i like this guy and we made out once and then we werent talking for a bit i would txt him but he would only txt back sometimes. and then we started talking and have a few drinks at his place the other nite and my friends knows a like him so she told me to talk to him and him to talk to me. He said that he was trying to get over someone and wasnt ready to move on yet. i asked if he'd give a chance and he didnt say anything at the end of nite i was crying and ran home. he asked my sister if i was ok the nxt day which i though was nice. but i wondering if he likes me and txted him to say sorry about how i acted the other night and told him that if he needed someone to talk to him i would and i wouldnt judge him. but he hasnt txt me back does him like me or not??
i'm not sure and i dont wanna ask because my sis and friends have be asking him heaps but he never says
2007-03-20 16:40:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are being way too clingy and you're not even in a relationship. He liked the making out once and now you're coming on way too strong. He's running away from the pressure created by you and your sister and friends. Back off and just wait or don't wait. Get on with enjoying your life with whoever you happen to be with. Don't wait for this one particular guy to make up his mind. Enjoy all the guys around you. He may look you up after the pressure is off. He may not. Be okay with it either way. Do not emotionally beat yourself up about this.
Each person that we connect with in life brings us a lesson. Some of the lessons inevitably will be painful. Those are probably the most powerful ones. Learn the lesson. Learn not to let others change the way you feel about yourself. Each connection will allow you to develop inner strength and stand strong against the adversity you will face in life.
Don't cry anymore. Feel great about yourself. Smile and you'll attract others who are also happy with themselves.
2007-03-20 16:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He told you that he's not ready to move on yet. Listen to him! He gave you an answer - it's not a mystery. Does he like you? Maybe, maybe not - but you will show him that you don't really listen to him and believe what he says by continuing to press him about this. He's not texting you back because you always have been acting from a position of 'Like me, Like me, like me!' and not really paying much attention to what he's been saying which is 'Not now, not now, not now!'
Leave him alone. He knows where you are.
2007-03-20 23:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think he does. think about it, actions speak louder than words. it's just not there.
2007-03-20 23:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋