ive benn talkin to her on the phone and on avg its about an hour and a half long convo (last night was 3 hours) but i told her i liked her before and she didnt like me then. she talks to me alot but she flirts with other dudes too so im confused
2007-03-20 13:59:55 · 13 answers · asked by ben 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if that chick is talking on the phone to your for that long then that obviously means you mean something to her. You must intrest her because no one will stay on the phone with someone that long if there not intresting. Atleast i wouldent. She might be shy and not want to be with you like that yet. Give her some time quit telling her you like her play a little hard to get but not too much!!!! Just let it flow... and she flirts with other dudes because she doesnt want to be tied down when she is getting attention from other people as well as you. that can play into why she said she didnt like you then.
Just be freinds with her right now dont bug her about it. get to know her
2007-03-20 14:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Ben,
I think that you should find someone who likes you. You now if you guys keep on talking and hanging out then maybe she will make the move, but you know try to find someone else and she will either do one or two of these things
Get jealous ask you out
Not care
Or try to seperate you from other girls
You know let her make the move. You do not want to be with someone who reeally does not want to be with you
please answer my question
2007-03-20 21:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by me me me a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's more confused than you are. If she flirts with you, and is willing to talk to you on the phone every night, but says she doesn't like you, sounds like she's more confused than you are.
2007-03-20 21:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she flirts with other guys because she's confused. she probably likes you, but she doesn't know yet. she's testing you to see your reaction. if you blow up, it looks like you are jealous, and is exacly what she wants. pretend to be only friends with her and talk to a girl in front of her. if she looks jealous, she likes you. afterwards, take her aside and say:
I just want to get this straight, once and for all- do you like me?
2007-03-20 21:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by Val 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maby she likes you and just doesnt want in a relationship right now. Keep talking to her all you can do is try.
2007-03-20 21:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by Whbrunette8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she may like you as just a friend. But maybe she's doing that to get you jelouse and she really does like you. Try and ask around, but don't try and change your self for her.
2007-03-20 21:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by manilakutiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one thing that you have to remember, "don't mistake someone that's being kind for someone that likes you." your doing good though. I don't think that she's ready for a relationship yet.But I think that she likes you. If you like her alot, you would wait for her. If not, move on.
2007-03-20 21:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by Priss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might just see you as a good or best friend she can talk to on the phone... since she is equally flirty with all guys... not just you specifically... so unfortunately.. i think shes just a naturally flirty girl..
2007-03-20 21:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by dramoonzer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she just likes you as a friend.
2007-03-20 21:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by Kim H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time, unless shes acting different from last time... then she doesn't really like you...
2007-03-20 21:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by K-SO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋