Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

Ive been talking to this girl, and everytime she goes out drinking she begins a long texting converstaion with me. We talk about being boyfriend and girlfriend things like tha and hin o each other that we have feelings. When she is sober she drops little hints, but they are not as defining as those when she is drunk. I dont know. Do you think what she tells me when she is drunk is real? And do you think that she remembers it at all>>? I need a advice based on personal opinions and knowledge of the female mind. FEMALES HELP!

2007-03-19 20:41:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know sometimes the parents may help out but what if both sets are unable to? Do they both just save up, because thats alot of money. I know someone thats getting married and its costing them about 18k dollars! How would a couple with no help pay for that?

2007-03-19 20:39:48 · 21 answers · asked by ILuvAmanda 1 in Weddings

we are pretty close friends and i want to get her something good!! so what do you chicks love the most??

2007-03-19 20:38:59 · 12 answers · asked by just me 2 in Friends

Help me please. My best friend was selected as a prefect this year along with me and my other best friend. She is a newly elected prefect and she says she feels great. Not as in the normal great way. As in bossy. She thinks she knows everything and simply catches students when they didn't even comit somehting wrong. It's the so called "power" , in which she says she feels. Is she crazy? I mean, c'mon, she's not the only prefect. And she also calls other people "noobies" as in beginners when she herself is new to this. Help me... How do I stop this act?

2007-03-19 20:38:16 · 8 answers · asked by Meggi 1 in Friends

2007-03-19 20:37:44 · 9 answers · asked by northchun 1 in Friends

hi
i am leving dubai where i work and my family is there to meet my guy as my parents dont approve him as he is a tailian and a hinfdu
he is really begging me so much to coem
i am so scred to go from dubai without my parents wish
i really ;love this guy but when i come back how will i face my parents
pls help really worried try to convince my pare nts didnt approve

2007-03-19 20:34:47 · 13 answers · asked by ARUNANET 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey all, currently been with my girlfriend for over a year, and were wondering what are some signs that I know I'm keeping her happy with the relationship, if there is anything I'm doing wrong, or things I can improve on. Now I know some of you will say why don't you ask her? I have and she has said she is happy, and I should trust her I know, but I just want to make sure because I really love her, and maybe for some strange reason she just isn't being totally honest. There is not a distrust factor, just want to be the best I can be for her. Thanks in advance!

2007-03-19 20:34:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They say something really rude and inappropriate..you tell them about it..then all they say is"shut up"Why are they being so rude for no reason?Would you keep them around?How would you handle them?

2007-03-19 20:33:38 · 11 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Friends

This is the story of my high school life, thus far:
I went to my high school with friends from my primary school, four years ago. One of my old friends had a new friend who she allowed into the group, and this new friend kicked me out. I was allowed into a group and they kicked me out later saying their friendship was "temporary". A group of senior girls let me into their group and I was with them for two years until they left the school for uni. Then I was alone. At around this time, my dad got lung cancer and had treatment and was very very ill. I then sat alone at school with people ignoring/bullying/spreading rumours about me.
A new girl came to my school this year and me and her became good friends. She introduced me to the popular group and they accepted me. Later on they told me it had been a joke, that they hate me, and then the new girl chose them over me. Now her and my other friends don't want anything to do with me as it'll ruin their rep. to be friends with teh "loner".

2007-03-19 20:33:30 · 12 answers · asked by Jay Jay 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please someone answer this

2007-03-19 20:32:15 · 8 answers · asked by reggaetonchica 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 20:30:33 · 16 answers · asked by nikita p 1 in Friends

My main issue is my father and I, right now I am 21 the oldest and yes I still live at home when I go out and party with my friends I dont feel that I should tell my parents for fear that I might be in trouble for drinking, I am trying to figure out a way that I can communicate with my parents to express the feelings that I am having because it will soon build up in to an explosion but I know if I try to sit and talk to them with my father I am afriad that he will get mad at me and cuss me out (even as I 'm writing this I am having a mini-panic attack) with my mother she doesnt take me seriously and always laughs at me when I try to express my self so I dont ever really get to express my feelings when I do it comes out after being held in for so long and results in a massive fight because I hear my parents talking about me behind my back I would really appreciate any adive that is given

2007-03-19 20:30:04 · 11 answers · asked by Leeka 2 in Family

2007-03-19 20:28:45 · 6 answers · asked by da da 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If your date's looks and/or personality... simply isn't your type...

How do you reject someone when you know how it feels to be rejected -- especially since they took the risk of meeting up with you?

2007-03-19 20:28:20 · 6 answers · asked by << mimon >> 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my girl for 3.5 yrs now and we just recently went to different colleges. I want to break away and expirence other girls while she has only been strengthened by the distance. I have told her on several occasions that things aren't going very well and she always promises to change to make it perfect. She will do anything to keep me and i hardly return the favor. Another problem we have is that she comes to visit me every weekend and when i ask her for a weekend alone, well lets just say she doesn't like that too much. I do love her, however i feel that i just want to get the most out of my college expirence while i am here. After all college is costing me 26,600 a year so i should enjoy it to it's fullest potential right. Please offer any response

2007-03-19 20:28:17 · 10 answers · asked by jason c 1 in Singles & Dating

I am really tempted, A Massage from a co worker of 10 years!! Bad decision? Or, Go For It ?

2007-03-19 20:27:48 · 4 answers · asked by snglmom40 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 20:27:42 · 5 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are completly paying for our wedding. We pretty much have everything taken care of but our budget is pretty much down to nothing. The only thing we really want and need is a photographer. However being both college students we are having a hard time finding one within our price range. We can afford about 600.If anyone knows anybody who does decent work for that price I would greatly appreciate it alot.

2007-03-19 20:27:37 · 3 answers · asked by brandilynn222 1 in Weddings

I mean our two kids can't really walk yet so she doesn't have to chase them around the house.

2007-03-19 20:27:17 · 14 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 20:26:17 · 10 answers · asked by Kris 2 in Weddings

Will they end up getting you in trouble?

What I mean is, I have been just talking to dominatrix women online, just casually mentioning my need to be dominated, joking of course, cause I want a good woman for wife.

But sometimes, I almost get worried, because I do feel weak at times, almost under their spell, trying hard to avoid becoming their "slave".

I am particularly worried that if I play around too much, one of them may actually meet me one day, & if I feel to weak, she may punish me & gain sexual control over me.

Am I playing with fire here?
Is it dangerous to joke around with this kind of things?
Do you think they could cause me to fall?

I know there are some women in here, I never thought a lady can look so lovely, but some of them are very sexy & beautiful with long hair, etc.

Should I give this up just in case? One of them already tried to contact me that lived about an hour from me.

Please, your honest opinion on this!

I will be so embarrassed if I do "fall"!!!

2007-03-19 20:25:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 20:25:18 · 3 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Singles & Dating

i think with a 28 yr old is game but with a 40 yr old? thats just too much. just going to far.
the 28 yr old is single, attractive, no kids, no man, just works
the 40 yr old is married, has kids, i guess works.
my friend thinks that with a 40 yr old is game because he was dancing with her for a long time and that she kissed him.
were both 19 yrs old

2007-03-19 20:24:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 20:24:08 · 6 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Singles & Dating

i caught my husband cheating through his cellphone which he kept locked all the time. when i got the chance to have it unlocked, i saw pictures of him with 8 different girls in out car. we talked and he said some just friends and the rest he said some girls he liked. i called the girls and some said that they were just friends. and some said they were sorry cause they didnt know he was married. my husband promised me he's changed and that he prayed long before that he wanted to so if this is God's way for him to change then he would. the thing is how can i trust him? how can i heal myself and how can i make sure that he'll never do it again?

2007-03-19 20:23:40 · 6 answers · asked by Charis Mae 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 20:22:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 20:21:54 · 8 answers · asked by tequila 1 in Singles & Dating

At the age of 28 I have begun attending church groups in the last month.

On the first night I met a 25 yo lady who seemed to want to talk to me. We were having a good conversation but since it was getting late I cut it off.

When I saw her next she asked for my email and phone number so she could send me more info about the group, which she did via email - why did she need my phone number? but anyway..

there was an activity day last weekend where I saw her again. She was dressed up with nice shoes. I didn't talk to her much as I wanted to meet the other people. On my way leaving the church I saw her waiting around with her friends she told me we can have coffee to discuss anything. I didn't think much about it at that time so I politely suggested a lift home if she was stuck, said goodbye and left.

She has crossed my mind since so I need to hook up with her. I don't know what is appropriate behaviour in these spiritual situations?

2007-03-19 20:21:43 · 10 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 20:21:26 · 12 answers · asked by Joe Guy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

if a girl is a very big flirt and she thinks that she is very beautiful and she wants every boy behind her and if some one boy is not behind her what will be the response of that girl to that boy who is not behind her

2007-03-19 20:21:01 · 10 answers · asked by AaSHEK 4 in Singles & Dating