I am 34 years old male and began to realize for several years that my sex drive declined. I am more and more looking for intellectually and spiritually fulfilling relationships with women but I am worried that I can't find a wife because she will want to have sex.
Are there women who don't care that much about sex ?
2007-03-20 16:45:30 · 12 answers · asked by tenno1234 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the sexual peak for males is 18-30, the sexual peak for females is between the ages of 30-40. kind of sucks how they just miss each other.
i'm sure that there are women out there that are not fully interested in sex, but also see it as a bonus to relationship, along side with intellectual and spiritual activities.
if you find the right woman, chances are that she will turn you on and your outlook on sex will change with that person. love is a wonderous thing and does many mysterious things. it makes you feel things that you've never felt before and makes you view your significant other in a completely different way. they will become your best friend and you will find that you can do anything with that person that you would do only by yourself behind closed doors.
i'm sure that you'll find the right woman for you, just keep your interests high and you'll find her. i realize it sucks to hear this but it might take a little time. keep your head up and keep doing what you're doing.
good luck.
2007-03-20 16:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by lazynessking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there! :) you know what? that's really not a problem because for some women, sex isn't everything. The cycle of marriage is usually (not often though) that way, at your early age, yes you love sex but as the years go by, it's true that you would prefer to have a good companion whom you could share or express ideas and feelings, intellectually and spiritually. I don't think there is something wrong with that. Having a good conversation with someone makes our day. Sex is sex, you still have to give it because it is one(of the many) way of showing or expressing your feelings towards that person. And it's ok to do hat once in a while right? I have still a lot to tell you about but I don't to take too much of your time:) Well, Good luck with searching for "the one" that you'll share interesting thoughts and experience with :)
2007-03-20 16:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by khatzzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men's sex drives peak at 20 then decline a bit ..while womens peaks much later in life, I think around mid 20's - 30's. Most women do want to have sex so unless your looking for a nun I'm not sure what to tell you.
Maybe you just haven't had the desire because you haven't found the right person yet? Or maybe you should ask your doctor about it.
A slight decline is normal, however not ever thinking about or wanting it might require a doctor's help?
Good Luck!
2007-03-20 17:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jenifer B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a doc, men are born to be sex-hormone driven.
For a spiritually fulfilling relationship, see a monk.
2007-03-20 16:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by ricodzeus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course there are women like that. it just takes some effort to find them. of course, no women would want to live without ANY sex at all, because they wouldn't be human anymore. also, there are definently women who can carry an intelligent conversation and be someone who enjoys sex
2007-03-20 16:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by miisty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there are but the real question is do you never want sex with your life long partner with whom you are suppose to grow into or do you just not want it to be the main focal point.a lot of women in this age group do experience the same feeling but its not never they want a more full filling and meaning partner who does want them in each aspect but are also not crazed over sex.it is a beautiful part of a loving marriage,but its ot everything the intamacy holds even greater value.
2007-03-20 16:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some, but what happens when the time comes when your sex drive starts up again??
2007-03-20 16:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not every ones like that I'm 22 and i haven't in 1 1/2 years . but I'm waiting . when it comes to that point to do it it will feel better because is highly anticipated . and you know that it's just not going to be just sex. so wait there is someone who wants the same just like you. so just dint settle wait.
2007-03-20 17:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by Ryah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women like sex and you can tell the women you dont have the thing
2007-03-20 16:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is just need to find. but i want to have sex with my wife
2007-03-20 16:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by saad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋