Need help talking to girls?

Question

I know ive asked this once already but nobody answered and I'm having a lot of problems with this and its kinda hard to admit it. I just can't talk to girls. I can talk to anybody except the girl I like. People keep telling me to not get nervous, to suck it up, and not to show that I'm nervous when I talk to her. The bottom line is I just get flustered and things just don't come out right, and no matter what i'm going to be really nervous. How can I fix this?

Answer 1

the best thing to do is tell her your nervouse tel her the truth be like i like you alot but 4 some reason i get really nervouse when i m around you

Answer 2

I know how you feel dude. I use to suck at talking to girls once. Not anymore tho.. here's what I do..

Always try to create 'playful conflict' with the woman:

• If she says she’s a good girl, tell her you want someone bad.
• If she says she’s cool, say you’re cooler - or tell her she’s a dork.
• Thumb wrestle after a playful argument to see who's right.
• If she likes something, say it doesn't look good.
• If she thinks something is cool, give her a weird look.
• If she says she doesn't like something, tell her how good it looks.
• If she sits next to you, tell her to keep her distance
• If she says she likes an actor, tell her she has a crush on him
• If she places her hand on your leg, give her a weird look like she coming on to you.
• If she says let’s go home, say “I’m not going home with you! I don’t even know you!” Accuse her of being a bad girl whenever possible.
• If you're both playing a game, make a confident wager that you’ll win. (And always playfully cheat to win.)
• If she does something (normal or not), poke your tongue out at her to keep her guessing.

Get it? Keep the emotions LIVELY.

It's really just about flirting and having fun with women. Not tricking them or being fake. Try it.

Always be playful, mysterious but not necessarily cocky. You can throw in the odd cocky comment but be careful not to use them too much especially if you have above average looks.

Use your own judgment about when using these tips would be appropriate. Different situations will demand for different responses.

Hope that helps.

Answer 3

You don't fix it you just be you ( as if you have not heard this allot)
Keep trying as you get around more girls you will get better is like riding a bike once it comes it will be easy but for right now
you just need to understand no matter how old you are there will always be a girl who will make you all tied up just because she is so pretty and so nice you just get nervous

Answer 4

Personally, I'd find it really charming if a guy I liked admitted to me that being around me made him flustered.

Try to make her the focus of the conversation --- talk about things she's interested in, ask her about herself, etc. Not only do people love to talk about themselves, but the effort on your part will get your mind off of how hard you think it is and onto just talking and having fun.

Remember --- practice makes perfect!

Answer 5

i use to have a bad blushing problem. it made talk to anyone horrific, especially girls. anyways, now it's usually not a problem. what helps is when i imagine looking at my insignificant life from space. i, and possibly you, get "flustered" because we get so fixated in the moment. it's like the universe has stopped, and everyone is watching to see your next move. nerve wreaking. anyways, just remember how stupid and pointless life is. you are just human, and so is this girl. remind yourself that it's all silly stuff that amounts to nothing in the long run, EVEN if you dont believe it. laugh at your life. i'm sure you can do it buddy. good luck!

Answer 6

It sounds stupid, but try talking to yourself in a mirror or practice with a friend or family member you trust. At the end of the day, your gonn have to deal with the nerves and get it over with. The more you do it, the easier it will get. And remember, nothing any girl says to you is going to destroy you. As hard as it may seem, just go for it! You won't regret it.

Answer 7

A girl really isn't that scary. Me being a girl I would know that. Don't worry about what ur saying just say something then the conversation will start to go and eventually u would have been talking for hours about nothing and it would grow easier to talk to her. At least that is how it works for guys.

Answer 8

you need incouragement you need to be strong she dosent want to see you as a fraid little wimp be strong show her your really a man you sound like a nice guy that deserves a nice girl i/m going to tell you just how it is go buy 2 pc,heart put one around your neck and ask her if she will ware the other half for you kiss her on the lips and this could be the best day of the rest of your life

Answer 9

Well,think the girl that she is anybody that you can talk to. Imagine yourself that you are a friendly and good conversationalist person, so you don't get nervous when you talk to this girl that you like. Just take it easy...

Answer 10

Maybe before you see her, think about what you're going to say to her or talk about with her. I would say... first find out why you get so flustered... Does she know you like her? If she does, then just try your hardest to talk to her. Sorry I couldn't help more hun. Good luck!!!

Answer 11

what do you want from this girl that you like ? do you have an an agenda when it comes to girls ?
stop trying to be somebody , be yourself , when in dark what do you do ? you slow down and get used to your surroundings if you try to move too fast you bump in to things and hurt yourself.life is very much like this.be comfortable in you surroundings you dont have to try saying something smart ,you rush into things , everything falls in place with time.meeting a girl its chemistry you will know.you may not have to say anything.be yourself.good luck.