Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

a day or so u hear this dont be' scared trust me ill call ya oh my cell phones going dead PLEASE tell me why

2007-03-20 16:48:55 · 2 answers · asked by nana 1 in Singles & Dating

So here’s the thing, I baby sit my girlfriends niece and nephew everyday (mon-fri) after school. Their parents both work and so no one except for me can watch them. This is all fine, were all family and we help each other, they're good kids and all but the thing is, they are here ALL THE TIME.
I see them mon-fri, then they want to have a sleepover on Fridays, sometimes all the way till Sunday. When all this happens I end up watching everyone (my son and all the kids). Where are the parents and other family members? Good question, I don't know either I just watch the kids, its expected of me now. They family members have the nerve to say (when the kids are leaving) I never get to see you guys, how come you dont want to stay here longer? I want to say so many things but its family. Heres the thing, when do I get to spend time with mine? Oh and on Sundays, yeah they come over again for laundry or whatever reason. Is it wrong that I want space and family time of my own with just MY family

2007-03-20 16:48:54 · 4 answers · asked by infiniteson 3 in Family

Just wondering ? Thanks

2007-03-20 16:48:14 · 25 answers · asked by margo322 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you feel pathetic as well?

2007-03-20 16:47:41 · 10 answers · asked by Mayonaise 6 in Friends

I was MADLY in love with this girl, she was simply my world, we went out for 2 years, ..even though after the first year, she came to tell me out of guilt she cheated with her 32 yr old boss!!!.. she was only 17, and i was 18 but i took her back :( and i know, now I look back and think maybe i wouldn't be so hurt if i just left from there.. but no i took her back after a week break, only because she told me everything that she did with the guy.....she said there was no sex, but she had no top on, and he was only his in his boxers........ and they just made out and 'felt' around....at his place.... on his bed... :( well so I gave her another chance, but the remaining year was hell... after some time went by, I just couldn't look at her the same anymore, so i finally told her i couldn't go on. but I can't stop bringing myself down because of this whole MESS. and there's a LOT more, this is as simple as i can say. :( Im a really good guy but i releive this pain and its affectin me lots

2007-03-20 16:47:39 · 9 answers · asked by brasilparadice 1 in Singles & Dating

My live-in boyfriend will not discuss our future. Whenever I try to talk to him about serious issues, he ignores me (pays more attention to the tv than me) or walks away from me. I really love him and in the past he has said things regarding us getting married, however, his behavior is not that of someone who really wants to marry another person. When I cry, he doesn't bother to get up and comfort me. He would rather ignore it. I am always the one who wants to spend time together--I don't know how much time would go by before he would initiate some "us" time...I'm starting to wonder if I'm wasting my time with him. Is he just not that into me?

2007-03-20 16:47:28 · 8 answers · asked by babers02 1 in Singles & Dating

bonus points to who gets the question

2007-03-20 16:46:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

SHe lives in my same town and i think i like her and she seems cool to me she is 14 and im 18 am i too big for her

2007-03-20 16:46:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is soo awkward.
i'm going out with this guy
let's call him.... james.
and we've been together almost a month now
not very long.
then on friday me and a group of my friends
without james
went to the movies
and this other guy... troy
was there.
he came into the theater and sat next to me
and we had a great time
then he asks for my number
i said i have a boyfriend,
but he said he didn't like me like that,
he just wants to become friends
well now already his friends are telling me he likes me
and to be completely honest
he's hotter than james.
and sweeter,
and smells better,
and has better style...
i like him more than james.
but all my friends think me and james were meant for eachother.
should i dump james for troy?
or keep james, and forget about troy.
either one is incredably hard.

2007-03-20 16:46:20 · 6 answers · asked by onlyblonde1 3 in Singles & Dating

There seems to be a lot of older people like 60 and older who have been widowed and they find a companion and they go away together and do things together but these couples say they cannot get married because of financial reasons. Is that true that if a woman marries her new boyfriend after her husband dies she loses his benenfits? Why that is so unfair.
Someone told me that these couples cannot marry because they would lose a lot of money and benefits but she said that if they go to church and join hands and say thier vows to God God would consider them a union? What is your take on this?
Are any of you in this position now and if you are how are you handling it and what can I pray for you for?

2007-03-20 16:46:12 · 6 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 34 years old male and began to realize for several years that my sex drive declined. I am more and more looking for intellectually and spiritually fulfilling relationships with women but I am worried that I can't find a wife because she will want to have sex.
Are there women who don't care that much about sex ?

2007-03-20 16:45:30 · 12 answers · asked by tenno1234 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 16:44:53 · 7 answers · asked by brian 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 16:44:17 · 4 answers · asked by babygirrl 1 in Singles & Dating

sex,position,looks,money....

2007-03-20 16:44:13 · 11 answers · asked by dom i 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 16:44:12 · 9 answers · asked by D_A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In relationship to problems that people allow to live with them forever...Is it common sense to keep hold of problems that cause nothing but strife and bad times, or should you be able to dismiss ALL that makes you and your life unhappy simply by saying, 'goodbye'? In having no divorce, some people, such as my Filipino wife, bring abuse into the home, & it often deepens when children arrive, as is in our case. Because there is no divorce, in the Family Code, if I were a Filipino, stuck in the Philippines, I would probably be dead by now, due to my wife's abuse. She knows that I cannot get away from her, or atleast that is the way she thought before I had to make a firm decision. Stay & fight all of the time, or, leave her with her misery, and remove the children from the situation as well. When the children observe abuse between the parents, they tend to model the same behavior later in life. The abuse situation only escalates, and is passed down to the children, when it should be love

2007-03-20 16:44:03 · 5 answers · asked by J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 16:44:03 · 6 answers · asked by Luv2no is in the house 7 in Singles & Dating

how do i get my ex boyfriend 2 like me again i think he's the 1!!

2007-03-20 16:43:55 · 7 answers · asked by killer.bebe 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 16:42:59 · 12 answers · asked by R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My brothers girlfriend is cheatin on him...............My brother is not emotionally strong at da moment n he really loves dis girl...
He said dat he would kill himself if any thing happened......So should i tell him or let him find out for himself??

2007-03-20 16:42:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are in a custody battle in which he knows I'm going to win. My kids are extremely unhappy with living with him until our trial date June1st (judge wants them to finish out the school year 1st) He stated to me today that if I draw out an order making him only pay $300.00 monthly in child support and stating that I can not ask for an increase for atleast 2 years, he will be willing to hand the kids over right away and sign the papers giving me full custody. My question is..........if I agree to this now and say 3 months from now I can't afford it will I be able to ask for an increase? We live in Arkansas, his net income is atleast $1850 a month, he does have 1 other child with someone else. My children cry everyday to come home and I want to agree to get them out of his home, but not sure if I can afford to with such little support. Any advise?

2007-03-20 16:42:39 · 8 answers · asked by jennifer l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 16:42:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i feel like crying and i have no clue why. today is my birthday and it has been great, i had a good day at school my friends all said happy birthday but, just now i feel like i wanna cry and i have no reason to feel like this. whats wrong?

2007-03-20 16:42:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay we have finally chosen our wedding colors; black, pink, and cream. i need suggestions for flowers and theme stuff that will go with these colors. they wedding is on june 2nd. it's a nighttime wedding. please and thank you

2007-03-20 16:41:36 · 8 answers · asked by Kyra 1 in Weddings

i wanna know from other people!

2007-03-20 16:41:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mine was on an airplane:)

2007-03-20 16:40:50 · 10 answers · asked by brian 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy and we made out once and then we werent talking for a bit i would txt him but he would only txt back sometimes. and then we started talking and have a few drinks at his place the other nite and my friends knows a like him so she told me to talk to him and him to talk to me. He said that he was trying to get over someone and wasnt ready to move on yet. i asked if he'd give a chance and he didnt say anything at the end of nite i was crying and ran home. he asked my sister if i was ok the nxt day which i though was nice. but i wondering if he likes me and txted him to say sorry about how i acted the other night and told him that if he needed someone to talk to him i would and i wouldnt judge him. but he hasnt txt me back does him like me or not??
i'm not sure and i dont wanna ask because my sis and friends have be asking him heaps but he never says

2007-03-20 16:40:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have few and how do you deal with in such situation as a friend of concern?

JS, please leave my question alone.

2007-03-20 16:39:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 16:39:38 · 6 answers · asked by dimco_inc 1 in Friends

The wedding reception would be at The Bridgewater Manor.

2007-03-20 16:39:36 · 1 answers · asked by curious kitten 1 in Weddings