I like this girl a lot and I think she likes me too. The problem is that both of us are incredibly shy around each other (keep in mind that we are exceptionally loud and social around our friends.) But when I go to talk to her I kinda freeze up and she herself turns very red. What should I do? I really like this girl and don't want her to lose interest in me. Should I ask her to the library to study for a test (or wou
2007-03-19 15:47:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uld that sound too geeky?) Please tell me what to do.
2007-03-19 15:47:57 · update #1
I totally understand, my fiancee and I were both this way when we were in high-school. It can be hard to come out and say something. If you get too nervous to ask her out could I just suggest maybe just being friends, you never know what's gonna happen. Don't be afraid to tell her, what's the worst that can happen? She doesn't like you, which is no reflection on you, its just not chemistry. If you can get up the nerve then ask her, if not, friendships is awesome until you can. My fiancee were friends for 2 years before he got up the nerves to ask me, and only did because he knew I was going away to college and he wouldn't have to face me if I said no. Good luck
2007-03-19 15:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by p51mustang1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this girl likes you back, she'll want to spend time with you no matter what you're doing. Just go up to her and say that you might need help studying and ask her for help. If you guys are working on something together, you'll become more comfortable around each other and you won't have to worry about conversation starters because you're discussing the exam.
Don't worry - everybody's a little nervous around someone they have a crush on. You already know that she likes you, so don't worry too much about trying to impress her. Just be yourself - she already likes you for who you are :)
2007-03-19 22:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by f0rever_dreaming 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a start, you guys will be alone and might get shy, but you can break the ice by taking some munchies (if they allow them in the study rooms) and ask her to take a break and go for a walk(together of course), you can also call her after wards to thank her for studying with you and tell her that if you get a good grade you should go to the movies or out to eat "to celebrate" or as a reward for your hard work :) Good Luck on your test and with the girl !!!
2007-03-19 22:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by Stella d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember these days, trust me they truly are the best days of your life ;) Okay, what to do about the girl, you're both being shy because you both like each other. Both of you are waiting for the other one to make the move, that way they can be sure. Take it from me, actions, (and gut instincts) speak so much louder than words, if you really like her ask her if she'd go out somewhere with you, anywhere...trust me if she likes you she will be so thrilled you finally asked her out somewhere she will be more than willing to go anywhere you ask!
2007-03-19 23:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by BRWNEYES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that does sound alittle geeky...you should interact while in groups until you both feel comfortable in being alone together or at least an item around others...that way you can be the person you want to be.
2007-03-19 22:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the guy so ask her out. If she likes you she'll say yes. You have to face your fears if you don't you'll spend forever thinking what would have happened if you would have asked her out. GOOD LUCK, and don't get scared if you don't ask her out then you won't know if she will go out with you.
2007-03-19 23:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by CKP ILG!!!!!!! ILCBDKAP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be classy. Ask the girl if she want to go to 31 flavors on Saturday.
2007-03-19 22:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by Dallas D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to a pizza place just you and her have a few slices of pizza and sodas. While things are calmed and you guys are eating ask her if she will be your girlfriend. Tell her that you like her alot and would like to be her boyfriend.
2007-03-19 22:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time ask her if she wants to get together (library sounds fine) and if if you freeze up, kiss her (hopefully she won't lose interest but it might get her more interested in you) tons of luck!!
2007-03-19 22:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by rhinestone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm i dont really have an answer but u could get another person to ask her out for u. thats wat i've done and it works good. If u want 2 ask her out in person ur gonna need to grow some balls sorry but it's how u get things done lol neways i hope u find my advice helpful
2007-03-19 22:55:16 · answer #10 · answered by BIG K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋