Help me please. My best friend was selected as a prefect this year along with me and my other best friend. She is a newly elected prefect and she says she feels great. Not as in the normal great way. As in bossy. She thinks she knows everything and simply catches students when they didn't even comit somehting wrong. It's the so called "power" , in which she says she feels. Is she crazy? I mean, c'mon, she's not the only prefect. And she also calls other people "noobies" as in beginners when she herself is new to this. Help me... How do I stop this act?
2007-03-19 20:38:16 · 8 answers · asked by Meggi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, maybe you should talk to her about it? I know its sometimes hard to do that, but if it gets to be a problem, you SHOULD tell her. I mean its sorta like if your friend walks out of the bathroom and their are hot guys near the bathroom, and she walks out with her hair all messy, toilet paper hangin out of her pants, and her skirt tucked in on the top of the back of her skirt, : you should tell her, right? Its sorta like that situation, i guess. Where its hard to tell her, but you just have to. Its part of being a good friend. If she responds in a bad way, then thats her problem, not yours, and you should just walk away.
I hope I am giving you something useful...
Good Luck...I hope you don't die...
2007-03-19 20:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....She is your best friend isn't it? If you really care about her just point out her fault AND how Imperfect it is making her.
But if you want your bossy friend to learn the lesson by herself it is surely gonna be the hard way...you can tell her that. But please make sure your best friend is really being the Best WITH you or NOT?
2007-03-19 20:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she looks and sounds ridiculous and is making a fool of herself and people are laughing at her behind her back. Tell her if she doesnt get over herself soon she wont have any friends left.
2007-03-19 20:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes my beat friend is being bossy to me, he always tells me what to do,.! well if i think it's right i do it, but if not i gently tell to him that "I will do it in my own way",
that's your life you know, if you let him/her to boss you around you'll be a lonely loser servant of him or her..!
2007-03-19 21:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by igel manalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough!
2007-03-19 20:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by with The Vicious 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it looks like she's caught the case of the power hungry. tell her what she's doing and pray she doesnt bight you.
2007-03-19 20:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she's not all that...remind her of percy in harry potter and how everyone hated him
2007-03-19 21:49:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes dumb her
2007-03-19 22:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋