Ive been talking to this kid for about two months everynight on the phone. I started to like him but he kinda turns me off. Only because hes so easy to talk to i see him as one of my best friends. When i talk to him on the phone i start to like him but than in person i lose interest. I know hes likes me but how do i tell him i dont? ?? plzz help =)
2007-03-20 13:57:47 · 11 answers · asked by tar =) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should probably ask yourself first why you dont like him in person. next you should make very sure you dont lead him on while on the phone to let him down in person. why tell him you dont like him? if he brings it up, then its an issue, but youre showing signs of confusion on the subject so.... and also, you only think he likes you.. maybe hes is a similar situation youre in.
2007-03-20 14:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by techiemaiden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe its really easy to talk 2 him on the phone because you can't see him...... it's some psychological thing..... u know how its easier to say srry to the person when your not looking at them? like that! Well, in person, you may lose interest in him because of his appearance maybe. I'm not sure what turns you off, or maybe its that he acts differently in person?? Well, if you want 2 tell him that you don't llike him, just come straight out and say it. The longer it takes for him 2 find out, the more it'll hurt cuz all this time, he thinks you like him but it turns out you don't! just make it as painless as you can! I'm sorry that it has 2 be like this but i don't there's any other way.... be honest and hope for the best!
2007-03-20 14:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 05:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down with him somewhere quiet and just ask him if he thinks of you as a friend or more (before he can answer continue by stating) because I think of you as one of my best friends and I would hate to lose this friendship over a short term relationship. I like you too much to risk losing you as a friend"
So many lose friendships over becoming more involved. Be open and honest, in a loving way, closing the conversation with a hug. :0)
Good luck!
2007-03-20 14:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by brandy2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell him now. The longer he thinks there is a chance is the more he will be hurt. If you like him as a friend then you will want it to hurt him as little as possible. Just tell him now that you sure are glad that you have a friend like him and that you hope nothing ever happens to ruin that friendship
2007-03-20 14:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by babysnake2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u like him & u call him a friend then go for it. What is it about him that u don't like when u c him? Is he not super model/celebrity type quality? I mean if ur shallow then move on b/c he is probably too good 4 u...I'm just speaking in general i don't know the whole scoop.
goodluck!!
2007-03-20 14:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty easily...Tell him that you used to like him, but now he's just another douchebag in your book. See? Easy huh...
2007-03-20 14:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by muddbutts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just tell him that you like being his friend but that's all you want to be is just friends he should get the point
2007-03-20 14:02:24 · answer #8 · answered by FML 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very nice about it, tell him the truth and say that you want to be friends.
2007-03-20 14:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by ShinShan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break his heart like every other girl does
"sorry, but i just see you as a friend"
2007-03-20 14:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋