hi
i am leving dubai where i work and my family is there to meet my guy as my parents dont approve him as he is a tailian and a hinfdu
he is really begging me so much to coem
i am so scred to go from dubai without my parents wish
i really ;love this guy but when i come back how will i face my parents
pls help really worried try to convince my pare nts didnt approve
2007-03-19 20:34:47 · 13 answers · asked by ARUNANET 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As you are still staying with your parents, you still need to seek your parents' approval before you can do anything. I suggest you try to talk to them again.
2007-03-19 20:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very nice of you to be so concerned for your parents but this is your life and you must do what is best for you. Your parents are kind of being selfish, rather than seeing this guy makes you happy, they are more concerned with how they will look to other people as parents if you were to be with this non-hindu.
Sometimes parents have good points though and think this person will bring you harm. Listen to what the reasoning is behind your parents disproval. If it is only because he is a non-hindu, then why should you sacrifice your self for them when they are being selfish. If they have some good points, think it through before you go. There is a lot of crazy people out there and they may just be worried... If you have never met this guy they might just be concerned for your safety. Which in that case, I would be too.
2007-03-20 03:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Better take your parents approval, the Italian guy are good lovers but not very much committed, and u may return dejected and there will be no one to support u. Look out for someone who can look after u and support u, so that u don't have to face your parents.
2007-03-21 07:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know sometimes it's adviseable to listen to the parents. How well do you know this guy? I think you probably got to know him thru the net and this will be your first meeting. U know wat guys are gud at? Doing drama. Believe me they are so gud that even Shah Rukh or Amitabhji will be running for cover. They will say anything to make you feel loved and cherished. How they will shower you with luv and make you feel that u're the most important person in thier lives. In 99% of the cases once they get you (not necessarily sex), then its bye bye baby. Then they will come up with 1000 excuses for not being with you. This is from personal experience and also looking at my girlfrens. They all went and some are goin thru this phase. So think it over. U're a women. Think with an open mind. Don't worry bout your parents. Wat do you think you want to do. If u really want to go then go. Stop worrying bout wat your parents will think. But just remember if u go there and meet each oher, and he turns out to be nothing but a worm, then wat.
2007-03-20 04:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by Akki's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For love you need patience.Without the approval of your parents whatever be the happiness you get,all will become meaningless.Try to convince them.A good parents should honour their children's interest.Make them good.All the best.
2007-03-22 08:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by kandaswamyraveendhranperumal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Donot goto him If he loves you he can come to your parents and talk to them and he can also convince his parents too. You can invite him to dubai and start from there with your parents aproval doot let this guy play with you. If he loves you and he wants you let him work for that.
2007-03-20 05:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by Spartan Total Warrior 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. I think you should explain this properly to your parents. Try to explain from A to Z one at a time. I think they'll understand. Hope I'd help you
2007-03-20 08:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation is worse than mine. I think you should explain this properly to your parents. Try to explain from A to Z one at a time. I think they'll understand. Hope I'd help you
2007-03-20 03:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by CuTe BaBy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you really want to do this??? Have you met him? How much do you know about him, his family, his job, his finances? Are you sure he will not make you a prostitute when you reach him?
Think carefully of the above pointers.... and if you are sure go ahead.. If you are not.. please don't leave Dubai..
2007-03-20 03:41:36 · answer #9 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you listen to your parents. listen to them you will repent for this decision in your life, for God sake listen to your parents atlest remember what they have done for you. You can have any guy in your lifey but parents are rare you can't ditch them like that they have seen so many dreams for you, they have fulfilled all your needs and desires now its your time to return are you so selfish.
Go with the decision of your parents. you will be happier as and ever.
2007-03-20 03:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by RUBY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋