What should I do, Im afraid to talk to my mom...
2007-03-19 15:54:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe its better for you in the long term that they do get a divorce. Youll be ok.
2007-03-19 15:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by buttnut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce isn't the end of the world. You would be best to stay out of it. If they cannot live together without fighting, divorce may be a good thing. It is hard to live in a house when the parents are fighting all the time. I don't know why your dad is in jail, but I think you should just support your mom as all of this must be hard on her. (it is hard on you too I know.)
You two must hang together.
2007-03-19 15:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by Chloe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your mom. She'll be able to answer a lot of questions for you. As for divorce...
I know you don't want to hear this, but sometimes it's the best thing adults can do. If they fight all the time, that's not good for you (or them). If they don't live together anymore, they can't fight as much, and in the long run it'll be better for everyone. Just hang in there and keep your chin up!!
2007-03-19 16:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by shamarsla21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let it be known that you are an important part of the family and you demand to know whats going on.
Talk to your mom, but don't judge her, just take what she has to say and think about it later. Moms having a tough time and dad screwed up and it affects you and mom.
Support mom even if you don't clearly agree with her, because you and mom are a team now.
Good luck
2007-03-19 16:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry for what you're dealing with, at 10 years previous you ought to be taking area on your pals no longer being so fearful of your mom, I went with the aid of an fantastically comparable adventure i'm 17 so i understand the way it feels, yet despite your mothers says its no longer your fault your nevertheless the baby she's the person its approximately time she steps as much as that place, it appears like your mom has some extreme subjects that are no longer something to do with you she basically shall we them out on you because of the fact your closest to her. yet im going to be as we talk with you, think ofyou've have been given to tell somebody in the previous it gets any worse you pronounced she threatened you with a knife what if she stabs then you definately realises what she's achieved? a minimum of communicate with a relied on instructor or a friends mom, in case you tell a friends mom perhaps they might enable you reside at their domicile for a whilst. As for now whilst your mom comes domicile and she or he's indignant go into your backyard or get out your place until eventually at last shes calmer and attempt and stay with your dad as much as you could. sturdy success hun desire this enables :)
2016-10-02 10:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, You are too young to worry about these things. Let your parents work it out for themselves. There is probably a good reason they might split up. Not to make you feel bad but I think these things just have to work out for themselves. In the mean time though If you feel that you need help couping with the situation get a councilor, therapist, or a good friend. You know you should tel her how it makes you feel....you know the situation. I never did, I regret it.
2007-03-19 16:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by xX~*Vanity*~Xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to someone, even if it is not your mom. Feeling anxious can affect how you feel and affect school and friendships. It may not solve your problems but it may help you vent and relieve some stress. What about a counselor at school or a teacher? Or even a family member you can trust? Get help for yourself. Don't blame yourself for the fighting!
2007-03-19 15:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your parent's marriage....if they end up divorcing it's their business not yours. This might sound mean to you but I've seen children step way out of line on this issue to the point their parents fighting, divorce, or parent's remarriage after death is used to get attention - many of those children end up in foster homes detached from their family with no clue what there life is about. Don't mess yours up by thinking you are married to your parents.
2007-03-20 01:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get them both in the same room together and tell them what you just said on your post(youre question).Im sure they both love you and if you tell them your afraid theyll divorce and your afraid to talk to them, they may soften up towards one another.They may not, but if theres a chance they will then telling them what youve told us just may do the trick.
2007-03-19 16:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be afraid to talk to your mom =( and if your parents just simply can;t get through this rough patch and do (God forbid) have to get a divorce, you will get throught it. just remember, we may go through some of the hardestttt things in life, but the sun keeps shining.
good luck girlie
2007-03-19 16:00:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear girl. Go talk to your mom about what you are feeling. Parents have problems sometimes and don't know how to work them out themselves. Your mom is there to help you.
2007-03-19 15:59:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋