Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

We dated for 2 yrs. Things were good initially. In this period i was cheated on, lied and disrespected. He broke up and got back with me a couple of times. Finally I moved on with someone else. He convinced me to end things with the new guy in my life. I did it for him cause he was also on my mind. He is treating me exactly the way i wanted all this time and is keeping me really happy. Basically he is the opposite of what he use to be. A whole different person. Will he let me down again??? Is it just time before he reverts back to the old himself cause im available once again. Please tell me. Am i gonna end up hurting myself all over again? Is this just a dream??

2007-03-19 21:29:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 21:28:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This one girl that I am dating told me that she didn’t want me to date other people. I told her that I didn’t want her to date other people too. Are we considered “boyfriend and girlfriend?” or are we still dating partners? She says she is waiting tell this one guy that she doesn’t have feelings for him but she doesn’t have the heart to reject him since he has feelings for her. She told me that she really likes me. But he is in the way. Know what I mean… this is so complicated.

2007-03-19 21:27:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy loves me and want to be my boyfriend,but I don't trust him.I scared that he just playing my heart, at the same time,my mother don't agree I have a boyfriend in this age...but I really like this guy and kinda in love with him...dear friends..what should I do?

2007-03-19 21:27:10 · 3 answers · asked by n_n 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend proposed me saying "I LOVE YOU" what should be my answer to his question???? I am helpless......I love him very much.....

2007-03-19 21:26:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my boyfriend and I got into an argument on saturday night.. whenever we get into an argument it is ALWAYS over something really small and then he just throws his hands up like everything is wrong with our relationship.. when the problem is so easy to fix.. he wasn't honest about something and got caught in a lie.. and it was stupid! JUST BE HONEST! GRrr.. anyways.. Since saturday we haven't hung out and we always see eachother everyday.. well today he told me he wants his space?! ok so i gave it to him :) then later tonight i run into him at the gym and I acted like nothing happened.. he came over to me.. and i was just myself.. totally friendly but not over doing it.. I finished my workout and then he asked if I wanted to run with him.. afterwards he told me "i missed talking to you today" so wtf?! how come he didn't call.. He always does that too.. how come he doesn't call if he misses talking to me? I dont get it

2007-03-19 21:25:03 · 3 answers · asked by BeachGrl1985 2 in Singles & Dating

{coz' a boy in Cavite(er...neighbor)getting crush to me,getting my bike and saying "crush kita!".Maybe this happens to you.

2007-03-19 21:24:48 · 4 answers · asked by infinity_yuki angel2121 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do girls really have a hard time rejecting a guy… like telling him that she has no feelings for him?

2007-03-19 21:24:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it says shes a swinger on myspace so i guess i can perpare for the worse when i ask her. but want trick questions can i ask her to tell if she really is a swinger? or if she just likes me. because i know she is raised better than that. i know she thinks im cute and i tried to get closer to her by putting my arm around her when she was sitting almost ontop of me. and she said ur creaping me out. i was clueless at that point. and her crack was showing everytime she bent over. and she was leaning on me and putting her legs on me as we were watching a movie. o and i told her i was hungery and she said im the other "h" word. so i know she thinks im good loking. how can i get her to b real and c if she really likes me like i do her. it seems evertime i like a girl they just want me 4 sex. and i get heartbroken everytime. some wonder y i dont have i girlfriend. so please help me ans this question..........

2007-03-19 21:23:24 · 2 answers · asked by art w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 21:22:56 · 23 answers · asked by fish 1 in Singles & Dating

we get on well with other people, but if where on our own he sometimes stutters and if i get close to him he goes red. I sometimes catch him looking at me, he quickly looks away i dont know why,

2007-03-19 21:21:58 · 26 answers · asked by Annie N 1 in Singles & Dating

I filed for child support 3 years ago for my almost 4 year old daughter. I have yet to see a single penny. I call the child support office regularly, but it is always the same answer. He lives in Ohio, I live in Kentucky. He keeps running.... They took his tax refund this year, but that was for the money which he owed the state of KY for medical expenses. I told the child support investigator that, and she said that it will in no way help me. Is there a way I can receive any type of child support without him actually paying?

2007-03-19 21:21:19 · 13 answers · asked by Christina T 1 in Family

I'm in year 10, studying year 11 IT, although i'm only 14. There are a few guys in my class who like me, and although i'm not worried, i'm confused. In class one day, a guy came up to me and said "I like you a lot, but im not going to go out with you because your to young" im glad he can control himself, but my ex is older than me [by about a year and a half], so what's this guys problem? Did he tell me to let me know there is nothing between us, or there is something there? Does he really like me?

2007-03-19 21:20:06 · 14 answers · asked by capsimi 2 in Singles & Dating

A 41 year old man moving in with his mother, because he just left his family. The reason he left is because he just wasn't into me anymore ( 14 years together ). And the family life was not for him. The kids and the animals make him to nervous.He does not like the commotion. His mother telling him go out and have some drinks, go to the bar, have fun. Instead of encouraging him to go back to his family. He does not want to see himself as aging,he would not get his portrait done because of that. At christmas the kids started to get out of hand, and instead of dealing with it, he hurried us out to leave. His mother said " he's getting to nervous," All he does is talk about old rock music, and how one day he is going to play the guitar. He used to be in love with Barbie, and he really thought all woman should look like that. He even said to me once, " I can't have kids with you, you are not tall or blond." I thought he was joking, he wasn't. Is thid weird?

2007-03-19 21:19:09 · 18 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 21:19:05 · 6 answers · asked by Clint 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I have been long distance for about 3 years prior to breaking up 2 months ago, and it is really getting hard for him( for me too I just see a bigger picture here), causing fustration and tension between the two of us. We have been fighting off and on because for the last 6 months I have been further away on job assignments that he told me to take( which were clearly talked about before accepting them). He blames me now for taking these jobs after telling me he was ok with them. He tells me that this is the reason why our relationship is failing. And he really thinks he has no fault in this situation. I know that he is lonely(me too) , but I fell like something else is going on because it is like one day he wants me and the next day he dosen't. We are at a terrible state right. I love him and really want ot be with but he is confusing me. I need some advice.

2007-03-19 21:18:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so. This guy I had a reealllly big crush on, pretty much rejects me for being to "girly".. and i'm sorry... but I am attractive and I don't care who knows I know it... well, today I find out.. this guy is dating this horribly ugly guy!!! how does this happen??.. and why to me?... This guy never actually rejected me, he just told me he wuldnt date me because im to girly..... whats his problem???

Do people today REALLY look past looks????

2007-03-19 21:18:38 · 7 answers · asked by Chris L 1 in Singles & Dating

your man to be a bad boy and a nice guy at the same time?

2007-03-19 21:18:10 · 15 answers · asked by TheSilverBeetles 4 in Singles & Dating

Is the offer of the hug to the second friend a PITY HUG?

2007-03-19 21:16:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I have been long distance for about 3 years, and it is really getting hard for him( for me too I just see a bigger picture here), causing fustration and tension between the two of us. We have been fighting off and on because for the last 6 months I have been further away on job assignments that he told me to take( which were clearly talked about before accepting them). He blames me now for taking these jobs after telling me he was ok with them. He tells me that this is the reason why our relationship is failing. And he really thinks he has no fault in this situation. I know that he is lonely(me too) , but I fell like something else is going on because it is like one day he wants me and the next day he dosen't. We are at a terrible state right. I love him and really want ot be with but he is confusing me. I need some advice.

2007-03-19 21:16:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I saw a woman today at the beach, pull her daughters baithing suit off to give her a spanking right in front of what looked to be her little brothers. I would say the girl was about 13-14 yrs old. Her mom had her laying on her belly on the towel on the sand for atleast 5 minutes before she slipped her bottoms back up. i thought it was awful, and figurd this girl was too old for this kind of discipline. Is she too old or is it just me?

2007-03-19 21:15:56 · 24 answers · asked by Laura 77 1 in Family

I mean sometimes people will notice the look?even if they know nothing about what u have been doing.

2007-03-19 21:15:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 20 yr old full time college student, taking 19 credits.. i have been dating a guy i like for awhile, hes 28,,he payed for everything at first but he invited me to his friends St Pattys party, it was at a big club that was catered.. He told me its $50 a person.. I met him at his friends house where some of his friends were.. In front of everyone he tells me,, "do you have the $50? I felt humiliated and handed it over.. He could have asked me later in private... I felt ashamed.. Then he tells me after the party that his friend was upset because she liked him and he brought me to the party...............
Another time last week he told me that if money is a question for me we can dine at the local pizza shop to suit my financial needs...

Is he a jerk?

2007-03-19 21:15:14 · 7 answers · asked by Jetglam 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a business woman who works 48 hours a week and have serious trouble jugling a man and work.

2007-03-19 21:13:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My god! some one killed ChineseHacker-2 Monitor. this is the pop up when I connect to internet....please tell me how to stop and what is this about......is it virus or any thing else.......thanks....

2007-03-19 21:11:57 · 1 answers · asked by banyamin12 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 21:11:06 · 11 answers · asked by Brain-washed! 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend & I have been living together for 2 years. He has never been on my tenancy agreement & all the bills are in my name, cause its my house & my bills. I do ask him for £60 a week rent (when he is working - which to be honest, isnt consistant)
We're about to move house & my new landlord is his uncle. (who he is working for at the moment) He will not be signing this tenancy agreement either. I feel as if he thinks he's in control of all of this cause 'its family'. I would like to deal directly with the landlord. I dont want him to feel insignificant but this is my tenancy, my landlord, my money that pays the bills & therefore my responsibility. i dont want situations to occur in the future that involve him calling my landlord or my landlord calling him about anything thats tenant/landlord business & me being the 3rd wheel.

how do i resolve this without offending my boyfriend. I do want him to feel like it is his home but i prefer to be in control of my own business.

2007-03-19 21:10:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...I mean in the house?

2007-03-19 21:08:57 · 1 answers · asked by StingRay 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been debating getting a girlfriend.

Some of them are so nice, my heart almost fails, because I almost slip up & decide to go out with them.

I have tried to be "powerful" & not need a girl for a few years.

It doesn't seem to be working!!!! And some of them are absolute angels towards me!!!!

It's killing me!

Should I just give up & date one of them, perhaps get married?
It almost seems fated sometimes, that I just cannot stay single!

Men? Women? Will you all help me decide what to do please?

I will honestly consider all your advices, & if you help me with this, I honestly owe you all mega-yahoo points!

Thank you!

2007-03-19 21:07:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My head spins (well, almost), my heart beats faster, and I feel cold and hot at the same time. I also get kinda drowsy, my fingers shiver a little and I just want to be touched warmly or crawl somehwere warm and keep my head down.

I am not on to drugs, and have never been. I used to get this sometimes in a much milder form when I was in school, but now I'm in my early twenties and I got this after a relatively long time. Something nasty did happen, but I didn't have to get this for that! I became confident after leaving school, so I don't know why this happened to me again.

Help!

2007-03-19 21:07:22 · 4 answers · asked by Latina 2 in Singles & Dating