Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

I lost my youngest brother, than my Mom , and then my Dad, in less than six months, this was three years ago. I am just starting to feel depression, and just thinking more about death, how to keep them in my son's memory (10 years old). I still feel empty. As I lost part of my heart, with every Death. More so my parents, as I thought they would live forever! I feel, now, since I am created by my parents, that when my Mom died, first, I lost half of my heart, than when my Dad died, I lost the other half. I am young, but just seems am just going through the stages, three years later! My son seems like is starting grieving more now, also. Always talking about about thing they said or the littlest things of food my Dad will give him when he was in the hospital, like the saltines, and til this day, he loves those little saltines, and he always thinks of his Pop Pop!
I know I am not alone. So, love to know what you all are feeling or felt. Thanks for your answers! (Hugs)

2007-03-19 15:55:16 · 8 answers · asked by Jersey Girl 2 in Family

they hate you

2007-03-19 15:55:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-19 15:54:38 · 35 answers · asked by underdog 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What should I do, Im afraid to talk to my mom...

2007-03-19 15:54:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Does He Like ME....PLZ HELP? I am desperate for an answer!?
I was walking around the mall with a friend and all of a sudden I see this guy that used to like me in like the 4th grade and in the 10th grade probably...I am now in grade 12...and he waved to me...then he went around the corner and just popped up and was like hey NAME... I was like hey and he started to talk to me...he then said he was going out with this girl named SOMEONE...Does he still like me??We never talked for like the longest time and it was really akward. He even made a joke of how he should go shop around with us... why did he just randomly come and talk to me like that? Does he still have feelings for me and what should I do??
BUT WHY WOULD HE JUST TELL ME HE HAS A GF??? HE MIGHT BE TRYING TO MAKE ME JELOUSE??

2007-03-19 15:54:26 · 9 answers · asked by Cheyenne F 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 31 female. I keep having fantasies about being with a woman. But in real life I would never act them out and I am not phsically attrated to women at all. Is this normal? Have you ever fantasized about being with a woman? Sometimes I want to tell my b/f, maybe it'll spice things up, but I cant get myself to do it. Any advice?

2007-03-19 15:54:25 · 5 answers · asked by FemFatale 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend is living with her Aunt and Uncle. They are abusing her dog and treating her badly, but not abuse. I am worried my friend's little 1 year old cousin will be next. I can't call social services for she will loose her mom forever. Any advice?

2007-03-19 15:53:47 · 4 answers · asked by juliainco 2 in Friends

I just bought my wedding dress. It has a train which I really didn't want mainly because I didn't want to carry it around all through the reception. They told me that that they will add hooks so that you can pin it up after the ceremony. Does this work well and will it look ok?

2007-03-19 15:53:37 · 26 answers · asked by Heart 1 in Weddings

I am thinking about getting implants, but am not sure if it is a good idea. Any thoughts?

2007-03-19 15:51:59 · 2 answers · asked by nerby79 1 in Singles & Dating

In the uni holidays I ran into this chick I am into who is in some of my classes. I was with my mum and sister at the time. When I came back to uni we got chatting and then she asked me if the girl I was with was my sister. Do you think the only reason she asked me this was because she was subtley trying to find out if I had a gf and she is interested in me? Or don't you think I should put too much emphasis on it. But why would she ask me that? Am I in?

2007-03-19 15:51:50 · 17 answers · asked by Modus Operandi 2 in Singles & Dating

im just so sick of him hes childish and immature and then his emotions always go up and down im just so sick of him but its so hard for me to let it go and just move on! im stuck on him! how can i get over him?!?

2007-03-19 15:51:34 · 8 answers · asked by sexyjasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

Heroin or Crack?

2007-03-19 15:51:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have no friends.. My Best Friend hates me and is moving. she was my only friend. i dont have abf. plus no friends!!! :(

2007-03-19 15:50:26 · 9 answers · asked by kaira biasu 1 in Friends

i'm a pretty shy person, but i'm really outgoing once people get to know me. this guy seems really outgoing, but also shy like me. i want to get to know him, but i don't want to be clingy and make it look like i'm forcing him to talk to me. the guy is in high school, like me, but i think he may be older. we go to a youth group thing together so that's the best way for me to talk to him, but i also don't want to make it look like i'm flirting. i just want to be friends with him because he seems like a pretty cool guy and the rest of the girls in the group are stuck up and have their own cliques already. the guys are a lot easier to get along with.

2007-03-19 15:50:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-19 15:49:20 · 3 answers · asked by H. W 1 in Friends

im not married and she is, shes 26 and has a small kid.
she always tells me how crappy her husband is and that she wishes she hadn't made that 'mistake'.
Shes kinda shy but always finds ways to end up with me after work in an empty office or whatever, we just talk but i can tell its getting to that point... she told me 2 weeks ago she doesnt cheat but then yesterday she agreed to meet me out for a movie and meal, but she said "we have to plan it...."
What do i DO?

2007-03-19 15:49:13 · 17 answers · asked by Its me 4 in Singles & Dating

is it like that?
I find people with less education tend to be more promiscuous, and also dont think its wrong to have many sex partners.
so here is another question, is one night stand a bad thing to do?

2007-03-19 15:49:12 · 13 answers · asked by jing j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love both my parents sooooo much!!!

2007-03-19 15:49:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ivenever been very questionsble in terms of love, but now ive been asking it and find myself thinking of it........

2007-03-19 15:49:00 · 12 answers · asked by starreena 1 in Singles & Dating

i am not saying all girls but tall the girls i went out with has done thes y do they end it with you and tell you over text and tell you they are seeing someone eles

2007-03-19 15:48:05 · 14 answers · asked by dober1985 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, i know i can be the typical bridezilla ( i mean its my special day, and i will only have on in my lifetime, so i want it to be special) but my mom is taking everything over. she never had a big wedding and i feel she is using me as her way to get to have that wedding she never had. i just got engaged last week and she wont even let me input any ideas for my engagement party? i feel i cant say anything becuase she is giving us a but of money for this wedding, but so are my fiancees parents and they arent acting this way.

2007-03-19 15:47:45 · 8 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Weddings

I like this girl a lot and I think she likes me too. The problem is that both of us are incredibly shy around each other (keep in mind that we are exceptionally loud and social around our friends.) But when I go to talk to her I kinda freeze up and she herself turns very red. What should I do? I really like this girl and don't want her to lose interest in me. Should I ask her to the library to study for a test (or wou

2007-03-19 15:47:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im planning to ask this guy to tolo. any suggestions on a creative way to do it?

2007-03-19 15:47:16 · 2 answers · asked by Grunge_Girl. 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21, I'll be 22 when I get married next may. I'm a vergin and I'm scared to death about sex. I know absolutely nothing, all I know about penises are crude drawings done by drunks on the dorm walls. My biggest worries are #1: is sex going to hurt, and #2: I don't want my fears to make it bad for him. He knows I'm scared to death, and he's really worried about hurting me, just as much as I am of being hurt. I want our first time to be good, despite our fears. Any suggestions? And I don't want high-school advice, it is an important time for us, and I want experienced, mature people. He's really important to me, and I don't wnat to let him down. I think tampons hurt, so I can only imagine what its gong to feel like. Is it always going to hurt, or just the first time.

2007-03-19 15:46:35 · 3 answers · asked by p51mustang1965 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I know ive asked this once already but nobody answered and I'm having a lot of problems with this and its kinda hard to admit it. I just can't talk to girls. I can talk to anybody except the girl I like. People keep telling me to not get nervous, to suck it up, and not to show that I'm nervous when I talk to her. The bottom line is I just get flustered and things just don't come out right, and no matter what i'm going to be really nervous. How can I fix this?

2007-03-19 15:46:20 · 21 answers · asked by spacemanspiff091352 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were married for 8 years. He is a major alcoholic, but I love him so. We have 2 children together, and no matter how hard I try, I am okay for a bit, then hurt like hell, cuz I miss him. He is not willing to stop drinking and I am sure he has been with other people. but we keep going back and forth. We are like night and day. I went on a date with someone else, and I try to move on or just be alone, but I just cry a lot, out of the blue. How do you move on? I always see the potential in someone, but I dont believe in the BS. I am not afraid to be alone, I am just tired of feeling loves pain. Please give me some advice. I am sure alot of people know how much it hurts to love an alcoholic. Thank you!!!

2007-03-19 15:45:28 · 19 answers · asked by Tara 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 15:45:19 · 35 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 in Singles & Dating

whats the best way to ask a girl out u don't really know

2007-03-19 15:44:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Oh wait, you probably are normal.

I have red hair and pale skin, and Im shy. I wish I could be normal for one day to see how it feels, just have brown or black hair, tan skin, and friends.

2007-03-19 15:44:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Where would you look to find the woman who wants a long-term relationship, rather than just a fling etc? Do women these days even want longer-term relationship?

2007-03-19 15:44:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating