They say something really rude and inappropriate..you tell them about it..then all they say is"shut up"Why are they being so rude for no reason?Would you keep them around?How would you handle them?
2007-03-19 20:33:38 · 11 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is an old quote that goes something like, "Advice is something you ask for when you already know the answer but wish you didn't." Does that answer your question?
2007-03-19 20:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by benjilove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be best to step back and give the person some room to think about their behavior. It would be best to just hold on to the friendship as a acquaintance, until apologize is given. If the person don't make an effort to excuse their past rudeness, then you know where you stand in that person's heart.
If the person give a good hearty apology to you, offer the acceptance and maybe even discuss the situation openly. Your friends are entitle to make some mistakes, and true friends admits to their mistakes. This is how we learn from each other and judge only according to people attitude, not religion, race, or sexual preference. Mostly pray for your friend.
God Bless
2007-03-20 03:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id keep them around, anyone should be allowed to have friends, I don't think It would be right to keep someone left out just because of the way they were raised. I'd just ignore them for a while until they notice that I don't find their rudeness amusing.
2007-03-20 03:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by Arg. Heinze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes friends are being misunderstood, maybe they are not in the mood for that time, just keep understanding them, and they'll change, and they'll say sorry to you,.
but if they don't change even though you always understand them, WHO NEEDS enemies, when you have friends like that?
don't worry it's just normal to a friendship to be that way, and then thing will be good as new,!
2007-03-20 03:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by igel manalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that. We did not last that long. I guess they always think that they are right, and they should not apologize even though i am sure that deep inside they realize they did something wrong and it bothers them.
2007-03-20 03:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by City-Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they wouldn't be a friend, they are insecure therefore to build up themselves they have to berate other, you would not keep them around, never have allowed them to become any more than an aquaintance in the first place, but in this case, start the distancing process.
2007-03-20 03:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by chazzn101 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would NOT be a good friend. Check my post on What Is A Good Friend Quesition. I wrote a long thing. I take pride in that.
2007-03-20 03:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person all of a sudden acts that way it could be that they have stuff on their mind. if they always act this way then I would leave the friendship because it isnt worth the emotional abuse.
2007-03-20 03:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they have some personal issues and are irritable because of it, which causes them to behave this way as they are not happy. Find out if all is ok
2007-03-20 03:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices..Be really rude to them whenever they are rude to you, or keep away from them. I will keep away from such people
2007-03-20 03:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋