possible that even though we're just spending time together, he might be interested in me romantically?

Now, he has been in marital counseling, and I have tried to suggest things that would get him and his wife back together. He says he knows they can't continue their marriage and the relationship is at its end. That being said, does that change anything?

2007-03-20 14:01:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 14:01:36 · 11 answers · asked by MICHAEL S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when he was young, drunk and in a country where it was legal and felt very sorry about it after?

2007-03-20 14:01:31 · 4 answers · asked by sal v 1 in Singles & Dating

I was caught by my sister sneaking back into the room an I am already pregnant but my mom said not to ever do it again and I lied to my sister and told her I was at Krystals (friend) and she belived me and I snuck out the next night and went and had sex with my boyfriend and my sister caught me because she followed me and she says I have a serious problem but she does it everynight to. But my main problem is what if my brother sexually abuses my sister and she doesn't do anything about it..... and what can I do I feel as though I am addicted to sex

2007-03-20 14:01:01 · 3 answers · asked by Kally 2 in Family

what should i say because i think i said the wrong thing last time

2007-03-20 14:00:12 · 7 answers · asked by kurtis_livingston_92 1 in Singles & Dating

ive benn talkin to her on the phone and on avg its about an hour and a half long convo (last night was 3 hours) but i told her i liked her before and she didnt like me then. she talks to me alot but she flirts with other dudes too so im confused

2007-03-20 13:59:55 · 13 answers · asked by ben 2 in Singles & Dating

someone polite, sweet, clean, and respectful....some one like...let's say....Jim Caviezel?

2007-03-20 13:59:50 · 11 answers · asked by Jordi* 2 in Singles & Dating

my parents have been acting weird, and not evan sleeping in the same bed, what should i do ... talk to them?

2007-03-20 13:59:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it started a few weeks ago when i told my friend jess that i like my friend daniel as a joke.she didn't know that it was a joke so she told him-_-so he told my friend claire, who is her best friend . over the next few days they kept calling me and trying to get an answer from me.finally daniel got me to say i did by asking me so many times that i just said that so he'd let me be
but he started saying haha i don't like you i like claire.so then he told everybody and made a big deal of it.why do you think he did this to me?

2007-03-20 13:59:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what should me and a coulple of friends do with him? live in MA. i want it to be fun!

2007-03-20 13:58:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For instance, she kept bytching at my dad to cancel the internet, since "i only use it for downloading rap and rock music" when in fact i'm doing a project on Panama, but she won't listen and i just feel like breaking her jaw sometimes, my patience is so small with her, i don't know what to do.

2007-03-20 13:58:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ive been talking to this kid for about two months everynight on the phone. I started to like him but he kinda turns me off. Only because hes so easy to talk to i see him as one of my best friends. When i talk to him on the phone i start to like him but than in person i lose interest. I know hes likes me but how do i tell him i dont? ?? plzz help =)

2007-03-20 13:57:47 · 11 answers · asked by tar =) 2 in Singles & Dating

like keep looking at them or not looking at them or keep talking or not saying much what do girls do so i know if the girl likes me

2007-03-20 13:56:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would u rather have a very skinny girl w/ no boobs or butt or a average to heavy girl with nice boobs and butt???

2007-03-20 13:56:25 · 1 answers · asked by nina<3 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I worked out that, after the birth of our child, (I also have a 7 year old and a 3 year old) I would go back to work and he would stay at home and be with the kids since I made more money. He agreed to get a part time job down the road. After 3 weeks, he has had such a problem with the arrangement, that tonight he asked for a separation. A few days ago, I told him that I would do whatever I could to help him get a job and let him out of the house since I saw that he wasn't dealing with the situation. Today I came home early from work to watch the baby so he could look for a job. He went one place and stopped looking. We have had problems in the past, but things were better right up until the time he quit his job.(which he hated and wanted to leave anyway.) He says that he still loves me, but has now moved out of the house. Can anyone make heads or tails of this? Has anyone been in a similar situation?

2007-03-20 13:56:24 · 13 answers · asked by Nikki W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met someone on yahoo personals. I thoight he was for real. But the more I talked to him something just didn't click. Has some out there had the same experince .

2007-03-20 13:55:49 · 5 answers · asked by milliecbn 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 13:55:45 · 5 answers · asked by gregdean 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am being harrassed by an employee, who I filed sexual charges against through HR. The employee's partner told me that if I caused the employee to loose their job, I would be sorry; since she would make sure I would never work in my life and she does get revenge. Since then this employee has been hanging up on me and spying on me and most recent the partner showed up at my new job location to make sure I understood that their present was known. I know that they are now watching every move that that I make. What can I do?

2007-03-20 13:55:30 · 3 answers · asked by pepperboysamchloe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my gf and i have been going for about 3 years now.i love her and she loves me, we are even considering marriage.i went for my friends hen night and i was totally wasted on alcohol.i had an ONS with a girl (i dun remeber a thing of it).2 later, my gf's sister comes to my house all teary eyed. i ask her why and she goes on to tell me that she is pregnant and i am responsible.ofcourse my first reaction was denial.but apparently the whole thing had been filmed,what she was claiming was true.It was difficult breaking the news to my girlfriend and it breaks my heart everytime i remember the hurt on her face.
We decided to stay together but she doesn't trust me anymore.She calls me at work about a minimum of 50 times(no exaggeration) just to make sure im not with another woman.I know i should not be complaining but i am begining to get fraustrated about the whole situation.yes i did sleep with another woman,but i was drunk for gods sake.how do i get her to trust me?

2007-03-20 13:55:09 · 15 answers · asked by jerome j 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin won't stop bugging me and I don't remember what i said and did when i dated at 11!

2007-03-20 13:54:09 · 8 answers · asked by Miami Man 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 13:54:00 · 10 answers · asked by delia g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like this boy but i want to see if he likes me to ...so ive been ignoreing him (in a friendly way) to see if he comfronts me about it and ill know he cares about me...is there any other way of fidning this out besides confronting him?thanx,

2007-03-20 13:53:45 · 9 answers · asked by Trista 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 13:53:09 · 2 answers · asked by delia g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he's allowed 15 min visitations every couple of hours. I saw him for the first time today for 15 min. I could have seen him again for another 15 min but I couldn't. He had major surgery on his jaw and the bottom of his mouth is really swelled up also the tongue. I am very squeemish and it is so painful to see my dad like this. I can't stop thinking about the incisions they had to give him. He's in his mid 70's and very healthy, still it bothers me. I am torchering myself because he is completely sedated and pain free but it is so hard for me to stop thinking about it. I have to go tomorrow but I don't want to. I know he's gonna ask for me. It's hard for me not to cry infront of him. I had to excuse myself today so I wouldn't cry infront of him. No one in my family is taking it this hard and I feel stupid. They keep reminding me its only TEMPORARY. Would it be terrible if I skipped a day visit. Tomorrow he goes to the regular ward where visitations are longer. Am I selfish?

2007-03-20 13:52:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Some girl ask me to do that

2007-03-20 13:52:32 · 8 answers · asked by Dominic S 1 in Singles & Dating

I am an assertive woman, attractive and confident...I have achieved a certain amount of success, own a home, have successful children(young adults) run my own business..am in good shape...Do men want me to dumb down...or what?

2007-03-20 13:51:46 · 13 answers · asked by cherry 4 in Singles & Dating