My brothers girlfriend is cheatin on him...............My brother is not emotionally strong at da moment n he really loves dis girl...
He said dat he would kill himself if any thing happened......So should i tell him or let him find out for himself??
2007-03-20 16:42:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People say things like that like "My parents are going to kill me if they found out..." I doubt that the parents would kill you but they might make your life a living hell. So in this case i didn't Think he is going to kill himself he is just trying to express his feelings.
I think you should tell him
2007-03-20 16:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by Dillon C (who else) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness, this is a tough one. Well for starters, you could go to his girlfriend and talk to her and ask her why is she doing that to him and let her know how bad he is suffering. Then tell her she needs to talk to him and let him know. Talk to your brother about his emotions because this is serious. You should also tell your parents about what your brother is thinking about doing if he means what he says so you can step in and get him some help!! Other people may say butt out of his business or whatever but don't do it because he IS your brother and I know you love him and you don't want to see him get hurt. Now that I'm thinking about it some more, instead of "talking" to the girlfriend, CONFRONT her about her cheating ways and set her straight!! She needs to be responsible for her actions and you may be just the right person to get that through her head. I hope your brother doesn't mean what he says because we know that this girl isn't the right one. Love does have its ups and downs and it sucks cause everyone does experience heartache. But by that can only make your heart stronger and you will know what is real and what isn't. I'll keep you and your brother in my prayers that he will be strong and resilient from whatever may happen in this situation.
2007-03-20 23:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by frakmomma04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety the first thing you should do is find some other girls that would like to go out with him and then tell him and then say that these couple of girls came up to me and they want to go out with you and tell him that he is too good for her! Hope you do the right thing and nothing bad happens to your brother.
2007-03-20 23:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋