Is it dagerous to play around with the "wrong" type of women?

Question

Will they end up getting you in trouble?

What I mean is, I have been just talking to dominatrix women online, just casually mentioning my need to be dominated, joking of course, cause I want a good woman for wife.

But sometimes, I almost get worried, because I do feel weak at times, almost under their spell, trying hard to avoid becoming their "slave".

I am particularly worried that if I play around too much, one of them may actually meet me one day, & if I feel to weak, she may punish me & gain sexual control over me.

Am I playing with fire here?
Is it dangerous to joke around with this kind of things?
Do you think they could cause me to fall?

I know there are some women in here, I never thought a lady can look so lovely, but some of them are very sexy & beautiful with long hair, etc.

Should I give this up just in case? One of them already tried to contact me that lived about an hour from me.

Please, your honest opinion on this!

I will be so embarrassed if I do "fall"!!!

Answer 1

You have to decide if you want to explore this type of lifestyle with a dominatrix, I personally had a blast learning to be a slave and spending countless hours tied up and completely helpless. What you have to remember is this is a lifestyle for a lot of the dominatrixes and they don't appreciate you making fun or light of the way they choose to live. I personally would never live in a stable of slaves but a lot of these women live just like that. Its not a game to them, if you are serious about learning, then talk seriously with a dominatrix (or two) and see if it works out. Otherwise quit wasting their time, they have dozens of guys begging to be their slave and they are trying to weed them out. Any questions drop me a line.

Answer 2

Look you are lonely. And clearly this is NOT pleasureable for you at all. You seem so mixed up and confused. You have to realize that if it's making you ask, then you already know, it's probably not healthy for you.

Now, the problem seems to be you need to find friendships. That's a good way to eventually end up in a healthy marriage. If you sit at home just chatting, then you are missing out on the stimulation of actually doing it in person. You don't always have to join a group activity to find people. Sometimes just doing something that you enjoy connects you with others.

I don't think this is a sexual issue at all. It's the idea of a beautiful woman, treating you like their child. That is an issue only you can resolve.

Good luck.

Answer 3

O.K. heres the thing if your worried than its for good reason. If you like to "play" like that then at first find someone who's not hard core yet!
I really don't know much about dominatrix women except what I saw on C.S.I
but my guess is you do need to be careful and I really think that if your looking for a wife type than dominatrix probably isn't the way to go. Good Luck with that!

Answer 4

Yes.. You are playing with fire... and believe me, you will get into trouble..More trouble than you ever thought.. Be a NORMAL guy like most people.. Don't go into all these stupid stuffs. When the right woman, who is normal, comes into your life, you will be very much happier and will thank me for this advise.

Answer 5

You are asking yourself questions and answering it all by yourself yes my dear you are on the wrong path run with patience the race that was set before you. Everything is gonna be all right

Answer 6

Oh goodness... i think you should give it up. its likely going to turn into a bad situation. you find a good girl someday, no more joking people will take you seriously.

Answer 7

i've always been interested in to that stuff but never tried it. i think it may be rewarding in its own way

Answer 8

bad idea.. no no no
nothing more to think about than that